Feeling lost, in need of mentor.

[missstirling]

It has been quite some time since I last posted here and in that time I abandoned my kinky/submissive desires. I have finally acknowledged that it is time to re-embrace those needs, but am struggling to express them to my partner who is new to all this, but willing, in a way that he can act on.

Is there anyone out there who could be a mentor to us both as a couple finding our way, by guiding and teaching him and helping me understand what I need?

 

[SweetOblivion]

Wishing you well in your search

You will get advice by the bucketful here - the important thing will be sifting it to find the genuine and useful ideas even if they get buried at the bottom of your pm box. Good luck.

Sweet O.

 

[Hipshot1554]

It has been quite some time since I last posted here and in that time I abandoned my kinky/submissive desires. I have finally acknowledged that it is time to re-embrace those needs, but am struggling to express them to my partner who is new to all this, but willing, in a way that he can act on.

Is there anyone out there who could be a mentor to us both as a couple finding our way, by guiding and teaching him and helping me understand what I need?

That could take some time. It's something you shouldn't rush.

 

[Specula]

It has been quite some time since I last posted here and in that time I abandoned my kinky/submissive desires. I have finally acknowledged that it is time to re-embrace those needs, but am struggling to express them to my partner who is new to all this, but willing, in a way that he can act on.

Is there anyone out there who could be a mentor to us both as a couple finding our way, by guiding and teaching him and helping me understand what I need?

Not a promising start, is it? Usually, if someone doesn't get it, they never will. Sorry!