kittenartist
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- Mar 24, 2005
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I find myself desiring a pet as of late. I have some experience in this area and an natural tendency to control. Now, I will admit I consider myself a switch. However, I have yet to meet a Man I could truly submit to so... well, I am not here to discuss past relationships.
As I said, I find myself in search of a pet. I realize there may be better places to search but this is conveniently here so I feel it is worth the attempt. Now, as for what I want in a pet... I would prefer my pet to be male. Younger is better but I am open to all ages. Single or equivalent is an absolute requirement. Honesty, loyalty, intelligence and a sense of humor are all important. Disease and drug free, of course. A non-smoker or willing to quit. Needs to be relatively local or willing/able to travel to California (and maybe relocate eventually). This will start online but the ultimate goal is a "real life" situation. This will be long term, possibly life long, ideally. So a quick game is not what I am looking for - this is the real deal with real commitments.
This will be a loving relationship. You should expect to fall in love and accept love in return. And there will be good days and bad. Although there is a D/s aspect there will also be the understanding that we are both individuals with the normal troubles, issues, experiences that comes with living. These moments should be shared too as you can always turn to someone you love when you need a sympathetic ear. Likewise, understand, there will be times when I need to be consoled as life's little tragedies come into play.
Allow me to describe the perfect pet. A pet is treasured by it's owner and loved to pieces. In return the pet worships his owner - believes she hung the moon and eagerly basks in her gentle glow. Everything is done out of adoration as opposed to fear. A good pet is happy only when their owner is happy.
I am not about pain but there will be times when that amuses me... I am not about humiliation, but, again, it will amuse me at times. I am a fickle creature and like to follow my whims. This means, if you have a particular fetish you want fulfilled do not look here - I will cater to no one but myself. Nothing turns me off more than a sub who finds excuses to say, "Gee, I messed up... spank me now?" My displeasure should be enough of a reprimand. The thought of making me upset should bring tears to your eyes. True punishment will be solitude and a lack of my attention - everything else is done for my enjoyment. Being away from my pet for his transgressions would not make me happy either so it is best to be good. Like I said, I want worship not a handful that needs constant correction. Granted, in the beginning there is a learning curve, and that is the time for gentle correction.
Some examples of things that will be expected... During the online phase daily emails will be required. If you cannot devote some time to me everyday then do not bother. Chatting will be scheduled around my availability - but I have a lot of flexible time. Eventually phone calls will be required - the frequency will depend on the relationship. When it gets to real time, training will almost begin again as you learn to please me physically. There will be baths, massages, nail painting, and other such forms of pampering. Sexually pleasing me will be a reward. All your sexual pleasure will be at my discretion. Orgasm control is something that means a lot to me - I want to own your cum and it shall not be spilled without my expressed permission. Oh, and I like to bite - often and hard. You will go home with marks on your body to remember my love. I could go on and on about things that may come up (collars, leashes, chores, etc etc) but it will all depend on how I feel... It can be discussed privately with prospective pets.
Now, there are a couple things that are bonus points, so to speak. Not requirements but things that would give a prospective pet a extra edge. These include: being younger (18-20), being single, living in the 831/408 area code parts of California, being taller than me (I am 6'1), being "lanky", geeky .... these are pretty much superficial bonuses and do not mean a ton for me - I would just not be opposed to enjoying a handsome young pet. Oh, and I would find a virgin to be especially appealing.
Lastly a bit about me... I am twenty-four. As mentioned above I am over six feet tall - there is just nothing petite about my frame. I am curvy/bbw depending on your definitions. I am very, very comfortable in my skin and know I am gorgeous - you will be expected to feel the same, of course. Also, I am married to an exceptional man. My husband and I share all details. He has no interest in playing with my pet but he will be around occasionally. Any pet would be expected to treat him with utmost respect. If you are not comfortable submitting in front of another male then you are not suitable for my situation.
Now, let the submissions begin... I would highly suggest you take some time to think before you reply. This is no casual game and should not be approached lightly. Be sure to tell me about yourself - not just kinks. You may write here or in PMs - I will check both regularly. If you cannot form proper sentences or write more than three lines expect to be ignored. If you have not read this entirely I will know and you will be ignored. Do not call me "Mistress" or any such thing unless I tell you otherwise - to bandy that term about casually makes me think it means nothing to you and I will not take you seriously. I know exactly what I want and I will not compromise. I tend to believe that the harder you look for something the less likely you are to find it... So, if I do not find it now, or here, then so be it. I am in no rush.
As I said, I find myself in search of a pet. I realize there may be better places to search but this is conveniently here so I feel it is worth the attempt. Now, as for what I want in a pet... I would prefer my pet to be male. Younger is better but I am open to all ages. Single or equivalent is an absolute requirement. Honesty, loyalty, intelligence and a sense of humor are all important. Disease and drug free, of course. A non-smoker or willing to quit. Needs to be relatively local or willing/able to travel to California (and maybe relocate eventually). This will start online but the ultimate goal is a "real life" situation. This will be long term, possibly life long, ideally. So a quick game is not what I am looking for - this is the real deal with real commitments.
This will be a loving relationship. You should expect to fall in love and accept love in return. And there will be good days and bad. Although there is a D/s aspect there will also be the understanding that we are both individuals with the normal troubles, issues, experiences that comes with living. These moments should be shared too as you can always turn to someone you love when you need a sympathetic ear. Likewise, understand, there will be times when I need to be consoled as life's little tragedies come into play.
Allow me to describe the perfect pet. A pet is treasured by it's owner and loved to pieces. In return the pet worships his owner - believes she hung the moon and eagerly basks in her gentle glow. Everything is done out of adoration as opposed to fear. A good pet is happy only when their owner is happy.
I am not about pain but there will be times when that amuses me... I am not about humiliation, but, again, it will amuse me at times. I am a fickle creature and like to follow my whims. This means, if you have a particular fetish you want fulfilled do not look here - I will cater to no one but myself. Nothing turns me off more than a sub who finds excuses to say, "Gee, I messed up... spank me now?" My displeasure should be enough of a reprimand. The thought of making me upset should bring tears to your eyes. True punishment will be solitude and a lack of my attention - everything else is done for my enjoyment. Being away from my pet for his transgressions would not make me happy either so it is best to be good. Like I said, I want worship not a handful that needs constant correction. Granted, in the beginning there is a learning curve, and that is the time for gentle correction.
Some examples of things that will be expected... During the online phase daily emails will be required. If you cannot devote some time to me everyday then do not bother. Chatting will be scheduled around my availability - but I have a lot of flexible time. Eventually phone calls will be required - the frequency will depend on the relationship. When it gets to real time, training will almost begin again as you learn to please me physically. There will be baths, massages, nail painting, and other such forms of pampering. Sexually pleasing me will be a reward. All your sexual pleasure will be at my discretion. Orgasm control is something that means a lot to me - I want to own your cum and it shall not be spilled without my expressed permission. Oh, and I like to bite - often and hard. You will go home with marks on your body to remember my love. I could go on and on about things that may come up (collars, leashes, chores, etc etc) but it will all depend on how I feel... It can be discussed privately with prospective pets.
Now, there are a couple things that are bonus points, so to speak. Not requirements but things that would give a prospective pet a extra edge. These include: being younger (18-20), being single, living in the 831/408 area code parts of California, being taller than me (I am 6'1), being "lanky", geeky .... these are pretty much superficial bonuses and do not mean a ton for me - I would just not be opposed to enjoying a handsome young pet. Oh, and I would find a virgin to be especially appealing.
Lastly a bit about me... I am twenty-four. As mentioned above I am over six feet tall - there is just nothing petite about my frame. I am curvy/bbw depending on your definitions. I am very, very comfortable in my skin and know I am gorgeous - you will be expected to feel the same, of course. Also, I am married to an exceptional man. My husband and I share all details. He has no interest in playing with my pet but he will be around occasionally. Any pet would be expected to treat him with utmost respect. If you are not comfortable submitting in front of another male then you are not suitable for my situation.
Now, let the submissions begin... I would highly suggest you take some time to think before you reply. This is no casual game and should not be approached lightly. Be sure to tell me about yourself - not just kinks. You may write here or in PMs - I will check both regularly. If you cannot form proper sentences or write more than three lines expect to be ignored. If you have not read this entirely I will know and you will be ignored. Do not call me "Mistress" or any such thing unless I tell you otherwise - to bandy that term about casually makes me think it means nothing to you and I will not take you seriously. I know exactly what I want and I will not compromise. I tend to believe that the harder you look for something the less likely you are to find it... So, if I do not find it now, or here, then so be it. I am in no rush.
