Face slapping... really?

[dendrewchi]

I was watching porn on xhamster the other night (if that shocks you, you are on the wrong site my friend) and saw one of those Czech street pick up videos. In this one, the woman getting picked up was American (pretty sure she is an established porn star). So it started out interesting with the guy saying in Bohemian how he can't really understand the woman, and the woman in clear English saying she can't understand him... bla bla bla and eventually they get to the sex.

Then he starts slapping her across the face. After a little bit of that, I found another video. To me, that wasn't sexy but degrading and distracting. I was like, 'really, she could really like that???'. I cannot think of any girl I have ever been with that would have been turned on by that. Some ass slapping is one thing, but face slapping just seems like it would hurt and really just piss the woman off, through the guy off and kick him in the nuts.

If during sex the woman slapped me in the face, it would be over as well. Ok, I am a guy so it would only be on hold while I clarified the ground rules, but if it happened again it would be over. Probably.

My question is this, does anyone real think that would be a turn on during sex? Either to do it or to receive it? I can't imagine so, but porn is marketing and if they film it I assume it is because they know enough someones will want to watch it.

So please help me with my curiosity. Is that really a think that some people really like?

Here is the video for your own evaluation:

https://xhamster.com/videos/4k-test-14365037

 

[Jada59]

I've seen a lot of those face slapping crap. Some people are into being degraded and humiliated. Not my thing.

I've been slapped in the face with a cock. Not sure why some guys do that either. Not a turn on for me but I think it's kind of funny.

 

[Empteevee]

My best friend is super in to it and has been for quite awhile. Not only slapping but she likes to be hit. I have done a lot but nothing like that before. I have seen her best up pretty bad. But whatever slops your joe I suppose

 

[dendrewchi]

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks that way. Wasn't really afraid of that, but still nice to know for sure.

Same for the dick slapping the face thing. Looks just silly in a porn video.

I get off more on pleasing the woman I'm with than using her body to please me. So if in the moment she asked me to do something like smack her ass or pull her hair I can do that. But slap her face with my dick or my hand... I just don't know. Honestly I probably would because she asked me too, but it would likely just be a disappointing result for both of us.

 

[Empteevee]

Glad I'm not the only one that thinks that way. Wasn't really afraid of that, but still nice to know for sure.

Same for the dick slapping the face thing. Looks just silly in a porn video.

I get off more on pleasing the woman I'm with than using her body to please me. So if in the moment she asked me to do something like smack her ass or pull her hair I can do that. But slap her face with my dick or my hand... I just don't know. Honestly I probably would because she asked me too, but it would likely just be a disappointing result for both of us.

My ex told me about a time some chick rubbed his cock all over her face in the middle of a blow job like saliva everywhere and he said he almost busted out laughing. The crazy thing is that at some point in that chicks experience someone must have liked it and requested it.

 

[Jada59]

I just remembered... I stumbled across a vid where the guy kept punching the woman in the stomach. Ugh!

 

[dendrewchi]

My ex told me about a time some chick rubbed his cock all over her face in the middle of a blow job like saliva everywhere and he said he almost busted out laughing. The crazy thing is that at some point in that chicks experience someone must have liked it and requested it.

I guess every moment in life is a learning experience...

Mindful not to judge others I will say that if someone truly get pleasure from something and their partner is comfortable doing it, then good for them. Bruises, slap marks and cuts just aren't my idea of exciting sex.

Next day sore muscles and crotches is the most pain I want out of sex.

 

[Empteevee]

I mean I love bruises and bite marks but punching and knives? Not so much

 

[dendrewchi]

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[dendrewchi]

I mean I love bruises and bite marks but punching and knives? Not so much

Bruises and bite marks... I can see that, at lease in the right places. Light scratch marks on the back too. To qualify, I like those when done out of passion in the moment. Not if done just to hurt.

 

[Empteevee]

I got really carried away once with my first long term partner and left deep scratches all over his back. He said he could hardly shower we all start somewhere

 

[hulmule]

Yea not into that, doesnt turn me on. Pulling hair while loving make(not crazy hard) to pull her head back to expose her neck to kiss and suck on

 

[StrongMaster7]

As someone who has had a number of experiences with a willing submissive woman who enjoyed restraint and pain, it was a learning experience for me to get used to the idea that this lovely little women became sexually aroused at having her tits, pussy, and ass slapped. I have never hit a woman in anger or for any other reason except as requested by this one. And her reactions were undeniably pleasurable ones.

So, I try not to prejudge anyone's way of having fun as long as it's consenting adults who are not doing physical harm to themselves or each other. I'm sure there are people out there who would condemn whatever intimate activity you care to name.

 

[TandT69]

Not judging but if someone slapped me or even slapped my ass, Id feel sorry for the poor soul! And thats the TRUTH!

 

[SunnyC]

Like many I abhor degradation in most forms. It's different if it comes from an established, loving place with mutual trust, but that wouldn't be most porn these days.


Howwwweeeeevvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

Having said that, I must confess this: the other day I was surfing xhamster and I came across a video. I think it was German and I couldn't understand the dialog, but the characters were believable and interesting. The theme was a very taboo encounter of some kind and they were grown-ups, borderline 'mature'. I don't know if it was incest or infidelity, but they were very clearly into the hook-up, yet equally clearly they were deeply conflicted about the propriety of the situation. They were very good at expressing the conflicting emotions they were experiencing and it was hot as hell watching them. Their lust overpowered their reservations (duh ) and they got enthusiastically down to business. As he entered her in the missionary position she realized they had crossed the rubicon, and the mix of lust and anguish she was showing suddenly gave way to a last flash of her dignity, and as their hips met at the bottom of his first plunge into her, she slapped him hard across the face. He took it silently, and her impulse left her as quickly as it had come, and they shared an instant understanding. It bonded them in the coolest way, and they went at it with even more passion.

The slap came out of nowhere and startled me, but what really shocked me was that my mostlyh non-violent middle aged penis leapt up with teenage speed and stature. That was a delicious sexy moment.

 

[ableoneable]

I have done it and had it done to me.

I enjoy both but both parties have to be onboard and you have to know exactly what you are doing.

Accuracy is exceptionally important. If you slap your partner in the correct spot, center cheek, you can strike quite hard. If however you misjudge and hit too high, too low or too far back or forward you can really hurt and even cause injury.

 

[Jada59]

A little levity!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LEAiGDw220

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SShxvD_kyq4

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have never hit a lady in anger either, and never would, but can say that some women like this sort of thing...a lot!

They are the type that like rough sex, but it only works if their is trust in the relationship, and good communication.

As I said, I have never hurt any lady in anger, but once I had to be told to ease off a little when I was consensually-choking a lady during sex, just because sometimes I do not know my own strength. This is where safe words come into play, but not really a yes or no sort of safe word, as in this situation we used "Mercy" which means I did not have to stop, she just did not want me to choke her so hard.

I say all this so people understand exactly what I mean when I say there must be good communication.

 

[jehoram]

Face slapping: No.

Breast slapping: Yes, if she wants it.

Dick slapping: Yes, if I'm in the mood.

Ball slapping: no way.