female orgasm

[a_quietguy]

iIs she faking or is that orgasm real?

Guys, how can you tell if your lover is really having an orgasm or if she is just faking it for your sake?

 

[Guest]

It's really hard to tell most of the time. I once dated a lady that I had no doubt about her orgasms. Her vagina would pulse during and after her orgasms. I also dated a lady who squirted during orgasm...yes it does really happen . I'd watch her face....even a beautiful woman can make some horrible faces during orgasm. Also look to see if her face or chest have a red flushed look. Now if you can take the time to warch for all these signs while having sex......you're a better man than me ...Peace

 

[StevenWill]

How silly

How silly it is to play such games. Men do not bestow orgams on women who then appreciate their great sexual powers. Sex is not a performance; it's a shared pleasure. People should work together to get what they want out of sex. Don't stroke a guy's ego like that. It's not doing anyone any favors. And it creates emotional distance between people because one is living a lie and the other is being duped.

Women who fake orgasms get exactly what they deserve--FAKE ORGASMS

 

[StevenWill]

Dangerous Practice

How silly it is to play such games. Men do not bestow orgams on women who then appreciate their great sexual powers. Sex is not a performance; it's a shared pleasure. People should work together to get what they want out of sex. Don't stroke a guy's ego like that. It's not doing anyone any favors. And it creates emotional distance between people because one is living a lie and the other is being duped.

Women who fake orgasms get exactly what they deserve--FAKE ORGASMS

 

[polywog]

Faked

One one hand I think Steven's right, If she fakes it she deserves it. Look at the dynamic such a person creates when willing to participate in falseness, her entire life and yours is infused with manipulative intentions.

On the other hand, we are all trying to make our live more meaningfull. If only by seeking to discover if we perceive the world correctly.

Candidly speaking, my friend, in bed with the average woman, you're the expert on women from one perspective, she probably does not know what it's like to feel the telltale spasms from the inside, or see the flushing on her chest (tho she may see it on your skin), or witness occaisional spurting (I got alot of notches but have known few women like that).

Women only know the kind of orgasms they have. Some women thot they were having orgasms all along, only to discover those experiences pale against the seismic proportions of what they learn to enjoy later (with the right lover).

In the final analysis, You may be the only one who can tell if she's having enough fun. If she stays with you there must be a reason and it may have nothing to do with sex or orgasms.

 

[LedAstray]

Don't knock it...

Faking an orgasm has its purpose once in a while. Like when you're in a situation where you just want it to end without any feelings of inadequacy on the man's part. Of course, I don't think it should be done in a loving relationship, but I have done it in casual sexual encounters.

So sue me.