False first impressions

[ewopper]

I have met women whom, at first contact seem to hate my guts for no reason. then somewhere along the way she's all over me, can anyone tell me why the sudden change, and why the first feelings seemed to be animosity

 

[fergus4]

I have met women whom, at first contact seem to hate my guts for no reason. then somewhere along the way she's all over me, can anyone tell me why the sudden change, and why the first feelings seemed to be animosity

It is possible that she was initially afraid, or didn't understand her feelings for you. So she was mad at herself for the feelings that she had, yet didn't entirely understand (all sub consciouly).

Or there is the possibility that she GENUINLY did NOT like you, yet, strong feelings can sometimes become confused, and she loved to hate you so much, that it became a passionate feeling. i.e. she wants to fuck you like she hates you. (all more sub conscious bs).

Anyway, don't take my word for it. I am a man. There is an Irish expression:

There are three types of men that do not understand women,
Young men
old men
and middle aged men.

fergus

 

[ewopper]

It is possible that she was initially afraid, or didn't understand her feelings for you. So she was mad at herself for the feelings that she had, yet didn't entirely understand (all sub consciouly).

Or there is the possibility that she GENUINLY did NOT like you, yet, strong feelings can sometimes become confused, and she loved to hate you so much, that it became a passionate feeling. i.e. she wants to fuck you like she hates you. (all more sub conscious bs).

Anyway, don't take my word for it. I am a man. There is an Irish expression:

There are three types of men that do not understand women,
Young men
old men
and middle aged men.

fergus

you bring up some great points, and great food for thought thanks

 

[fergus4]

Thanks you.

I make three basic points in that post ... the first to are sub conscious stuff,

but it is the third that I believe to be the most accurate

fergus