Hello,
I am pretty new to the bdsm lifestyle but feel like I have a good understanding (at least in my own head) of what makes a healthy bdsm type relationship. In my own life, I value trust and respect and feel that those two emotions are paramount for a Dom and his sub to grow together. I am not looking to control someone's life in every aspect because I want my sub to be strong and independent on her own. Also, I don't really have the time or energy to be making those kinds of decisions on a daily basis.
What I am looking for is someone who is willing to give themselves to me both mentally and physically in the bedroom. Sure there might be times when it would be fun to tell you what to wear, but mostly I am looking for a submissive in a sexual context. I know what I enjoy and would like sexually. I can and will be stern and controlling but at the same time caring and respectful. I am not into extreme pain or bathroom stuff (I'm not knocking it but its just not a turn on). There are many things that I would like to do but that discussion can be saved for those who are interested in talking further.
I could go on and on about who I am and what I like but feel its more enjoyable to have an organic conversation with someone where those things are discussed. I would like to say that I am young, fit, intelligent, respectful, and moderately to heavily sarcastic lol. Anyway, if anything I have said here interests you, send me a private message and we can take it from there.
Have a nice day,
Danny
I am pretty new to the bdsm lifestyle but feel like I have a good understanding (at least in my own head) of what makes a healthy bdsm type relationship. In my own life, I value trust and respect and feel that those two emotions are paramount for a Dom and his sub to grow together. I am not looking to control someone's life in every aspect because I want my sub to be strong and independent on her own. Also, I don't really have the time or energy to be making those kinds of decisions on a daily basis.
What I am looking for is someone who is willing to give themselves to me both mentally and physically in the bedroom. Sure there might be times when it would be fun to tell you what to wear, but mostly I am looking for a submissive in a sexual context. I know what I enjoy and would like sexually. I can and will be stern and controlling but at the same time caring and respectful. I am not into extreme pain or bathroom stuff (I'm not knocking it but its just not a turn on). There are many things that I would like to do but that discussion can be saved for those who are interested in talking further.
I could go on and on about who I am and what I like but feel its more enjoyable to have an organic conversation with someone where those things are discussed. I would like to say that I am young, fit, intelligent, respectful, and moderately to heavily sarcastic lol. Anyway, if anything I have said here interests you, send me a private message and we can take it from there.
Have a nice day,
Danny
