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I was just wondering to myself today. Why od us guys really like a good looking ass on a girl? What makes that part of the body appeal to us...? Is it just a hormone thing?
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Different Guy said:I was just wondering to myself today. Why od us guys really like a good looking ass on a girl? What makes that part of the body appeal to us...? Is it just a hormone thing?
huskie said:
I think its a genetic thing???? I saw a show on TLC about attraction and it said something to the effect about how hips attrack mens attention. i.e. healthy hips and butts mean a good baby producer or something???
Star of Penumbra said:
It's actually quite elementary biology. A woman with wide hips provides a larger area for a child to grow in while it's still in the womb. If living space is larger, then the child will generally be larger and healthier than a child born to a woman with slender hips (and therefore a smaller womb). It's similar to why men generally find large breasts more appealing than small breasts (though I personally prefer the latter).
nj-voyeur said:I think we are intended to have sex doggy style. all other apes and mamamals do. maybe thats why a nice butt is so appealing. I mean you dont do any thing with it....well i do, but not in general. Its just the view.
Here is an off the wall theory i heard once. Simular to this topic but out in left field.
Why do we have cleavage? A woman can breast feed with flat tits just like a guys. The milk glands dont have to be in the actual tit. So why do women have them? Here is the theory. Cleavage looks like a butt crack. Its a way to display your sexuality up front. Again it goes back to the idea that we are meant to have sex doggy style. Its like advertising. We see the simular shape right in front of our eyes and it makes us think of sex. Keeps the species going.
Silly theory huh.
Star of Penumbra said:
It's actually quite elementary biology. A woman with wide hips provides a larger area for a child to grow in while it's still in the womb. If living space is larger, then the child will generally be larger and healthier than a child born to a woman with slender hips (and therefore a smaller womb). It's similar to why men generally find large breasts more appealing than small breasts (though I personally prefer the latter).
fanzee1 said:
I dare say most men have never looked at a woman's ass and said "Check out those birthing hips, i've gotta get me some of that." So can anyone explain what generates the attraction, instead of giving the reason it's there? I'd love to know.
nj-voyeur said:
I guess its the same reason why ladies like the "star" of the football team and not the kicker. Or they like the lead singer of the band and not drummer. Women are attracted to status symbols. In the animal kingdom that was the leader of the pack. the one who would give you the best genes for you kids.
Basically its instinct. No guys dont think those are good birthing hips. But deep down in side we like curves because its healthy. I find guys who only like pencil thin girls abnormal. Under survival conditions a really skinny girl would die. We developed the instinct to pick out the ones who would survive. And thats those bodacious bodies we guys like.
Now let me talk with my dick...
How do you not like a nice round....dare i say....big ass! Picture it bent over and you entering her from the back. You want to lucious monds back there. it shouldnt look like your having sex with a dude when she bends over. Maybe thats what we like. Its doesnt look like a guy! Guys dont have hips like that with a small waist. A guys butt doesnt spread like that. UMmm, ...picturing the ass spread. Then there is grabbing it when she is on top riding me. Love it. Even when the guy is on top you can still appreate the ass. When her legs are up that ass is still up against you lap. If she has a bony butt you'll actually get bruises on your hips if you fuck her hard. Whats not to love about an ass....
fanzee1 said:what is instinct? how does it get there? Why does each species have different instincts? I realize the question is probably not answerable. I just wanted to throw it out there.
Star of Penumbra said:
Instincts are caused by something called genetic meomory. I can't really explain it too well without totally highjacking the thread, but a search should turn up a few pages.
The really really short explanation is this: every creature has a natural behavior pattern, which is generally affected by it's genetic makeup. Certain patterns are more successful than others, so naturally those with successful patterns survived, while the others died.
Not sure how helpful that is, but you can't fault me for not trying.
fanzee1 said:actually, your explanation does ring a bell. I have heard of "genetic memory" somewhere along the line. Sounds like applied darwinism (that is neither praise nor criticism). And it does make sense. Thank you.

CuriouslilQT said:interesting way of looking at it though.