Milkdrops1
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Favourite method of restraining?
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JoseIsWild
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Milkdrops1 said:
A tree would be the best for tying someone with their arms over them. See pic:
myinnerslut
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i like being tied to the corners of the bed alot... but i really just like being tied in general. handcuffs, rope, scarves, disgarded clothing... they are all great ways to get tied up (or down)
neonflux
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Rope!
Also among my favorite toys because it's so versatile and so beautiful. Am beginning to learn "predicament bondage." The ties are done in such a way that struggle with one part of the body will create tension or pain in another. For instance trying to resist by pulling at the bonds tying one's feet would result in nipple or clit pain... The greatest fun is in seeing how long it will take the sub to figure out what parts of his body he needs to avoid moving.
Great new book, available for preorder on Amazon, by the Knotty Boys -
http://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Bo...4/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-2122672-4883211?ie=UTF8
Good luck in your adventures, Milkdrop! Would love to hear a report on what you choose and how it goes.
Neon
Also among my favorite toys because it's so versatile and so beautiful. Am beginning to learn "predicament bondage." The ties are done in such a way that struggle with one part of the body will create tension or pain in another. For instance trying to resist by pulling at the bonds tying one's feet would result in nipple or clit pain... The greatest fun is in seeing how long it will take the sub to figure out what parts of his body he needs to avoid moving.
Great new book, available for preorder on Amazon, by the Knotty Boys -
http://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Bo...4/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-2122672-4883211?ie=UTF8
Fury, I never thought I'd enjoy either doing this to someone else or being on the wrapped end, but have definitely changed my mind after having taken a women's intensive and seeing how powerful it can be on a number of different levels.FurryFury said:Sarah wrap because it totally restricts him, which makes him feel topped. Also it feels good to me! Even more fun is cutting certain parts out of it with a scary looking knife.
Fury
Good luck in your adventures, Milkdrop! Would love to hear a report on what you choose and how it goes.
Neon
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Personal favorite is rope bondage; I tend to go a little thinner than recommended, as my knots tend to fall apart in thicker rope or line, but the general consensus is 3/8". Versatile, decorative, strong, and limited only by your own inventiveness and the physical and psychological limitations of your partner, it's hard to beat the rope.
Another fun item that's been said many times, by many people...
Vet Wrap.
Serious. Google that stuff, and think of the possibilities. Nearly as versatile as rope, designed to compress without cutting off circulation, again, positions are limited only by imagination and your partner's abilities. Vet Wrap can also be used to create a makeshift bondage hood. Best of all, it doesn't mark as severely as rope (Expect some redness, and marks that look like pillow creases, and fade in similar time.)
As to positions, that's a combination of utility and art. If you're interesed in having sex with a bound partner, you need to remember access to the goods. If you just want to make someone helpless and frustrated (and loving it! - Sorry, channeling Maxwell Smart for a minute there), just about anything goes. If you want to make something pretty, like a porn picture, bear in mind that a lot of that stuff is potentially very dangerous, and really only good for a few minutes or seconds at a time, and really shouldn't be played with by beginners at all. (unless under expert supervision - like a "learner's permit", you shouldn't drive solo until you've had some instruction.)
Not to say all bondage should be avoided; just that over-the-top stuff you see in pornography - remember the models are really limber atheletes, and this is their sport. (Thus ends the disclaimer my conscience demanded I put there)
So, for me, it's all about versatility and diversity, not doing the same thing over and over.
Another fun item that's been said many times, by many people...
Vet Wrap.
Serious. Google that stuff, and think of the possibilities. Nearly as versatile as rope, designed to compress without cutting off circulation, again, positions are limited only by imagination and your partner's abilities. Vet Wrap can also be used to create a makeshift bondage hood. Best of all, it doesn't mark as severely as rope (Expect some redness, and marks that look like pillow creases, and fade in similar time.)
As to positions, that's a combination of utility and art. If you're interesed in having sex with a bound partner, you need to remember access to the goods. If you just want to make someone helpless and frustrated (and loving it! - Sorry, channeling Maxwell Smart for a minute there), just about anything goes. If you want to make something pretty, like a porn picture, bear in mind that a lot of that stuff is potentially very dangerous, and really only good for a few minutes or seconds at a time, and really shouldn't be played with by beginners at all. (unless under expert supervision - like a "learner's permit", you shouldn't drive solo until you've had some instruction.)
Not to say all bondage should be avoided; just that over-the-top stuff you see in pornography - remember the models are really limber atheletes, and this is their sport. (Thus ends the disclaimer my conscience demanded I put there)
So, for me, it's all about versatility and diversity, not doing the same thing over and over.
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FurryFury
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neonflux said:Also among my favorite toys because it's so versatile and so beautiful. Am beginning to learn "predicament bondage." The ties are done in such a way that struggle with one part of the body will create tension or pain in another. For instance trying to resist by pulling at the bonds tying one's feet would result in nipple or clit pain... The greatest fun is in seeing how long it will take the sub to figure out what parts of his body he needs to avoid moving.
Great new book, available for preorder on Amazon, by the Knotty Boys -
http://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Bo...4/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-2122672-4883211?ie=UTF8
Fury, I never thought I'd enjoy either doing this to someone else or being on the wrapped end, but have definitely changed my mind after having taken a women's intensive and seeing how powerful it can be on a number of different levels.
Good luck in your adventures, Milkdrop! Would love to hear a report on what you choose and how it goes.
Predicament bondage sounds like something I should learn. My husband would enjoy it and it would be amusing to me since his focus is usually all about getting loose.
Fury
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Definitely the perfect antidote for squirmers and would-be escapists, LOL.FurryFury said:Predicament bondage sounds like something I should learn. My husband would enjoy it and it would be amusing to me since his focus is usually all about getting loose.
Fury
A fun one that came up the other day... works best if your partner is shorter than you. The bigger the difference the better, actually. I tied her hands with a pair of simple cuffs, positioned her in front of me, facing away, and had her lower her hands behind my neck. We'd used a doorhook or something similar for the same purpose before, but hanging her like that from ME was something else.
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Milkdrops1 said:
Put them exactly where and how I want them, then utter 2 words:
Don't Move!
Then sit back and watch them struggle to remain still. The human body was not designed to remain in a fixed position for very long, we are dynamic beings. The struggle to obey versus the body's need to move and the fight against the fatigue is delicious. Eventually, the submissive _will_ fail. But the success is in the struggle to obey. The mind and heart are rewarded even when the body fails.
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Ropes are high on the list, though a Dom that can keep me still by choking me or holding me down (w00p for being able to wiggle out of most situations hehe) is much better than any rope play could be.
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LOL, you remind me of someone I know (trans/boi)- has been known to escape rope bonds and make whomever is topping him run after during a public scene. Just got a Mistress, we'll see how long it takes Her to get her to be obedient.pipesoflirael said:
pipesoflirael
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LMAO. It's just too fun to have someone sit there carefully making these knots and stand back all proud of themselves and i slip out and run. Wouldn't do that if i respected my Dom but, jeez, it's too priceless on some people.
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SirFace said:
LOL. Saving that one for future reference.
Dread_Pirate_Roberts
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There are a lot of different ways to bind someone that really excite me. When it's a basic binding to the bed, I like to make intricate knots that lay over the palm of my partner's hands so there is something to grab/hold onto. I also really like body binding where my partner is not tied to anything in particular but still bound. This includes legs, arms and torso. Here are a few pic.s for binding that I think are really erotic. The first one is fabulous when working with a new partner because you only have to pull the end of one rope and it instantly releases the knot, plus there are multiple loops going around the wrists. The other is a full body binding. I have tried both, or should I say tied? 
Oh the website I got the pics from is worth checking out. It's the Chicago Rope and Mummification website: http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_links.html
Cheers,
Dread.
Oh the website I got the pics from is worth checking out. It's the Chicago Rope and Mummification website: http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_links.html
Cheers,
Dread.
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Evil_Geoff said:
my Sir did this to my once.. i was lying on my back with my hands under my head and had my legs, kept straight, in the air spread apart. he told me to stay still and not move till his got back, and then LEFT ME TO GO TO THE BATHROOM. i was so tempted to cheat and lower my legs till i heard him come back, but i didnt. i was so proud of myself to be able to hold the position, even though my muscles were screaming by the time he returned.
