Feeling guilty for my thoughts

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I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?
 
I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?

Yes you should. You're turned on by the fact your wife was raped. You must be another conager alt, you sick fuck.

PS,

Does she have any pictures or video of the rape?
 
rape fantasies are generally something VERY different to the actual violence and fear involved in a real rape; though not all rapes may be physically violent, the mind of the person being raped (as well as the body) is being violated against their will and that leaves lasting psychological scars.

the fantasies may be something your wife uses as a buffer zone, something that makes this exploration of your fantasies "safe". i doubt very much she's completely unscathed.

to try and get her to speak about her rape-ordeal just to get your jollies is bloody awful. if she needs to speak with someone about it, it shouldn't be in the context of fulfilling your fantasies. that's like raping her all over again.

i think you need help with this issue you have; not calling you a monster or anything, but something's got mightily twisted around the issue and it might stem from the fact you don't know what happened and fill in the blanks with your imagination.

personally, i'd suggest joint counselling
 
I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?

Shaddup, Conager. Nobody wants to hear about your sick, perverted sex fantasies.
 
wasn't this same thread on here a year or so ago? didn't get your jollies last time?
 
wasn't this same thread on here a year or so ago? didn't get your jollies last time?

Not a year ago, but back in 2014, 2012, and 2011.

He seems singularly fixated on sharing his hotwife.

She has some nice tan lines.
 
I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?

You're fooling no one, Bernie.
 
Why settle for fantasy? Do it, man. They're all asking for it.
I got some pointers since you're a first timer. PM me. It's the details that keep you out of jail.
 
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