female orgasm

[Leconteprex]

Is it possible that my girlfriend is having orgasm's but not feeling them? I have heard that when they first start having them, they might not be very intense.

weve been having sex for 7 months and she says she is not sure if she has or hasnt had, or felt, one. Is it possible that she is having them but can not tell the difference between a strong one or having one at all.

She isnt complaining or anything, but i just want to be sure she gets as much pleasure as I do in the end. SHe actually thinks I am paranoid or somthing (word for word practically what she said). lol

 

[asenath]

My arm itches but I can't feel it.

 

[herecomestherain]

In the realm of human sexual response just about anything is possible Leconteprex. Orgasms feel different for each person, each one you have can feel different from the last one and different types of orgasm, clitoral, g-spot etc you guessed it, feel different!
It sounds like you're a caring person and you want your partner to have a good time and I think it's great at that she is honest with you. Don't put pressure on if you can help it. Listen, let her guide you, and have fun exploring what feels good. Do you know if your girlfriend orgasms from masturbating?

Knowledge and self knowledge are generally pretty useful. This topic has been discussed in lots of threads here at Lit. Try a search. Here's one to get you started.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=224830

 

[dollface007]

If your gf has an orgasm in the forest and there's no one around...

Your girl will probably need to learn how to orgasm solo before she can really enjoy sex with you and really know what she wants during sex. Encourage her to masturbate by herself so that she's not under any pressure...maybe you could buy her a toy as a present or something
I know everyone is different, and orgasms differ in strength and sensation, but women are usually pretty sure if they've actually had one...even if it's her first.

 

[mattenno]

have her click her mouse, that works

 

[ullr]

Re: If your gf has an orgasm in the forest and there's no one around...

Your girl will probably need to learn how to orgasm solo before she can really enjoy sex with you and really know what she wants during sex. Encourage her to masturbate by herself so that she's not under any pressure...maybe you could buy her a toy as a present or something
I know everyone is different, and orgasms differ in strength and sensation, but women are usually pretty sure if they've actually had one...even if it's her first.

The above first - then ask her to do Kegal exercises. It is not uncommon fpr a woman of any age - anyone out of the game of sex - to not be enjoying hersekf enough! Kegals are sympatico with her orgasms ABD yours: you'll know if she fewels you and enjoys you!

--Orson

 

[jasmine8316]

Before I had my first orgasm I wasn't sure if I had one once or not. I was extremely turned on and that was unusual for me so I thought that was it. But a woman having an orgasm has the same relief as a man. I can't imagine she may have missed it. My ex once described an orgasm like a sneeze. It builds up and builds up and then release.

I agree with her learning how to masturbate first.

 

[Falkieri]

You also may try creating a certain "mood" in the room when you're about to have sex. Candles, aromas, things of that nature that may relax her, talk to her and find out what she likes, what scents are her favorites. Creating a very sensual atmosphere, and taking your time with lots of caressing, kissing, and touching before moving on can work wonders for many women as well.