female fantasies of forced sex

[Guest]

Having rape fantasies is not uncommon for both men and women. I'm just wandering if women on this forum have such fantasies and what they think of that. Let me emphasize my point right away. Real rape is wrong! But I believe that fantasies are OK as long as we are able to see them as what they are - fantasies.

Rape fantasies are socially very inappropriate. So, why do we have such fantasies? One might say that they originate from a sexist culture where women are potrayed as possessions of men. In such a culture women are socialized to be submissive and men to be dominant. Another explanation might be that women who have rape fantasises were actually forced into sex in their past and that they were conditioned to seek sexual pleasure through forced sex. Or if we look at this from an evolutionary perspective we can say that those women who were accepting of rape had their genes passed onto next generation while those who resisted had less chance of passing genes. Similarly, sexually aggressive men had better chance of passing their sexually aggressive genes than nonaggressive men. I think all three explanations might have some influence although I believe the last one is the most important.

So, I want to hear you thoughts on this controversial topic.

 

[lavender]

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

How many of you men have fantasies about ravishing a woman or even a mild nonconsent fantasy?

I doubt as many men will admit to this as women have in the past.

Um, I think I have admitted to it somewhat - after a fashion. Not so much a rape fantasy as I know what happens to the victims in RL and that turns me off, but just having some role playing where the woman plays at mild to moderate resistance and I play at mild to moderate force (with safe words of course).

 

[kotori]

Lavy, my very first

wet dream (c. 1967?) was a Vikings-invading-the-castle kinda thing. Swinging on chandeliers, naked dancing girls, raping and pillaging. What would you call it: NC-17 Douglas Fairbanks?

But I don't currently have any rape fantasies--except perhaps as a role-playing scenario with willing partner.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

So, I want to hear you thoughts on this controversial topic.

Three suggestions:

1) Register

2) Look over topics before you post, you might find the topic you want already addressed.

3) Look here:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65526

 

[Hamletmaschine]

How many of you men have fantasies about ravishing a woman or even a mild nonconsent fantasy?

I doubt as many men will admit to this as women have in the past.

To be honest, I don't think I ever have had a rape or nonconsent fantasy.

But 'ravishing' is another matter entirely, I think. I've been with women who wanted to be taken--ravished--suddenly and treated somewhat roughly, just using their bodies for my pleasure.

But that's play, and I know that real rape is not.

~H~

 

[Mensa]

Okay, I'll own up

This topic has been answered on numerous occasions. But, I would like to turn the tables.

How many of you men have fantasies about ravishing a woman or even a mild nonconsent fantasy?

I doubt as many men will admit to this as women have in the past.

My fantasy is to take Janet Reno and make her howl like a dog. I'm getting wood just talking about it!

 

[Silverlily]

you are a very sick man

My fantasy is to take Janet Reno and make her howl like a dog. I'm getting wood just talking about it!

SEE! I knew there were latent Dom tendancies in you!

 

[Mensa]

Re: you are a very sick man

SEE! I knew there were latent Dom tendancies in you!

Dom Janet Reno?!?! I can't picture anyone Domming Janet Reno. That's why it is and will remain a fantasy.