Fantasy vs. Reality question . . . . .

[sandiego1]

We all have fantasies. Have you ever made any of your fantasies a reality? And if you did was it as good as the fantasy was?

I think sometimes the reality is NOT as good as the fantasy and maybe should stay that way in some cases. What are your guys(and gals) thoughts and experiences?

What was your fantasy?

 

[Sasha69]

Had a fantasy about meeting someone on the internet for a 'NSA FWB' hook up. So I went on the internet, and found that someone. We met. We talked. We imbibed. We availed ourselves of some herbal goodness and then that someone gave me one of the BEST blow jobs I ever had. Also, that someone taught me about cum swapping! Then it got SERIOUS. End result. Reality kicked fantasy's ASS! That someone moved away a few months ago due to economic realities, I wish them "Bon Chance" Is it always gonna be that way, metrics don't support that. Is it worth the effort to 'make' your fantasy happen? Step right up and spin the wheel Baby! It's how we're made. Once you 'have to' find out, you just can't let it go. Plus, there's all the folks right here on this site, a place were fantasy is VERY realistic almost every time I visit. Happy Yuletide. Stay Frosty !

 

[bicurious19]

My fantasy/fetish is tranny's.
I'm definitely pleased that I turned fantasy into a reality. Discovering the joys of anal sex, and developing a fetish for sucking dicks. Not to mention, if your a bottom like me, you get all the attention and maximum pleasure. I say go ahead and try anything. What's the absolute worst thing that could happen? You put a dick in your mouth, turns out hey, this ain't for you, or perhaps you feel it getting hard in your mouth and you like it as I did, and now you just have another sexual activity that can be pleasurable.

 

[darkheels]

Almost always my fantasies are better as fantasies. But I love to think of them as possible realities. That's hot.

 

[deyv]

Each of the fantasies that I've been fortunate enough to actually experience have been infinitely better in real life.

From the afternoon tryst with a cute girl who I met here (which was years ago) to experiencing what it was like to take a load of cum in my mouth to hooking up with a tgirl, to participating in a MMF, they've all been great.

And while I'll never say never - there are many fantasies that for some reason or another will likely remain as fantasy.

 

[Missingout]

From my experience from the beginning, as a guy I'd masterbait over a few fantasies. Once you cum and you then feel not turned on by it, shame or even disgusted then obvious it should stay a fantasy.
For ages I've fantasized about giving head to another guy and wanted to cum and then taste it. But once I came I didn't as the urge sank like the Titanic.
Once I told my wife these things she helped me get over it by forcing me to clean her up or by kissing me with a full load in her mouth. Her dominating me was a huge fantasy so by forcing me was fantastic.

 

[bps]

Intellectually, most folks must realize reality might not live up to a fantasy. But what if it does? What if it surpasses the fantasy?

 

[Shysub412]

I have so many fantasies i doubt i will get round to making them all reality, nor would i wish to, once they are reality what does one fantasise about?
The ones i have been lucky enough to experience in real life have far surpassed the fantasy and this has only encouraged me to continue trying!!

 

[sandiego1]

My fantasies Chang all the time. I always wonder about things like finding a guy or girl with my wife and both of us get crazy with them somewhere. But the reality is the stranger danger, disease, and safety would hinder everyone to be able to relaxe enough? We think that glory holes are awesome but I doubt we would ever do it. But the fantasy of all the men putting their dicks in there for us to suck is appealing. Maybe it's a worrying issue?

 

[sandiego1]

Also I might add we had the fantasy of having a guy over for me to suck off in front of her. We had 2 guys over and neither could keep it up. I thought our fantasy was never gonna happen. Then the third guy had a big cock and shot a huge load just the way we wanted to. So maybe you just have to keep trying till the fantasy is what you invisioned it?

 

[southern_gal]

I have seldom gotten the nerve together to even attempt to bring many of my fantasies to fruition. Sometimes that bothers me but the rational part of me knows that may be the best choice. Well, at least that's what my rational thinking mind wants me to believe anyway. Maybe I just need more nerve to find out.

 

[jakelc]

Most of my fantasies have been made reality with different partners and the ones I have left on my sexual bucket list are going to take some organising. However I rarely felt disappointed after doing one of my fantasies, I've been tired, sore and usually ended up sweaty but usually very satisfied.

 

[Phatfeet]

We all have fantasies. Have you ever made any of your fantasies a reality? And if you did was it as good as the fantasy was?

I think sometimes the reality is NOT as good as the fantasy and maybe should stay that way in some cases. What are your guys(and gals) thoughts and experiences?

What was your fantasy?

I think it all depends on how realistic people are with their expectations.

With fantasies we default to leaving out realities so that they have greater eroticism, but the problem with that is they often fall short of our expectations because of it.

An example might be in wanting someone our own age even that is elevated. When we finally meet someone, and they are willing to do something we always fantasized about, are we ready for an erectile dysfunction problem? Maybe some skin tags are found to be not so erotic. Maybe genital hair is more wirery than we assumed? Or finally kisses where stubble is felt?

Some are able to be overcome instantly, but the further the reality is from of fanciful expectation, the more discouraging our fantasy-realized is going to be.

And it is getting worse with the optimized imagery of the internet. From AI photos to carefully scripted video.

No one segment of the population is, and has always been, replete with this more than the transvestite community. Many men have had an interest with them, only to be shocked in the moment of passion. They did nothing wrong it was just the abuser’s expectations were really high. Ironically this is worse the more passable the transvestite is because when it is finally realized delayed because of how much lady-like they are, to ultimately realize, “I am with a man”, the shock turns to violence.

But no matter the fantasy, the best course of action is to consider some potential issues before engaging in it. That way, IF those things are encountered it is not such a shock. It might be as simple as cum having a consistency that was totally unexpected, or the definition of a “recent shower” meaning it was done sometime within the past month. Some surprises will completely ruin the fantasy-experience granted, but others will mean it was just a little different then imagined.

 

[Phatfeet]

We all have fantasies. Have you ever made any of your fantasies a reality? And if you did was it as good as the fantasy was?

I think sometimes the reality is NOT as good as the fantasy and maybe should stay that way in some cases. What are your guys(and gals) thoughts and experiences?

What was your fantasy?

I have several fantasies, and many I would be willing to try, but mostly because of my personality. If something was not as expected, I do not consider it a loss as I would rather try something and fail at it, or enjoy it less than I thought, rather than have lived a life wishing I had tried it. I found out, and that is worth a lot to me.

To answer the second question, one of my fantasies is to do a blowbang. I know, I know, so no judgment here for me please. But the number? Why a baker’s dozen (13) has a nice ring to it, doesn't it?

I doubt I could handle that many men in real life, but what is the worst that could happen, some men get handjobs instead of blowjobs, and I find out for real what my upper limit is?

So taking my own advice from my previous reply, I am already stacking the deck in my favor for it by understanding reality versus fantasy.

 

[curiousguy80]

My fantasy was giving a BJ. It took me a very long time to find some to make this a reality, and the only regrets I have is not having more time with the guy I met with, and for waiting as long as I did to explore this fantasy. I really enjoyed what I was doing, and can't wait to try it again.

 

[Escierto]

We all have fantasies. Have you ever made any of your fantasies a reality? And if you did was it as good as the fantasy was?

I think sometimes the reality is NOT as good as the fantasy and maybe should stay that way in some cases. What are your guys(and gals) thoughts and experiences?

What was your fantasy?

My fantasy was to be fucked by a beautiful trans woman. When i was in the hotel room bent over feeling her cock thrust into my ass, it was beyond satisfying. It was life changing and I knew that I was born to be a bottom. She fucked me over 30 times that week and lying on the bed with her cum running out of my ass, I felt like such a slut. Her slut.