Falling asleep inside her

[muttley44]

So, my wife and I have been toying with the idea of having sex, and after ejaculating, staying inside her and both just falling asleep. We've been totally unsuccesful thus far because I end up slipping out when I become flaccid.

Last night we hosted a party and both got pretty hammered. After all the guests left we went to bed and started to doze off while snuggling. One thing led to another and as we were having very, very sloppy drunk sex, we dozed off in this position:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_scissors.shtml

I slept/stayed inside her for about 3 hours intermittently waking long enough to slide in and out until I gained a pretty firm erection and fell asleep again. She was wet during that whole time as well. We had to stop when my shoulder cramped up from the lack of movement.

So, my question is: Has anyone done this all the way to the next morning? If so, what position did you use? Any tips appreciated.

 

[femmegirl9273]

wow

great site too....

when my ex and I were together we fell asleep missionary style w/him on top. He was so far up though that he was over my left shoulder. It was so intimate. Not sure why you keep slipping out, I think our case was successful because we were too damn tired to move and just collapsed!

 

[muttley44]

We've tried with me on top, but being suffocated with my weight crushing her isn't too comfortable for her. We've tried with her on top, but her boobs get squashed and that too isn't comfortable for her either.

Not sure why you keep slipping out

We can fall asleep in the spoon position, but when it gets soft, combined with the slickness from the semen, it just slips out.

 

[IsabellaKing]

It's a lovely way to fall asleep but it seems a little bit unrealistic to expect to be still there in the morning.

 

[muttley44]

It's a lovely way to fall asleep but it seems a little bit unrealistic to expect to be still there in the morning.

True. Things are sometimes unrealistic in muttley land. Just the thought of having a morning erection inside her while we're both asleep is well... giving me an erection.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

We can fall asleep in the spoon position, but when it gets soft, combined with the slickness from the semen, it just slips out.

Maybe the solution would be to clean up a little after sex and reduce the amount of fluid inside her. Or you could refrain from actually fucking her/cumming in her until the morning.

 

[Tyr51]

I always did think such things were rather romantic.

 

[muttley44]

Maybe the solution would be to clean up a little after sex and reduce the amount of fluid inside her.

That all depends on my refractory period at the time.

Or you could refrain from actually fucking her/cumming in her until the morning.

Which goes back to my origianl question as to what position you've had success with.

 

[muttley44]

I always did think such things were rather romantic.

For me it's the thought of taking the intimacy one step further. To be able to stay connected without having to be conscious.

Not sure I'm saying it clearly, but please, feel free to add your thoughts.

 

[wetheliving]

Yes; spoons position. It was lovely.

Ask her to try sleeping at a two o'clock position to your body.. if that makes sense...

 

[Shadow Thief]

One time we did it with her on top, and then fell asleep together, with her still on top of me and me still inside her. We weren't like that all night, just dozed off for maybe an hour, but I was still inside her when we woke up. It was nice.

 

[anoncuriousm]

it's definitley a very intimate experience. it can't work with missionary guy on top because generally she can't bear your weight while you sleep on top, and yes in that position you will slip out. my gf and i tried a few times and while we didnt' go to sleep until very late night (like 5am) we did wake up few hours later in the morning with me insider her: both on our sides facing each other in an embrace but myself slightly facing upward and her facing slightly downward on her side and leaning half on me, legs crossed. i dont think it matters whether you cum in her or not, after you fall asleep it will get soft anway. she has to be leaning into you (preferably again because harder for her to maintain a guys sleeping weight) that the pressure keeps her leaning in that position and pushing you into her. it also depends on how you sleep and how tired/tireless you are... if you're moving obviously it will come out. but its not unusual to have a night sleep in one position, so you just have to try a few times and get lucky once...

 

[muttley44]

Excellent suggestion! Thanks.

 

[anoncuriousm]

no one can describe how good this feels because its one of those things you just have to experience to know. personally all of it was good, but a nice fringe is waking inside with the morning wood

 

[KariOca]

I think that depends very much on the anatomy of both partners. It never happened to me with my wife, in fact we never tried. But it happened spontaneously with a friend. She was lean, and she very much enjoyed having anal sex. So after fucking in several positions and having a nice dinner we went to sleep on the spoon position. Feeling my dick on her ass I could not resist penetrating her anally. After having another orgasm we both fell asleep, with me inside her. Of course I expected that to fall off of her, but I was surprised that any movement any of us made, which could have dislodged my penis from her ass, provoked spontaneous contractions on her anus which brought me to a new erection. So yes, we slept the whole night with me inside her. And that was the only time that happened to me. And our legs hurt a bit next morning.

 

[canogagrizz]

Yeah I always thought it was hot to try and do this. My wife & I were successful quite a few times when we were younger. I'd say it was about a 35+% success rate for all night long mating. 50-50 chance that I'd slip out during the night. Some nights it would slip out & others it wouldn't. It was so comfortable to be inside her as long as possible. She felt the same. We'd be on the couch just watching TV & I'd have my penis inside her. Of course I'd have to pump about once a minute to keep it hard but back when I was younger I could stay hard inside her for hrs so long as I did not cum. On some night when we would do this it was super hard for me to fall asleep because I was sort of concentrating on wanting to stay hard & inside her. It was so intimate the longer we'd stay mated together. Almost like a nurturing feeling. Mostly we'd do the spooning position to do this as long as we could. The hardest part was for me going to sleep. My instinct was to pump as much precum into her as I possible could. Like edging in a way. MANY times she would be asleep already when I would cum inside her. Her body would react even when she was asleep as I pumped my seed into her. Few times she would feel me cumming in her & it would wake up her up & she'd moan in enjoyment & approval. I'd still always stay inside her afterwards. Sometimes when we'd wake up I'd be out. Sometimes I'd still be inside her. And when I'd wake up inside her it would be a morning wood or I'd instantly get a hard on & cum inside her again in the morning.
Anyways, this was our favorite thing to do for many years. She said me being inside her as much as possible was like a natural feeling to her. Like it would make us be the most ultimate togetherness as we could get. She said it felt like I was constantly mating her. Like that is how it should be as much as possible. She would normally masturbate herself while I was inside her. When she came it was hard for me not to cum as well. That was super hard to control also. She wanted me to just keep pumping precum into her until her or I both fell asleep. She said she'd feel my contractions when I did that and it felt to her like we were mating. I spent many wonderful nights just doing that for hours. When I knew she was asleep it was sort of like me masturbating myself inside her. It was so very hard to fall asleep & I would do this for as long as I could edging until I came insider her usually. It was the best way to go to sleep ever.
We are much older now & sadly haven't done that in years. It sucks getting older.