Facials are great for everyone

[lick4her]

I've read on this list the usual discussion about facials and I
thought I'd write why I believe men love them so much -- and why women
might too.

Men love women who love sex. Nothing is hotter than a woman who
simply loves sex. And nothing represents sex for a man like his semen
-- so a woman who loves his semen is very, very attractive to a man.

I don't believe there is anything degrading or humiliating about
facials, I don't think most men do. Rather it's a way for a woman to
say "I love sex with you, I love your semen, I want it all over me."
And this is extremely erotic for a man to watch.

I'd had previous girlfriends let me cum in their mouth and ones who
swallowed and while that was very erotic, nothing was a sexy as this (our first facial):

My wife (who swallows too) was sucking me but her jaw was sore so she
was just licking the end and giving me a handjob. When I started to
come, I moved down so I wouldn't hit her in the face. When I was done
she said, with a devilish, playful grin, "You could have left it there
you know." So the next time in that situation, I didn't move at all
and her cheeks and chin were covered with my come. When she looked up at me and smiled, cum on her cheeks and dripping off of her chin, it was the
sexiest thing I've ever seen and I've never been more in love with my
wife -- and why? -- because she was sending the message the she loves
my semen, loves sex with me, and loves me.

Since then I think she's been disappointed while giving me oral sex if
I didn't pull out and splash a little (or a lot) on her!

And for women who don't like to swallow or even let men finish in
their mouth, it's a great alternative to keep your men happy!

Any thoughts? (Plus ladies, when you're sitting on our faces, our faces get covered with your come.)

 

[dollface007]

A facial is degrading if a woman doesn't want you to come on her face and you do anyway. I can tell you that after seeing a million disgusting, degrading cumshots in porn movies (and i don't even watch that much porn!) a girl can think, "he just wants to turn me into some random skank by cumming all over my face."
Many women have many reasons for not wanting cum on their faces. Some might even change their minds If she's into it, go for it. If not, lovingly ask why, and leave it at that.
...just my 2 cents

 

[fleur d'amour]

funny part of this all, sir and i were talking about this today. How about him cumming on your face, and then scooping it off with your fingers and putting it in ur mouth? or even him putting it in for you? hehe...just me and my devilish ideas.

~His Flower~

 

[lick4her]

I totally agree. I'm just saying that men love it when a women is really into it. It's extremely sexy. I would never ask a woman to do it who wasn't into it. And actually I don't think I'd ever ask. As I learned, it's much hotter when it's her idea!

I like facials in porn ONLY when the woman seems really into it. When the woman is just sitting there bored, it seems pointless.

A facial is degrading if a woman doesn't want you to come on her face and you do anyway.
...just my 2 cents

 

[SexyChele]

I'm not sure I agree with the idea that men are that attached to their semen. There are men out there who enjoy sex with a woman and don't orgasm.

I think it has more to do with a certain taboo about it, a certain naughtiness - on the part of both people.

And no, I don't consider facials between two loving people who agree to be disgusting or degrading. (Though I always feel the cum shot facials in porn are gratutitous.)

I think men just like women who are willing and enjoy sex and are capable of letting a man know that!

 

[wicked woman]

I've read on this list the usual discussion about facials and I
thought I'd write why I believe men love them so much -- and why women might too.

Men love women who love sex. Nothing is hotter than a woman who simply loves sex. And nothing represents sex for a man like his semen -- so a woman who loves his semen is very, very attractive to a man.

I don't believe there is anything degrading or humiliating about
facials, I don't think most men do. Rather it's a way for a woman to say "I love sex with you, I love your semen, I want it all over me." And this is extremely erotic for a man to watch.

I'd had previous girlfriends let me cum in their mouth and ones who swallowed and while that was very erotic, nothing was a sexy as this (our first facial):

My wife (who swallows too) was sucking me but her jaw was sore so she was just licking the end and giving me a handjob. When I started to come, I moved down so I wouldn't hit her in the face. When I was done she said, with a devilish, playful grin, "You could have left it there you know." So the next time in that situation, I didn't move at all and her cheeks and chin were covered with my come. When she looked up at me and smiled, cum on her cheeks and dripping off of her chin, it was the
sexiest thing I've ever seen and I've never been more in love with my wife -- and why? -- because she was sending the message the she loves my semen, loves sex with me, and loves me.

Since then I think she's been disappointed while giving me oral sex if I didn't pull out and splash a little (or a lot) on her!

And for women who don't like to swallow or even let men finish in
their mouth, it's a great alternative to keep your men happy!

Any thoughts? (Plus ladies, when you're sitting on our faces, our faces get covered with your come.)

Lick4her thank you for sharing those thoughts. They aptly express how I feel when receiving a facial from my lover....who loves to give them by the way for the reasons you've expressed.

The point about forcing someone to 'take' a facial is true of all sexual acts. They should all be done through desire, love, and respect.

 

[ClubIrish]

A facial is degrading if a woman doesn't want you to come on her face and you do anyway. I can tell you that after seeing a million disgusting, degrading cumshots in porn movies (and i don't even watch that much porn!) a girl can think, "he just wants to turn me into some random skank by cumming all over my face."
Many women have many reasons for not wanting cum on their faces. Some might even change their minds If she's into it, go for it. If not, lovingly ask why, and leave it at that.
...just my 2 cents

well said, I agree with all

 

[Dirty Dana]

I don't understand the whole degrading thing of facials either, I absolutely LOVE them. It's very eroitc to watch a man shoot off when he cums ( I wish I could do that!). I am a visual person though when it cums to sex too I guess. The lights are always on for me! lol

 

[Lust Engine]

I don't understand the whole degrading thing of facials either, I absolutely LOVE them. It's very eroitc to watch a man shoot off when he cums ( I wish I could do that!). I am a visual person though when it cums to sex too I guess. The lights are always on for me! lol

I think what's degrading to one person might be a total turn on for another. To each their own here.

But the fact that the name of this thread implies "EVERYONE" is wrong. It's not for everyone.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

AMEN ITA with DOLLFACE

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

Degradation is a state of mind involving both partners, not an act.

That said, if I'm into my partner, I want him to come everyplace we can think of. It's not degrading, it's a way that I get to share in his orgasm.

Share & share alike, baby!

 

[sheath]

Okay, I'm wondering.

I discovered a little fetish of mine, completely by accident. One night, I was watching my man masturbate...and he came hard enough that it splashed on his chest. So, I wondered what it would be like to watch him give HIMSELF a facial. He was into turning ME on, so the next time he came, he did it. He found that he actually enjoyed it, but it was something he had never thought of trying before.

The title of the thread is, "Facials are great for EVERYONE"...and I know that I can give my man my own special kind of facial by sitting on his face when I cum. But that's not my point...

I'm wondering, guys. If you love giving women facials so much, how responsive would you be to giving YOURSELF one, so she can enjoy watching it?

**sits back and waits**

S.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[sheath]

Damn, woman, I love the way your mind works.

Thanks, Orchid. I like the way yours works, too.

I like to dip into the well of intrigue and taboo on occasion.

And I'm still sitting back...waiting for responses...

S.

 

[SexyChele]

Thanks, Orchid. I like the way yours works, too.

I like to dip into the well of intrigue and taboo on occasion.

And I'm still sitting back...waiting for responses...

S.

I agree with both Orchid and Sheath...

Now, where are those guys that think facials are good for everyone! Don't be shy, I'd like to meet you as well!

 

[TumbledLove]

I've given myself a facial before. I was shooting it in my mouth, but it ended up getting on my face too.

it's definitely not something I do every day, and I don't think I could do it with someone watching.
...weellll.. maybe... if she helped clean up the mess.

 

[stilltrying]

I'm wondering, guys. If you love giving women facials so much, how responsive would you be to giving YOURSELF one, so she can enjoy watching it?

Well speaking for myself, I've done this many times both for and with the active participation of various partners, and we've all enjoyed it a great deal.
And it makes for some remarkable kissing afterwards!
A partner giving you an orgasm is the ultimate in sharing of course, but somehow for me, it's not quite as intimate as getting yourself off while your lover watches. It's such an exposed moment, because there is no time when you're more 'you' that I can think of.

I think it's a very sexy thing to do.

 

[Zilla]

I haven't ever had a "facial". They seem a little creepy to me. What if I get cum up my nose? What do I do with cum all over my face, wipe it on his pants? What if it gets in my hair? That would be gross I think. Especially if it dried on me.

 

[lick4her]

My wife has had it in her hair, it wipes right out.

And when I was younger I once gave myself a facial. On my back, I threw my knees up over my head (Im pretty flexible so I wanted to see if I could suck my own dick).

Well it didn't quite reach my mouth but I beat off that way and had the come falling down on my face. It was (literally) hot splashing against my face. So I can understand you ladies feeling a bit of a rush as it hits you.

Given it seems like most of you like facials, what percent of 20-40 something American women do you think partake in facials.

Given the age-old swallowing debates, I never would have guessed facials would be so common.

 

[Wantonica]

I haven't ever had a "facial". They seem a little creepy to me. What if I get cum up my nose? What do I do with cum all over my face, wipe it on his pants? What if it gets in my hair? That would be gross I think. Especially if it dried on me.

I had to giggle at your post. I've never had a facial either (yet...) and have this notion that cum will be in my eyes and up my nose. I've had it in my hair (no big deal, but yes, it does dry rather stiff) and kleenex could take care of the clean-up, just like with any other part of the body. I'm very willing to do this, and my SO will surely indulge me one day, but I do imagine myself shutting my eyes and plugging my nose. HaHa.

As for the definition of degradation varying with different people... my ex-husband wouldn't cum in my mouth; the one time he did and I swallowed, he said it was whorish. My SO never had the opportunity to do this before me, and we find it a very bonding experience for us.

Happy day,
Lascivious Wanton

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Wantonica]

Just remember to close your eyes. I don't think most men come hard enough to really shove a bunch up your nose, but I have to admit it's a funny image!

All sorts of things to do with it on your face. He can lick/kiss it off, you can just wipe it off, or you can wipe it off with your fingers and lick them, most guys would probably really enjoy seeing that.

Have you ever met a man with an extremely queasy stomach? Let me just say that if I was to lick cum off my fingers, I'd have something else to clean up. Smiles!

Happy day,
Lascivious Wanton

 

[Zilla]

my ex-husband wouldn't cum in my mouth; the one time he did and I swallowed, he said it was whorish.

Woah. Whorish? It sounds like it's a good thing he is your ex husband...

 

[Mike302]

Facials are fun, but we prefer it in our mouths.

Mike