Female subs seeking on-line Dom, please read

[msteel4u]

On-line Dom is seeking his female sub (more info inside)

Finding the right lead statement to get subs to read the note is tough. How much information can someone really put in, in 10 words or less! If I had the room, my "Title" line would read:

Dom, who believes in a loving but firm approach with his subs, seeks honest, dedicated (to their submission) and committed (to their Dom) female sub, to share a powerful, close and genuine relationship "on-line".

It's hard, truly hard, to cut through all the crap that surrounds the BDSM lifestyle. So many fakes out there on both ends of the spectrum. "Dom's" who really care more about the sex than the sub. "subs" who want someone to take care of them without feeling the need to care for the "Dom". Trolls on both sides (Dom wannabes, sub "make mes"). My personal favorite, female subs who are really guys posing as women for some perverted thrill.

So why do the genuine people still cut through all of this in search for the right O/one. Because when it happens, when you find them it is very fulfilling to that part of the Dom/sub's life. This is what I seek.

As my ad said, I'm in search of a female sub, that, like me, is seeking an on-line expression of this lifestyle, due to circumstances or lifestyle that conflicts with having a live arrangement. I am looking for someone who is extremely honest, dedicated to her submission and commited to her relationship with a Master. Someone who wants to be cared for and protected, while at the same time, dedicating herself to her Master's happiness. Experience with a Dom isn't necessary, in fact, someone without pre-conceived expectations can be preferable. Being submissive and wanting to experience that side of you is the only real requirement, other than beign female in gender!

Who I am: I'm a professional man who unfortunately does a lot of travel, making a "live" relationship in possible to experience. In the end, I would be spending a lot of time "on-line" with my sub. If that is the case, why not open up the scope of where I look to find the right sub? That is what lead me to this ad. I have experience this relationship both live and on-line and have had a great experience with both (as well as some that were not as great). I'm into more than just the sex, as I believe in caring for my pet, protecting her and teaching her. Although I feel that sex isn't the primary goal, it does have a role in the relationship! Finally, I'm not into extreme pain, or degrading of a sub. As I feel that the greatest gift a sub can give is her submission, I don't feel she's a doormat to wipe your feet on.

So, if you might be interested in exploring more, please respond here or send me a private message as you get an e-mail letting you know there is a response. I look forward to meeting all who come forward and I wish all who desire to find their O/one, all the best.

Steel

 

[kajira311]

I'm afraid this would break my heart

I'm posting this publicly rather than privately because I don't think I'm the only one who feels this way.

Let's say I contact you and we're off to the races, burning up the keyboards with our witty prose and steamy cyber. Let's say I really do become attached to you, as we submissive women are known to do.

We can't connect physically. I can't feel you on me.

I'm afraid the longing would drive me crazy, and that's the last damn thing I need.

So I wish you well in your search, but it sounds like a recipe for heartbreak to me.

 

[msteel4u]

kajira

I fully understand the meaning of your post and I'd like to take an opportunity to respond, although I won't refute your feelings, because I acknowledge that having an on-line relationship is not for everyone.

For me it is a trade-off really. The struggle to want to experience that aspect of who we are (Dom/sub) but can't due to circumstances in your r/l, versus finding someone who you could experience this lifestyle with, understanding the limitations, through means other than r/l. I hope that makes sense.

For some subs that I have met along the way, they don't feel comfortable openly expressing their submissive side, but long to experience it. This alternative is a workable solution.

I guess in the end, technology changes the way we experience relatinships. First we could only visit loved ones on "once in a life time" trips to see each other. Then came the postal service so we could keep in touch with our loved ones. The telephone really revolutionized communication. Now, with the internet, written communication and information exchange is so much more efficient (you'll notice that I will never say that technology is necessarily making things "better"!!).

Well, I've carried on too long. I wish you the best in your search. Be well.

Steel

 

[msteel4u]

Thanks to everyone who has responded. I am still looking, but have met a lot of interesting and facinating women and have had some great conversations! Keep 'em coming!!

Steel

 

[msteel4u]

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[SolarisDom]

I just wanted to say I wish I could come close to articulating the situation online that well, all very well said.

 

[msteel4u]

Thank you

I just wanted to say I wish I could come close to articulating the situation online that well, all very well said.

Thanks for the compliment!! Best of luck in your journey!

Steel