Female Masturbation

[soliloquy]

Does anyone else have a great deal reaching orgasm through masturbation? I find that it feels good to a certain point, but more often than not, before I can orgasm, it becomes less pleasurable. Am I alone in this?

 

[Trist]

You are definately not alone, Soliloquy. I know I have this problem...

 

[Guest]

Masturbation

I have the same problem, and don't seem to know how to reolve it. If anyone's got any good tipr or ideas. Would be greatly appreciated

 

[welshman]

perhaps if I were to watch you, I could then offer you some tips? or maybe my watching would do the trick on its own

 

[BodyBuilderNH]

ohhh god I think women masturbating is the most incredibly erotic act! Maybe you could try switching to a new form of mastubation? Vibrator, shower massager, tub faucet? Give it a try..and let me know how it works out for you...you could also try reading stories, watching movies, or phone sex with a partner.

Let me know how it works out...my PM box is always open
Body

 

[lilpriss]

First thing you have to do is forget about what you're doing(touching yourself), focus on the goal (release, sweet refreshing release...) Now relax, think of a scenario that is a HUGE turn on for you... (thinking of not being allowed to orgasm does it for me. You know the whole build up, back off, build up, back off, tease thing.)

I just make up a scenerio in my head and as it plays out so do I... sometimes if you'll write out a fantasy that will help you visualize what you'd like. Also, it will turn you on, and when you do touch yourself, you'll want it... it will be easier to lie back and enjoy. And I've recently discovered how good lube feels even if you're already turned on...

Stress will stop an orgasm in it's tracks... had the worst time getting there last night... have been very stressed. Finally got there though after getting really pissed twice... because I would be right at the edge and then nothing GRRRR! I just said ok, let me do something else for awhile, and went back to it later... (success)

 

[WickedAsianBabe]

Visualizing an erotic scenario sometimes helps as well as easing off and teasing myself for awhile until I'm turned on again helps. Oh yea, the lube helps ALOT!

 

[Cherry Blossom]

For me I think the trick is to get very turned on before I start on the key area. Like the others said, think of things that get you very hot. Touch yourself in all sorts of places in all sorts of ways before you start touching the clit in any way. And the stop and start is always good -- play a bit and then back away, get eager for it, and come back for a little more.

I don't think any of us can go from little to no arousal to magnificent orgasm without a little finesse. Masturbating alone isn't that different from how things go when you've got a partner around to do it. You still gotta have foreplay, seduction, etc. (even if you don't have to buy yourself roses ...).

(yes, I know, I've read the stories and talked to other women who seem to go off at the first flick at their clitorises -- don't worry because I don't think most women are like that and provided we have fun and get there in the end, who cares?)


C.

 

[nitengale]

Trouble reaching orgasm?

http://www.clitical.com/showmast.php?id=8a

Some helpful words.

 

[SXCRgirl]

Let me throw my 0.02 in. Everyone has given great advice and all are helpful. The biggest roadblock to an orgasm is not being relaxed. Breathe in deep and breathe out. Think about something that drives you insane and then let it flow. You'll be surprised at the results. If that doesn't work, try a little erotica. I know that it works for me.

Lit has a great selection and you'll be humming in no time!

 

[huskie]

First thing you have to do is forget about what you're doing(touching yourself), focus on the goal (release, sweet refreshing release...) Now relax, think of a scenario that is a HUGE turn on for you... (thinking of not being allowed to orgasm does it for me. You know the whole build up, back off, build up, back off, tease thing.)

I just make up a scenerio in my head and as it plays out so do I... sometimes if you'll write out a fantasy that will help you visualize what you'd like. Also, it will turn you on, and when you do touch yourself, you'll want it... it will be easier to lie back and enjoy. And I've recently discovered how good lube feels even if you're already turned on...

Stress will stop an orgasm in it's tracks... had the worst time getting there last night... have been very stressed. Finally got there though after getting really pissed twice... because I would be right at the edge and then nothing GRRRR! I just said ok, let me do something else for awhile, and went back to it later... (success)

How did you do this with a broke arm?????