Female cockolds?

[LincolnDuncan]

Are there any females who enjoy the humiliation of having your bf or husband cheat on you?

 

[FantasySharer1]

I think the term for this is cuckquean. There are some excellent tumblrs out there and if you search that term, you may find some good threads you can revive if you like them?

Probably best fantasy ever for dominant guys.

 

[NaughtyKitty06]

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[LincolnDuncan]

I am actually more turned on by the dynamic between the two women.

 

[KendallKos]

I have recently discovered an interest in this topic. I think both roles for the woman sound intriguing. Right now I would love to be a cuckcake and maybe in the future after getting married being the cuckquean. Is that odd? To want to be both?

 

[NaughtyinVegas]

A bump for a deserving thread!
I love to help a guy humiliate his girl...while I'm bouncing on his cock

I had an old gf once who totally arranged a 3-way just so she could watch and be jealous of her hot friend and I doing it.

(Well, that wasn't quite the only reason. Turned out she wanted to clean up her hot friend after I was done with her too.)

I have recently discovered an interest in this topic. I think both roles for the woman sound intriguing. Right now I would love to be a cuckcake and maybe in the future after getting married being the cuckquean. Is that odd? To want to be both?

That doesn't sound odd to me at all.

Actually, a psychotherapist might call it sexual closure.

 

[edwalu2]

This is a big fantasy for my girlfriend and I. We've never indulged in it completely yet, but there have been elements of cuckqueaning in most of the FFM threesomes we have had. And we push it further each time.

There were some aspects of it in the first FFM we had, and the story of that is on Literotica: http://www.literotica.com/s/swingers-first-ffm-threesome

What we are not interested in is the 'insulting' humiliation aspects that you find in a lot of cuckqueaning stories, the 'alpha' woman insulting the couple's fem about her 'deficiencies', etc.

But the couple's fem being told that she is a whore and a slut by the third wheel while she is being made to watch her fucking me? Oh my, we love that!

Cuckqueaning seems to get a bad press on here, but I think that's probably because many people don't realise how erotic and empowering the 'humiliation' experienced by a woman who is made to watch her partner fuck another woman for her pleasure can be. It's certainly something that I am going to explore with my stories at some point.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

For the most part, make cucks seem to be drive by feelings of inferiority due to having a small cock. I wonder what drives the female cuck.

 

[edwalu2]

Well, that's a bit of a generalisation. Spend any time amongst swingers, and you'll find male cucks with cocks of all sizes...just like anyone else.

In answer to your question, I think the drive is probably the same for cucks of both sexes. It's the humiliation of the scenario, combined with the pure eroticism of watching your partner fuck someone for your pleasure. That, I imagine, is a hugely potent combination.

Well, that explains it for cucks who like to watch. For those who play apart, who knows.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

Thanks. My information about cucks is limited to those I've met online.

 

[edwalu2]

Hey, no problem. I'm not saying what you described isn't a driver, but it's not the only one by any means. There are as many flavours as there are people.

By the way, has anyone come across any cuckquean porn? I have not been able to find any myself, and I can't believe it doesn't exist.

 

[BareBackRider2]

For the most part, make cucks seem to be drive by feelings of inferiority due to having a small cock. I wonder what drives the female cuck.

Not at all. It's the opportunity for a third person perspective. Live porn if you will. Coupled with a masochistic pleasure derived from denial of your own pleasure.

some people like to be slapped in the face. A cuck likes to be slapped in the heart.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Thanks. My information about cucks is limited to those I've met online.

Ya having a small cock is really not a prerequisite for cuckold play. In many ways I would say that the play is less threatening to real life relationships if the cuckold isn't notably inferior. Or if there is a difference it is between being a reasonably well endowed and attractive man with the bull being an absolute adonis, which in all honesty can be a bit much all the time for some women but is fun for an occasional experience including cuckold play. It is the emotions and tension dynamic from a place of security that is exciting for the cuckold - somewhat similar to being dominated but not mistreated.

I don't know of anyone who actually wants to have their spirit crushed. And that portrayal is driven by men who use it to feed their ego. The extreme expectation of humiliation is, in my opinion, a function of the fact that most guys simply can't imagine their SO with another man being anything other than humiliating or a by-product of their own inferiority. That may be a widely held view but is by no means a truism and many men who are able to accept it are much stronger and more confident than average.

I think much the same for a cuckquean scenario. It is the notion of the other women doing things or taking on a role that the wife can't or won't do or simply being dominant over her. If the wife was actually unattractive or unappealing altogether and the other woman was sincerely stealing her man it wouldn't be play, it would just be hurtful.

 

[edwalu2]

Yes, that last part is very important. There should be no element of cuckqueaning that is abusive to any parties involved, otherwise it is just abuse.

So...about that cuckquean porn then...anyone?

 

[bibethhotwet]

While we are not into the humiliation or cheating aspect are there occasions when I have sat back and watched my husband with another woman? Yes, quite a few times actually. These have included both married and single women. Sometimes later I have joined but there have been times I simply watched. We have also done the reverse where he has watched me with other men.

For me there is no jealousy, only a turn on. I know exactly what she is feeling and that makes it all the more intense.

 

[rod43]

Beth, your attitude to this is wonderful. You and your husband must have a great relationship and lots of sexy fun!

 

[policywank]

different

I find the cuckquean scenario appealing based upon being willing to do things that the man's wife won't do. Unlike a cuckold scenario it isn't really plausible that I have greater sexual abilities than the man's wife. Maybe I have a different appeal or bigger tits or whatever, but the fact is that she can fuck him any which way she wants the same as I can. The difference is that she chooses not to.

Frankly lots of women neglect their man's sexual needs. Their sex is just a little too precious and every sex act has to be preceded but extensive wooing from the man. I am all for the wooing, but I think that sex is part of marriage and a good wife is at least aware of her man's sexual desires and not just her own 'conditions' for sex. When she puts the man in her life in a position of always having to 'earn' sex it leaves him with the feeling of being unwanted and each sex act of simply being her doing her duty. He soon finds himself jumping through hoops for what feels like a one-sided mediocre pity fuck and decides he would rather just masturbate.

I have sexual desire for men. I see no reason to constrain myself from what I want simply to comply with some dumb ass norm of how women are supposed to hold it back.

One of my girlfriends is very much like the inattentive wife I have described. It isn't that extreme and she is a very nice lady. But she does hold on to the silly notion that she can't make it too easy. meanwhile her husband is a gorgeous and attentive man who deserves more. We visit them about a year ago for a week. I fantasized about staying with them, waiting for her to leave for work each morning then sucking his cock right after (she leaves 1/2 hour before he does). Every morning servicing her man and showing him what it is like to have a truly attentive wife.

 

[edwalu2]

Putting the generalisations about what happens in relationships aside, that is a very hot post. Good for you, totally agree with a woman getting what she wants with scant regard for the societal norms constraining them. Enjoy yourself for what you are.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

Elizabeth Taylor, cuckqueen

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=INDqOyaJUzg

Liz seduces her husband's mistress to get him back.

 

[Manchild2000]

Just when I think I've heard it all I discover another awesome interest! This rocks.