Here is an idea to spice up almost anyone’s romantic life.
Each of you create a short list of sexual fantasies, at least five to start.
Write each fantasy on one small piece of paper and neatly fold it.
You need a his/hers container to put these individual fantasies in.
Now, set some special time aside to play using these fantasies.
To start, whoever is going first offers their fantasy container for the other to draw from. The fantasy drawn will be the focus of the evening’s fun.
Don’t take a narrow approach here. Each of your fantasies can be whatever you want. For example, you may want your partner to do something for you, with you or to you and vice versa. It’s your fantasy, enjoy it.
Don’t say you don’t have fantasies, we all do. You just need to relax and let your feelings flow. This is not just about wild, crazy, nasty sex. It can be romantic and loving, like taking a hot bath together or asking for a long, sensual massage. It could be more adventurous, like you can touch me anywhere you like for 15 minutes using only your lips and tongue.
Give it a try, you will both enjoy each other.
Each of you create a short list of sexual fantasies, at least five to start.
Write each fantasy on one small piece of paper and neatly fold it.
You need a his/hers container to put these individual fantasies in.
Now, set some special time aside to play using these fantasies.
To start, whoever is going first offers their fantasy container for the other to draw from. The fantasy drawn will be the focus of the evening’s fun.
Don’t take a narrow approach here. Each of your fantasies can be whatever you want. For example, you may want your partner to do something for you, with you or to you and vice versa. It’s your fantasy, enjoy it.
Don’t say you don’t have fantasies, we all do. You just need to relax and let your feelings flow. This is not just about wild, crazy, nasty sex. It can be romantic and loving, like taking a hot bath together or asking for a long, sensual massage. It could be more adventurous, like you can touch me anywhere you like for 15 minutes using only your lips and tongue.
Give it a try, you will both enjoy each other.
