Fatal Attractions Over the Net....Who's had one?

[Stormy]

Hi everyone. I'm wondering, besides Rocky Springs and I...Who has had a fatal attraction in here or any other chatroom on the net?

Mine was my own fault. It occurred last summer while I was grieving the loss of my dad. I met a guy in Cancer chat (of all places) who had also lost someone close. I was so naive to how sick some people are out there. I never gave my last name openly but, on my email in that particular chat area, my first and last name appeared from sender. Like I said, I was new to the whole computer thing and didn't know that it would appear when signing up as a member.

Next thing I know, this guy calls me at home. I freeked out, to say the least. I had to change my phone number, profile name and everything. If he got my phone number, I'm sure he got my address. I still look over my shoulder at times. Has anything like this ever happened to any of you?

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

That has never happen to me, I just never fill out all the forms like I should because I like to play it safe, But you should never fear that you should look over you shoulder, IF this man is still calling you should put caller id and let your phone company all listed numbers you will accept and if its not on the list, They will notify you. Good luck

 

[Stormy]

Nobody, he's not still calling me cause I changed my number to unlisted. But, I now do like you do......I don't fill out all info or either fill it in with bogus info. Like I said, I was computer illiterate, naive and grief stricken. Who knew???

 

[Always]

i "met" this one guy at a BB like three years ago and we still ahgn out and roleplay on the net together but we've never actually done anything IRL. someday we're goin' on a road trip (and i will take my can of mace, trust me!)

 

[Comshaw]

Fatal attraction? Yes!
The wife and I met another couple over the net last August. We had a lot of things in common, motorcycles, humor, sex, that kind of thing.
Since then I've come to the realization that the woman of the couple is trying to kill me. really! She gets me into the bedroom when they visit and won't let me go! I'm an old man for Christ sakes. I can't be doing it 5 or 6 times a day for two or three days in a row. But that's what she does, forces me to have sex in just such a manner! She's trying to see how long I can go before I keel over from sheer exhaustion. Help! What do I do?

Comshaw the prisoner of lust.

 

[Stormy]

Hehehehehe

Originally posted by Comshaw/// Fatal attraction? Yes!
But that's what she does, forces me to have sex in just such a manner! She's trying to see how long I can go before I keel over from sheer exhaustion. Help! What do I do?


Play possum? Hell, who knows, that may turn her on more....I'll have to think on this one and get back to ya! LOL>

 

[Countess DeWinter]

Yep, I've had one, recently in fact. It could have been worse, but I was lucky. I guess that's the price one pays for posting nekkid pics of themselves on the 'net. *sigh*

It was a sad loss of naivete and trust for me.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Damn Countess

Don't tell me that made you too wary, I miss ya already.

Those who have been hurt, did you wise up and carry on, or did it cause you to withdraw from net interaction?

 

[Stormy]

Juspar

I withdrew from the net for a while,then wised up and carried on. And here I am now, hopefully among all friends.......

 

[Neale]

Trust no one?

No, I can't live like that. I freely make my email available, and treat everyone I am in contact with with honour and respect. Perhaps my faith that will be considered in the same fashion is naive, but I'm going with it for now. Should something untoward occur, then we'll see...

 

[Angel]

I play a text based RPG game on the net, have been playing it since it's birth on AOL in 95/96 (Somewhere around there lol) Anyway about 2 years ago one of the other players and I became friendly (Well alot of us did but that is besides the point)
Anyhow, I don't feel that I led him on in any way, but soon he would IM me constantly, email me constantly, and his behavior became harassing and abusing. I changed my screen name and email address but somehow he always found me through the game. Luckily he never got any personal info about me, but it was fairly annoying to deal with his bullshit EVERY time I logged onto AIM or checked my E-Mail. Well HE fucked up and gave ME his personal info, in some kind of desperation to meet me, and I told him if he didn't leave me alone, I'd get someone to drive down there and kick the shit out of him LOL. I think he realized then that he'd lost his little game he was playing and left me alone.

Took a year but he went away.

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Juspar

I withdrew from the net for a while,then wised up and carried on. And here I am now, hopefully among all friends.......

You are. But never forget to watch out for the snakes, anyway. They are here, just like everywhere else.

 

[Nobody Special]

Hey if some one wants to find you they will depending on how badly they want to find you... some times all they need is your first name and the city you live in... and others it can be just your name.... but NEVER EVER give out your SS#.... then some one can take your total life as you know it in the U.S. and literally leave you with out an Identity.. but you already know that..

But like I said if some one wants to find you.. most likely they will... and there really isn't much you can do about it..

E

 

[Roll-One]

Hi Stormy

I can't say I have had a fatal attraction on here. I have met alot of women on the internet, and quite a few of them, I have met in RL.

We would usually meet at a restaurant, and go dancing, and have a few drinks, or do whatever. We would just have a great and fun time.

I have never ask them for a home address or a home phone number, I always figured if they wanted to give me their number, they would, thats for them to decide.

I guess I have gotten off the subject alittle bit.<sorry>

I don't see anything at all wrong with having an internet relationship. It just hasn't happened to me yet. :-(((

 

[Ticklish Girl]

Hm, I've been thinking about this subject a lot recently, because of some problems I've had with a couple of my own internet buddies. Last summer I became pretty close with one of them. We had a brief but intense online relationship with some pretty hot dom/sub role playing, with me as the sub. (He was the first guy I ever "cybered" with.) We exchanged pics and even had phone sex once. We were all set to meet in RL (I thought), when all of a sudden he disappeared. He didn't return any of my phone messages or emails, and after about three weeks of this silence, I wrote him off. It hurt like hell, because at the time I was sure that I had done something to scare him off. But as time passed I was able to put things into perspective. I looked back at our old chats and saw a lot of little clues to this guy's real personality. I missed them the first time around because I was so intoxicated by the eroticism of our role playing, and also because the whole internet experience was so new to me. I don't know if this qualifies as a "fatal attraction", but it did hurt.

Another problem is more recent. One of my buddies is starting to become tiresome to me for a lot of reasons, not least because he wants to roleplay with me every single night, and because he says such mood-killing things as "Ooh baby I love to suck on your vagina!" If he had his way, he'd cyber with me twice a day. Even I can't keep up a pace like that. As I try to distance myself from him, he becomes ever more clingy. If I'm not on for a couple of days he sends me messages asking if I'm all right and telling me how much he misses me. Things came to a head, sort of, a few days ago when he said, "I love you." I responded noncommittally, but I was pretty uncomfortable. Yeah, I know that I've got to burst his bubble and tell him that I don't feel the same way. I've held back because I know it's going to hurt him, the way I was hurt. But if I prolong things, I guess I'll end up hurting him worse.

 

[Xander]

I see nothing wrong with internet relationships.
But yes I've had my fatal online relationship. And yes it hurt like hell when it ended.
I'm not gonna go into detail about it though.

It's over now. I'm free on the market so to speak. And I've moved on.

 

[April]

*wiggling the honey bottle*

 

[Ravenloft]

Xander just basicly spoke for me as well...

 

[Xander]

*wiggling the honey bottle*

Dont tempt me April

 

[Ravenloft]

Serious April, don't tempt him! He... Might do something quite unexpected... Bwahahahahah!!!

 

[Angel]

I had a relationship with a guy I met online when I was 18. I was young and dumb and went for it in a time in my life where I needed to get the hell away from what everyone else wanted me to do so I rebelled. The thing was that he was actually the biggest sweetheart in the world (Lucky for me) We ended up dating for a year, and then I fucked it all up because I was straining with the long distance aspect. Seeing him once every two months killed me and instead of being patient and waiting another year for him to get his degree I dropped him. I still feel like shit over it too.

::sigh::

 

[April]

Don't tempt you? Ha! You don't scare me. And besides, honey is part of my title!

 

[Xander]

Don't tempt you? Ha! You don't scare me. And besides, honey is part of my title!

Yes I can see that April. Okay....bring it on. Honey, I want Honey!!!!!

 

[April]

And where would you like your honey? Hmm? Or maybe I should just tie you down and have my way with you and leave you all sticky!

 

[Xander]

And where would you like your honey? Hmm? Or maybe I should just tie you down and have my way with you and leave you all sticky!

Thy wish is my command April Have me any way you want