Fellatio: Something that gets neglected

[A Desert Rose]

There is not enough discussion here, in my opinion on what and how to please your Dom and his (oh my I can't believe I am saying this,) man-meat.

Knowing what He likes and how fast or slow He likes it is important. Of course, it all begins with communication, verbal and non-verbal. He may tell you to go slower or He may grap your hair and pull your head back and away for a moment, to slow you down. He may push Himself into your mouth with eagerness.

There are techniques that He will like and many of you already have ideas and styles that please your Dom. I am sure we all have experiences that can be helpful to others.

Let's share them with each other and hopefully a few Doms will be willing to do so, also.

I have some things I would like to add, too once the discussion gets up and running.

Jump in.... Please.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Not by me.

 

[bunny bondage]

i find that He likes it if i cup His balls in one hand and sort of push them (gently) towards His cock.

 

[navarre]

I have been fortunate enough to be pleased by a very skilled young lady. She is a master of the art. After the proper amount of licking and nibbling, she gently applies suction while working me in and out of her mouth, guided by my hands gently grasping her head.
After a good deal of patience on my part and much practice on hers, she can now take me fully in her throat. This is a must do.
OMG what a feeling.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I have been fortunate enough to be pleased by a very skilled young lady. She is a master of the art. After the proper amount of licking and nibbling, she gently applies suction while working me in and out of her mouth, guided by my hands gently grasping her head.
After a good deal of patience on my part and much practice on hers, she can now take me fully in her throat. This is a must do.
OMG what a feeling.

I have a terrible gag reflex, very sensitive and easily stimulated. Patience and practice are a must in overcoming it, as you touched on, Navarre.

One thing I have learned is that if you swallow when I feel the gag happening it lessons it.

This isn't just for swallowing. It can feel very, very pleasant experience for the Dom too.

Thank you for the post, Navarre.

 

[A Desert Rose]

i find that He likes it if i cup His balls in one hand and sort of push them (gently) towards His cock.

I bet he loves this technique. Do you do this while you blow him or just during massage or both?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Both the deep throat and the balls cuppings are good ideas.

Once I had someone sit crosslegged between my legs blowing me and sort of seperating my butt cheeks with her sharp-toenailed toes. It really did it for me. She was doing that exact ball-pressure trick too.

 

[WynEternal]

Sometimes, he enjoys it when I drag my teeth over the length of his dick. I had never done it before until he asked me to try it.

 

[evesdream]

gag reflex

Try tipping your head way back. There's less chance of his gender beam stimulating the back of your throat this way.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Both the deep throat and the balls cuppings are good ideas.

Once I had someone sit crosslegged between my legs blowing me and sort of seperating my butt cheeks with her sharp-toenailed toes. It really did it for me. She was doing that exact ball-pressure trick too.

This sounds like something I need to try. My previous Dom loved to have me rake my nails over His ass while I blew Him. Once my fingers got near his anus for any prolonged period, time was almost up for Him. LOL

Thanks a lot for posting here, Roscoe.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: gag reflex

Try tipping your head way back. There's less chance of his gender beam stimulating the back of your throat this way.

I just read about this type of technique the other day. I will try it and thank you for mentioning it. Aside from me, I am sure there are many lurkers who could use this advice.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Sometimes, he enjoys it when I drag my teeth over the length of his dick. I had never done it before until he asked me to try it.

I think He may have liked it because it's a change of texture to for his cock. Some men like that feeling on the glans, as well.

Thank you Wyn, for your input here.

 

[A Desert Rose]

My Dom loves that I gag. Personally, it embarrasses me. But He loves that I gag for several reasons.

For one thing, it makes Him feel, for lack of a better discription, big. (smiling)

He also knows that it embarrasses me and He enjoys this facet of humiliating me.

It makes me tear up and He loves to see that. He loves to see me struggle to try and do a good job.

He loves me on my knees, while he stands. It gives Him control over the act and over me. (Like He doesn't already have that... LOL.)

 

[NemoAlia]

Sometimes I find that, rather than sticking to an in-and-out sort of suction toward the end, it's fun for both parties involved if I unseal my lips and swoop down over his cock (without actually touching it much except maybe with my tongue) while exhaling warm air. Then, I close my lips and use suction on the way up. He says it makes him feel like I'm irresistably hungry for his cock.

*Edited 'cause I'm anal-retentive about spelling, among other things.

 

[bunny bondage]

I bet he loves this technique. Do you do this while you blow him or just during massage or both?

i do this while i blow Him. i find that this also allows me to keep His cock steady and level, making it easier for me to move my mouth along it.

i've been trying very hard to take more into my throat, but my gag reflex is just too good, i choke and sputter. swallowing is a good tip, though, and this really does help when i feel like i'm about to gag.

and nemo, i just love that idea about breathing on the cock while going down and sucking on the way up. i'll have to try that!

 

[rosco rathbone]

There's no substitute for the feeling of being held deep in a throat. It's not so much the direct penis stimulation as it is the knowledge that someone is accepting you into their body in an invasive way.

Re Rose on knees.....to me (and I guess this is a little bit doofy but whatever)....fellatio symbolizes, encapsulates, wraps up, signifies and in ever other way is the acme of... the fundamental imbalance of "I am going to use you to get off with...that is what "kinky sex"/bdsm/etc are all about to me, and the on the knees is the most fraught position. I wrote about this in my thread a little a few days ago.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

While this may sound somewhat politically incorrect, there is nothing I personally love more that a good old-fashioned face fuck. His hands wrapped in my hair, hips pumping His cock in and out of my throat, saliva dripping down all over Him, that final deep thrust grinding into me. No finesse, no technique, just raw power. He loves it, i love it, and the my submission is never more complete, and i look up, near to cumming, nipples swollen and hard, eyes half closed...lost.

For the rest of it, good thing I don't have much of a gag reflex. I love deep throating.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Nemo: Your posts bring to my mind the old creme de menthe or peppermint schnapps trick. You write so sensuously, too.

Roscoe: Can you provide me with a link to your post? I went and looked and found one in your Top-opilis thread that really made me hot!

AnelizeDarkEyes: I'm not sure you can be politically incorrect in this forum... lol. I love to be face fucked and my partner loved it when I asked Him to do it.

 

[lustyem]

fellatio

i love doing it to him, he loves when i suck on his balls ,taking them one by one in my mouth ,and running my tongue from his butt my to the tip of his cock ,i'm not good at deep throating but ,i gag a bit . but pactise makes perfect ,lol.:

kiss:

 

[lustyem]

fellatio

another tip is to get him to shave his balls then you dont get a mouthful of hair.:

kiss:

 

[A Desert Rose]

Speaking of those jewels....

Here is an interesting technique - gently wrap a thumb and index finger around his nuts, to pull them (gently) away from his body slightly, until you have a slight sort of surface tension on the "end" (spot farthest from his body), a bit like a bulging drum. Then gently run your tongue in a circle around that "end" area. If done right (and it's hard to get just right), it creates a wonderful sensation. This won't get most people to orgasm, but it does feel really good. With a few people you can even use your fingertip.

 

[WynEternal]

Pulling the skin around the nuts away from the body (towards the anus) while lips are clamped firmly around the dick also works for me and helps him get stronger orgasms.

 

[MissTaken]

I am not sure I have much to add to this thread.

Umm with my face av up, it is difficult to talk about something like this and wondering if you all are imagining that prissy, school marm face with a set of balls resting on her chin!



Anyway, I sincerely enjoy giving oral sex, more than receiving.

Paying attention to every bit of his manhood, sac and ass can make for a nice session of cock worship. Looking at it and him as though he has the most magnificent of trophies tends to turn him on a bit more.

Paying special attention to that point where the "gender beam" (to quote evesdream) meets the sac adds to the stimulation as well as at the very bottom of the balls toward the anus.

Further, changing rythm and pressure seems to be a pleaser.

Yes, fellation makes the D/s relationship tangible. Even if he is lying there while I please him, the act, what it means and all that exists between Dom and sub is evident.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Re: fellatio

another tip is to get him to shave his balls then you dont get a mouthful of hair.:

kiss:

No one is ever getting me to shave my nut sack. That style was invented by homos: the ancient Grecians to be precise. Its current recursion amongst straight men is worrying evidence of the girlification of First-World manhood.

If my woman had the nerve to complain about a mouthful of hair, I'd shave my chest and feed her a @#$% hairball.

I have spoken.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I've heard tell about a vibrating, inflatable prostate stimulator/butt-plug. Imagine that, combined with a really skilled suck. Oy. It's good to know that there are still things to look forward to in life.

My left nut already has a tendency to retract into my abdomen with orgasm. I think the prostate-stimulator suck might turn my reproductive organs inside out.