newkinkyguy
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- Jun 20, 2016
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Hi ladies & gents,
Whilst I have some experience of d/s, I feel it's not nearly enough.
My partner is a submissive & has been for years. Unfortunately, she is also very reluctant to discuss what she needs. I think she likes it to be spontaneous & part of the thrill is not knowing what is coming next.
I'm looking for ideas as to how I can dominate my partner.
It doesn't necessarily need to be extreme, although she does like that on the odd occasion. The most important thing is that it is arousing. Obviously, not everything is going to be for her but ideas would definitely help.
I have made her do things against her will & that seemed to get her very excited, but it has to be when she's really up for it!
Begging for orgasm is good too although I don't like to do the same things too often for fear of making it boring & predictable.
Any other ideas or scenarios would be gratefully received.
Personal experiences would be even better as sometimes fantasies don't seem such a good idea when carried out for real
.
Obviously, there are things she's definitely not into & know to avoid those things. This is something that involves the too of us, no third parties.
Thanks
P.s. I don't mind if the stories are cut & paste from previous posts, so long as they're real.
Whilst I have some experience of d/s, I feel it's not nearly enough.
My partner is a submissive & has been for years. Unfortunately, she is also very reluctant to discuss what she needs. I think she likes it to be spontaneous & part of the thrill is not knowing what is coming next.
I'm looking for ideas as to how I can dominate my partner.
It doesn't necessarily need to be extreme, although she does like that on the odd occasion. The most important thing is that it is arousing. Obviously, not everything is going to be for her but ideas would definitely help.
I have made her do things against her will & that seemed to get her very excited, but it has to be when she's really up for it!
Begging for orgasm is good too although I don't like to do the same things too often for fear of making it boring & predictable.
Any other ideas or scenarios would be gratefully received.
Personal experiences would be even better as sometimes fantasies don't seem such a good idea when carried out for real

Obviously, there are things she's definitely not into & know to avoid those things. This is something that involves the too of us, no third parties.
Thanks

P.s. I don't mind if the stories are cut & paste from previous posts, so long as they're real.
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