Female MasturbationTechniques

[wetnhorny_slave]

Hi!
this is kinda embarassing to ask, but i cant seem to be able to reach ogasm with the use of my fingers. I can cum great with my vibrator, but its too noisy, and i have a roomate who sleeps less than a foot away. does anyone have a good masturbation technique that can make me cum. i searched the board but only found things for men. can anyone help me out?

 

[SexyChele]

Not embarassing in the least - it sometimes takes us ladies a while to cum with out fingers alone. You are not alone!

Hmm...what works for me is the following:

1. Something to get me really worked up. Reading good erotica, or getting into a nice, juicy fantasy can do this.

2. Taking my time. Once my brain is aroused, then I slowly run my hands over my body, feeling all of it. My mind is aroused, now I need to get my body in the right place, too! This, for me, takes time and the ability to relax and just let go.

3. I find it really helps if my clit is slippery - either with my own juices or lube. If things are "dry", it just doesn't work as well. Once things are nice and slippery, it's better.

4. It may take a while to figure out what you like and respond to. Think about what you do with your vibrator. Do you use all over your pussy? Or do you concentrate on one specific area? Do you orgasm vaginally or clitorally? I only orgasm clitorally, so as long as I'm paying attention to my clit, I'm a happy camper. Some women need the feeling of being filled - dildos are great for that if you are into that.

5. Once you figure out what your body likes, make sure you relax. Tensing up will get you no where. If you start thinking of one fantasy and it no longer "does" it for you, switch to something else.

Vibrators get us easily spoiled, don't they? But I find when I cum using my fingers, I feel like I've really cum!

Good luck, and hope you gets lots of feedback!

 

[wetnhorny_slave]

thanx for the advice, i will try it!

 

[TantaLiza]

Learning new techniques...

I have found that to set the mood, music is essential. I've also learned that using some nipple clamps helps to make other parts of my body sensitive to touch...have tried clamps to my labia which opens up the area around your clit making it more sensitive to touch also...the key is making yourself comfortable and turned on at the same time...I like to read good erotica to set things in motion, too...after that, it's whatever cums naturally....

Hugs!

Liza

 

[Quint]

I too can only have clitoral orgasms (which sucks sometimes), and I'm even more unusual in that I don't even directly touch my clit. I have to have a cloth of some sort, like panties or a sheet, between my finger and myself. It spreads the sensation around, plus I don't have to worry about how slippery I am. Fingering doesn't do anything at all for me.

Of course, I have yet to extensively try Mr GGG's advice. My G-spot has, thus far, been a nuisance, but I've always avoided it once I got that "gotta pee" feeling. P'raps I should push myself.

Anyway, that's how it is with me. Hope you find some relief, WHS! No virgin should ever have to go without orgasms!

 

[Guest]

g spot

tip for quint, if that "gotta pee" feeling continues just ride with it. if you can continue for a while when that gotta pee feeling gets a bit more normal you can push as if you are going to pee, this has the result of actually "popping" your g-spot to make it larger and at that point female ejaculation is attainable.

PS it is impossible to urinate while orgasming.

 

[lovetoread]

I was unable to use my fingers until I discovered phone sex.

And he made me do it.

It takes a bit of practice and strengthening your fingers,but it can happen.

 

[Cipher]

WHS, We are all family on here...we look out for eachother..no need to be embarrassed
I am one of those women and are spolied by a vibe..like sexychele said..but when i am extremely horny and read some hot stories and my mood is right..i put some lube on my fingers and rub my clit and bam..it works...Maybe u need to take the time and get to know urself down there..another one that works is the shower head.. If you don't have one of those removable ones..like i don't..girl let me tell you..i lay on my back..spread my pussy lips..and let that water hit my clit...now that's a serious orgasm right there..LoL
Whatever u decide to try..i hope it works for you.
~*~Cipher~*~

 

[Impetus]

It takes a bit of practice and strengthening your fingers,but it can happen.

I want to toss in a pair of pennies on this note. I was with a girl a while ago that had a fairly particular taste in clitoral stimulation, she liked me to lay my finger across her clit sideways and flick back and forth, in a downward come-hither motion. The side of my finger was supposed to flick back and forth over her clit as fast as it could, but for the life of me I couldn't do it as fast as she could. Strength indeed. I'm certain she had developed muscles doing that to herself that I simply didn't have. My whole arm would be sore afterwords, it was great .

So take note that if your hand is getting tired before you're fully satisfied, you may just need some finger exersize.

It's a side-note, really, but knowledge is knowledge.

-I

 

[Quint]

i lay on my back..spread my pussy lips..and let that water hit my clit...now that's a serious orgasm right there ~*~Cipher~*~

That's how I started. Amazement doesn't even begin to cover what I felt. And then I thought I was pregnant. o) This was obviously QUITE some time ago.

 

[DarkkSeduction]

good question

I think I am gonna try some of the suggestions as I cant come from finger manipulation either and my vibe sounds like a flipping lawnmower in a quiet dark house*lol*