Fantasizing

[Quinn_McMullen]

A couple of questions for my writing colleagues. I am most interested in the responses from my female colleagues.
1. How would feel if you learned someone was fantasizing about you?
2. How would you feel if that person wrote down their fantasies about you?
3. How would you feel if you knew those fantasies about you were published on Literotica?

Thanks
QM

 

[oggbashan]

Way back in the past, the Authors' Hangout wrote some chain stories. I feature in a couple. I don't mind and gave specific permission as did all the others that formed part of the stories.

 

[KeithD]

Some comments I get on stories (I assume it's the same way with others) fantasize on me being the protagonist of the story and thinking I'd be a good playmate for them.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Some thoughts are to be kept private. People want to fantasise about my characters? Great, that's what they're there for.

People here fantasising about me? Apart from not having enough info to plausibly do so, that's something they can keep to themselves. You need to know someone damn well before telling them you fantasize about them, probably we're talking after having had sex - unless your intention is to creep them out.

Or if you've started a conversation with the intention of discussing each other's fantasised, obviously that's different.

But generally, keep your fantasies in your head, or make them fictionalised enough that it doesn't matter.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

A couple of questions for my writing colleagues. I am most interested in the responses from my female colleagues.
1. How would feel if you learned someone was fantasizing about you?
2. How would you feel if that person wrote down their fantasies about you?
3. How would you feel if you knew those fantasies about you were published on Literotica.

I suppose my first thought would be that, as they have not met me, have not spoken with me, have not seen me, any image or impression they have of or about me differs from the reality and thus every thought they have of me is to some degree a fantasy.

If it is sexual fantasy, how could I object, for they would be fantasizing about their own fantasy.

Further edit. I wonder if any attractive young woman who has spent time making herself look especially attractive has not done so, to some degree at least, in hopes of having those seeing her fantasize about her?

 

[Quinn_McMullen]

I suppose my first thought would be that, as they have not met me, have not spoken with me, have not seen me, any image or impression they have of or about me differs from the reality and thus every thought they have of me is to some degree a fantasy.

How about if they do know you?

 

[TarnishedPenny]

It's a moot point, Quinn, for I think there are only a couple of Lit readers who have any real personal info on me and I haven't met any of them in person. Those individuals who do know me personally IRL, hey, go for it! I've had the odd sweet daydream about people myself.

In the end, the saddest fate for any healthy human being is to know that absolutely nobody on the planet views you as a sex object.

 

[Quinn_McMullen]

In the end, the saddest fate for any healthy human being is to know that absolutely nobody on the planet views you as a sex object.

Quite profound. Thank you TP.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Quite profound. Thank you TP.

Da nada. May your house always be just a little too small for the love it contains.

 

[Handpop]

If someone would tell me, out of the blue, that he or she had put some fantasies about me on Literotica? The reaction depends on lots of factors, but for now my initial thought, without further knowledge, is: very uncomfortable.

Most likely, I would feel better off without having that knowledge. Different folks, different strokes, but if you want my opinion, that is just creepy... Some fantasies you should keep for yourself, unless you are really sure they will be appreciated.

 

[tenyari]

I take a hard pass on stalkers.

 

[Rustyoznail]

If someone fantasises about me, considering my avatar, they're a very sick puppy.

 

[Quinn_McMullen]

Thank you everyone. I was thinking about writing about such a situation, but I thought most people would think it is weird. You have confirmed my suspicions. Note to self - not all ideas are good ideas.

 

[Jmanchu]

Now, keep in mind this is from a guy that is amateurish as a writer and new to putting any stuff out, so take it all with a grain of salt. But if you ask me, I don't think that there are really such things as ideas that are inherently and irredeemably bad to the core or just good. Every inspired idea can technically work if you come at it right, whether you have to make adjustments or work the difficult parts out, if you have to.

If this is a meta story of a fictional character that finds out about a sexual fantasy written by the male character, then maybe the fictional girl in question finds out a written up fantasy story(not published necessarily, maybe just sees it accidently on his computer?) that sounds like something she could do or picture herself in(not necessarily that it has to be about her)? And reads it? That could be an nice premise.

But if you add the elements of that story she reads being obvious to her that she's the star in and then published publicly and possibly without her permission is where it gets tricky. Those parts altogether is where it'll get difficult to make it work well in my opinion.

 

[BronzePlaceWriter]

Thank you everyone. I was thinking about writing about such a situation, but I thought most people would think it is weird. You have confirmed my suspicions. Note to self - not all ideas are good ideas.

I mean, it can probably work as the basis for a story. You just need to set it up carefully. Have the main character be established ahead of time as someone who is into that sort of thing. Maybe they get off on the attention of strangers so having a version of them in a story on lit is a big turn on for them. Or maybe the person who wrote the story did it without meaning to, subconsciously basing the main character on someone that he likes. Have her realise first and confront him on it, and during the ensuing argument have him realise that he did do it, and her realise that she finds it kind of hot and wants to explore it a bit.

 

[lovecraft68]

Some thoughts are to be kept private. People want to fantasise about my characters? Great, that's what they're there for.

People here fantasising about me? Apart from not having enough info to plausibly do so, that's something they can keep to themselves. You need to know someone damn well before telling them you fantasize about them, probably we're talking after having had sex - unless your intention is to creep them out.

Or if you've started a conversation with the intention of discussing each other's fantasised, obviously that's different.

But generally, keep your fantasies in your head, or make them fictionalised enough that it doesn't matter.

I imagine the image readers have of us in their mind based on our stories wouldn't be the reality of what we look like or who we are, and would most likely be a let down.

 

[MillieDynamite]

I get grossed out by some fan mail from here, other sites, and from my webpage. Men who, knowing I'm a lesbian, tell me how they want to violate me. How lesbianism is sexy to certain kinds of men and makes them want to take those women by force and convert them. I can't keep them from their fantasies, but I don't want them to share them with me. Goddamn Ian, Flemmings Pussy Galore being converted by Bond seems to carry a lot of weight in their world. More people who can't separate fiction from reality.