Female looking to be dominated...

s.desire01

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Hi, I'm new to LIT (2nd post) so forgive me if this is the wrong place for this thread. This is what I am looking for:

I am a divorced female with two children and albsolutely NO love life! LOL! For a while I have been turned on at the thought of being dominated via email.....by another woman!

At this point, I am not interested in men replying, ONLY WOMEN!!! But I am looking for a woman who will be understanding (that this is new for me) and take me along slowly at first, then as I grow accustomed to it, you could turn up the heat, so to speak.
 
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Welcome to LIT!

Welcome to LIT, s.desire01! For what you are lookig for, I think you have come to the right place. At the moment MY hands are full :( but I won't tell you what they are full with! :)

But I hope you find what you are looking for. It can be a very erotic and rewarding thing with the right person.
 
Hi, s.desire01!

Welcome to Lit. Actually I am more in the same boat as you are. I am married with children, but have been really thinking and desiring to be dominated via email. Fortunately for me, I have already been contacted by someone who I believe will make me very happy. We'll, see!

Hope you find someone, too!
 
Thanks for the bump!

spreadwide said:
I want you to get noticed!

Yes, it does sound like we are in similar situations. Have you been dominated by another woman via email before?

I guess I am looking for a woman who will stretch me a little sexually. I mean, they will learn my boundaries and teach me how to push them little by little. The way I dress, the way I act in front of others....I want someone I can look to that will guide me into being a better submissive, because that idea really turns me on.

I am not looking for a real-life Dom. But I do want someone who each day will give me tasks that I must perform for them that will turn me on.
 
Exactly!

That is EXACTLY what I want out of it, too. One of my tasks recently was to go out in public without any panties on! I had never done that before. It was exciting. I went to a bookstore and sat there feeling a little self-conscious, like everyone knew. Then a man came and sat right across from me! I was afraid to uncross my legs because my skirt had risen up above my knees when I sat down so I would have given him an eye-full if I had!!! :)

Yes, it is tasks like that that stretch you to do things you would never, ever do otherwise that really get you turned on and feeling alive, again!
 
I love women that are daring and enjoy showing and being noticed. I would have gotten up out of that bookstore chair and made sure you saw my raging hard on and hoping you would follow me into the book stacks. ;) Nothing more exciting that a total stranger having fun, showing and taking control of a hot situation. Hmmmm. Very sexy.
 
I agree

I love it when a woman teases me. Sometimes maybe her blouse is unbuttoned one button too low and when she leans over, it falls slightly open and you can can a glimpse of her breast! What a turn-on.

So, s.desire01, have you had any responses yet? I sure wish "I" were what you were looking for!
 
bw08641 said:
So, s.desire01, have you had any responses yet?

Only one inquiry. I responded but have not heard back from them. I was hoping to find several women who might be interested. I guess not.
 
s.desire01 said:
Only one inquiry. I responded but have not heard back from them. I was hoping to find several women who might be interested. I guess not.

There seems to be a high demand for female dominants online. Be patient, and don't give up hope.
 
RawHumor said:
There seems to be a high demand for female dominants online. Be patient, and don't give up hope.


Thank you for your encouragement. As I said before, I am pretty new at this.
 
I have been playing as a dom for while and have found it to be one of the hottest things I have ever experienced. I love assigning 'daily tasks' for my sub to carry out. I stay excited all day knowing that she is as hot as I am from carrying out my instructions. I think this could be very hot for both of us. I'm willing and eager to play along.
<kisses> Steffy
 
Bon Chance, Bon Couvage...

Well lass sorry My gender not qualify Me to help you explore amd push your boundaries and limits.. Hopefully you will find whom and what you seek lass, (seems one Domme is interested judging fomr a previous post). There are a number of good sites and groups o/l to help you in learning and exploring safely thus preserving anonymity... If interested in the urls for joining such drop a PM plz or feel free to email as well, I have been exploring D/s BDSM and learning for over 30 yrs but one common thread all too often overlooked is learning to be proactively Safe emotionally an physically from both RL an o/l preadotrs players na stalkes of various ilks, please do not let your desires overule your common sense or your instincts for self-preservation or most importantly your kids too.. Be safe be well an take care lass
pax
HL
SS&C
"Courtesy costs you nothing yet gains you everything" Lady M
"I cannot Live without books" T Jefferson
 
Thanks for the advice

You can be sure I will heed it. My desire to submit to anyone would never be greater than my desire to take care and protect myself as well as my children. Thus, my submission will always remain online and never be real life.

Thanks again!
 
Hi, Steffy

steffy said:
I have been playing as a dom for while and have found it to be one of the hottest things I have ever experienced. I love assigning 'daily tasks' for my sub to carry out. I stay excited all day knowing that she is as hot as I am from carrying out my instructions. I think this could be very hot for both of us. I'm willing and eager to play along.
<kisses> Steffy

I PM'd you. Hope to hear from you.
 
Looks like your thread is beginning to garner some well-deserved attention. Hopefully your PM box is humming by now!
 
Hi s.desire

I sent you an email......can't wait to get started!
<kisses> steffy
 
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