Fast or Slow?

[wankerholic42]

I had a regular married friend visit me recently to watch some porn while I gave him one of my magic handjobs (as he calls them). As usual, when he was approaching the point of no return, he gasped his usual “Faster! Faster!” as my pistoning fist slid up and down his rock hard oily uncut cock. But then I had an evil thought. I certainly did not want to give him a ruined orgasm, but as he started to pant loudly and writhe quite a lot in pre-orgasm, I paused on the upward stroke then very slowly slid his foreskin off his bell-end in the downward stroke.

I was now wanking him with tortuously slow strokes, causing him to buck and writhe in exquisite “agony”, begging me to go faster. But I continued in slow motion and….wow! He let out a roar as he finally shot his load, the heaviest cum-load he’s ever released. His spunk went everywhere!

When he calmed down he chuckled: “You sadistic bastard!” I grinned at him and said: “Come-on now. Wasn’t that the best climax you’ve ever had here?” I didn’t want to assume it was better than the ones he had at home. He did admit it was pretty intense. I’ll have to see what happens the next time he visits!

So guys, all that was a prelude to asking: “When you masturbate or are jacked off by your partner/wife/friend, do you usually speed up or ask your masturbator to go faster at the point of ejaculation, or do you like to continue the edging process very slowly when you reach the point of no return? It’ll be interesting to compare notes.

 

[womaneater58]

I prefer lubed up and slow, edging as long as I can hold off.

 

[TheVegasMark]

I had a regular married friend visit me recently to watch some porn while I gave him one of my magic handjobs (as he calls them). As usual, when he was approaching the point of no return, he gasped his usual “Faster! Faster!” as my pistoning fist slid up and down his rock hard oily uncut cock. But then I had an evil thought. I certainly did not want to give him a ruined orgasm, but as he started to pant loudly and writhe quite a lot in pre-orgasm, I paused on the upward stroke then very slowly slid his foreskin off his bell-end in the downward stroke.

I was now wanking him with tortuously slow strokes, causing him to buck and writhe in exquisite “agony”, begging me to go faster. But I continued in slow motion and….wow! He let out a roar as he finally shot his load, the heaviest cum-load he’s ever released. His spunk went everywhere!

When he calmed down he chuckled: “You sadistic bastard!” I grinned at him and said: “Come-on now. Wasn’t that the best climax you’ve ever had here?” I didn’t want to assume it was better than the ones he had at home. He did admit it was pretty intense. I’ll have to see what happens the next time he visits!

So guys, all that was a prelude to asking: “When you masturbate or are jacked off by your partner/wife/friend, do you usually speed up or ask your masturbator to go faster at the point of ejaculation, or do you like to continue the edging process very slowly when you reach the point of no return? It’ll be interesting to compare notes.

No matter how much I beg for faster.....Don't listen.....The slow build to the final release takes me off the planet everytime....!!

 

[gtnlynn]

Slow works for me. It was fast when I was a teen, but then when my girlfriend did it for me the first time, she did it slow and steady. I had an amazing orgasm. I was converted to slow and steady to the end.

 

[wankerholic42]

Slow works for me. It was fast when I was a teen, but then when my girlfriend did it for me the first time, she did it slow and steady. I had an amazing orgasm. I was converted to slow and steady to the end.

Just the way I like to do it to a guy.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I had a regular married friend visit me recently to watch some porn while I gave him one of my magic handjobs (as he calls them). As usual, when he was approaching the point of no return, he gasped his usual “Faster! Faster!” as my pistoning fist slid up and down his rock hard oily uncut cock. But then I had an evil thought. I certainly did not want to give him a ruined orgasm, but as he started to pant loudly and writhe quite a lot in pre-orgasm, I paused on the upward stroke then very slowly slid his foreskin off his bell-end in the downward stroke.

I was now wanking him with tortuously slow strokes, causing him to buck and writhe in exquisite “agony”, begging me to go faster. But I continued in slow motion and….wow! He let out a roar as he finally shot his load, the heaviest cum-load he’s ever released. His spunk went everywhere!

When he calmed down he chuckled: “You sadistic bastard!” I grinned at him and said: “Come-on now. Wasn’t that the best climax you’ve ever had here?” I didn’t want to assume it was better than the ones he had at home. He did admit it was pretty intense. I’ll have to see what happens the next time he visits!

So guys, all that was a prelude to asking: “When you masturbate or are jacked off by your partner/wife/friend, do you usually speed up or ask your masturbator to go faster at the point of ejaculation, or do you like to continue the edging process very slowly when you reach the point of no return? It’ll be interesting to compare notes.

I like when whoever is stroking me lets their arousal decide. A dance of sorts. I also don’t like it to be over quickly. The longer the better. Cheers

 

[Britva415]

I had a regular married friend visit me recently to watch some porn while I gave him one of my magic handjobs (as he calls them). As usual, when he was approaching the point of no return, he gasped his usual “Faster! Faster!” as my pistoning fist slid up and down his rock hard oily uncut cock. But then I had an evil thought. I certainly did not want to give him a ruined orgasm, but as he started to pant loudly and writhe quite a lot in pre-orgasm, I paused on the upward stroke then very slowly slid his foreskin off his bell-end in the downward stroke.

I was now wanking him with tortuously slow strokes, causing him to buck and writhe in exquisite “agony”, begging me to go faster. But I continued in slow motion and….wow! He let out a roar as he finally shot his load, the heaviest cum-load he’s ever released. His spunk went everywhere!

When he calmed down he chuckled: “You sadistic bastard!” I grinned at him and said: “Come-on now. Wasn’t that the best climax you’ve ever had here?” I didn’t want to assume it was better than the ones he had at home. He did admit it was pretty intense. I’ll have to see what happens the next time he visits!

So guys, all that was a prelude to asking: “When you masturbate or are jacked off by your partner/wife/friend, do you usually speed up or ask your masturbator to go faster at the point of ejaculation, or do you like to continue the edging process very slowly when you reach the point of no return? It’ll be interesting to compare notes.

Edging doesn’t work on me. If I’m that close, I’m either going to get there pronto or I’m not, but either way it’s over.

Going slower when I say go faster IS ruining it - and not even in a “ruined-orgasm” kind of way.

Don’t do this without consent.

 

[Lucien_Al]

At the start I want very slow strokes from the bottom all the way to the top and then nice slow speed until I get close and then a little faster to simulate the end of being inside her.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

When I masturbate, I will edge for a long time. I've edged for a couple of hours while chatting or reading erotica or viewing porn. I like to build up slowly and sample my precum as I go. When I am ready to cum, I'll still stroke my cock slowly but steadily to finish myself off. Then I lick the cum off my hand.

I can hold off cumming for quite a while when masturbating, but in "partner" sex, I have variable responses, so I'll list them here.

Jacked off by my wife: really doesn't happen because that's the precurser to 69 oral sex. I can hold off for a while in 69, but once I enter her pussy, I 'cum quickly'.

Jacked off by a male partner: although not often, because it's usually only before the "jacker" sucks me off, but when it's happened, it's always with a "stranger" in an ABS video area and because of the salacious nature of it, I usually cum fast - no directions needed. Also, unlike with my wife, I can't last long when a "stranger" is sucking me off.

Therefore, although I like it "slow", I'll take it any way I can get it. Cumming is GOOD.

 

[hidden_star]

I do enjoy it when someone teases me when they are fingering me. Getting me right up to the point i'm going to lose control before slowing right down, holding me in that moment as long as possible. It's so delicious to be tormented like that before they finally hot the spot.

 

[wouldloveto]

Long, slow edging, ideally after being teased and denied for some days before.

At some point in that process, I would likely beg for anything, including speeding up, but what I really want is to be driven crazy, slowly and steadily until I finally burst, ruined or not.

Then continue with P.O.T. That is the way I like it.

 

[wankerholic42]

Long, slow edging, ideally after being teased and denied for some days before.

At some point in that process, I would likely beg for anything, including speeding up, but what I really want is to be driven crazy, slowly and steadily until I finally burst, ruined or not.

Then continue with P.O.T. That is the way I like it.

I could certainly help you out there!