GuiltyCowboy
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Using facts to counter groupthink can and does do the exact opposite: it increases groupthink.
A factually accurate statement from someone you distrust emotionally will simply be overridden by that emotional distrust.
It's tempting to call this tribalism but that's not how tribes actually work. Tribes in reality thrive by being open-minded (to changes and opportunities), by bridge-building with other tribes (for trade and security), and by consensus-seeking (sifting out poor ideas in favor of better ones). To be 'tribal' is actually to be open-minded, to build bridges and to seek consensus.
So, what's up with the groupthink and the resistance to facts, especially if human success has always depended on the opposite?
It's because, above all else, humans want to be calm. Yeah, calm. And they achieve this calm by creating worlds where there's no tension.
Do you want tension in your life? 'Course not. Who wants that? And so it's perfectly normal that people actively want to be cut off. Alternatives provide conflicting messages and uncertainty. And if there's one thing that freaks us out more than anything else it's uncertainty.
(Curiously, artists who are generally considered geniuses - Shakespeare and the like - have a particular love of uncertainty).
Anyway, this world we create gives us the best way to satisfy our deepest cravings: it's where we connect with other humans, earn status, and find some kind of goal or meaning. Confront me with an alternative and you're threatening to take away my status, my meaning.
So why the hell do people come here everyday to be confronted by alternatives? After all, studies have shown that, when people are confronted with irrefutable facts that contradict their political beliefs, their brains light up in the same way as if they've just encountered a bear.
It's because we all get a little shot of neural pleasure in having resisted the alternative. The truth and what's correct is utterly irrelevant. All that is relevant is that our world remains intact. Hence the groupthink increasing, not reducing.
Anyway, why the fuck have I bothered to write this out? I'm bored and I had a spare 10 mins mainly. But also, I just wanted to congratulate everyone for fighting off the bears everyday.
But - and if you've got this far then well done, you must be as bored as me - here's a question to end on: what tricks can be used to overcome the emotional distrust?
Edit: Don't know how I could forget this, given this is an erotica website: the other main reason for bridge-building is of course...for sex.
A factually accurate statement from someone you distrust emotionally will simply be overridden by that emotional distrust.
It's tempting to call this tribalism but that's not how tribes actually work. Tribes in reality thrive by being open-minded (to changes and opportunities), by bridge-building with other tribes (for trade and security), and by consensus-seeking (sifting out poor ideas in favor of better ones). To be 'tribal' is actually to be open-minded, to build bridges and to seek consensus.
So, what's up with the groupthink and the resistance to facts, especially if human success has always depended on the opposite?
It's because, above all else, humans want to be calm. Yeah, calm. And they achieve this calm by creating worlds where there's no tension.
Do you want tension in your life? 'Course not. Who wants that? And so it's perfectly normal that people actively want to be cut off. Alternatives provide conflicting messages and uncertainty. And if there's one thing that freaks us out more than anything else it's uncertainty.
(Curiously, artists who are generally considered geniuses - Shakespeare and the like - have a particular love of uncertainty).
Anyway, this world we create gives us the best way to satisfy our deepest cravings: it's where we connect with other humans, earn status, and find some kind of goal or meaning. Confront me with an alternative and you're threatening to take away my status, my meaning.
So why the hell do people come here everyday to be confronted by alternatives? After all, studies have shown that, when people are confronted with irrefutable facts that contradict their political beliefs, their brains light up in the same way as if they've just encountered a bear.
It's because we all get a little shot of neural pleasure in having resisted the alternative. The truth and what's correct is utterly irrelevant. All that is relevant is that our world remains intact. Hence the groupthink increasing, not reducing.
Anyway, why the fuck have I bothered to write this out? I'm bored and I had a spare 10 mins mainly. But also, I just wanted to congratulate everyone for fighting off the bears everyday.
But - and if you've got this far then well done, you must be as bored as me - here's a question to end on: what tricks can be used to overcome the emotional distrust?
Edit: Don't know how I could forget this, given this is an erotica website: the other main reason for bridge-building is of course...for sex.
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