Eyes open or closed

[veryfaithfull]

Eyes Open. I like to watch.

 

[Reba67]

Both. Closing my eyes helps me concentrate on the physical sensations I'm feeling but opening my eyes and looking into his provides an amazing connection.

This is exactly my thoughts. I know he loves to have his eyes open when he's pleasuring me, but when it's his turn, he's usually got his eyes closed and mine are open but depends on what I'm doing to him at the time.

 

[Mr-Gyrus]

Mine are open most of the time. Love watching who I am with, facial expressions, body parts moving....of course sometimes, when the pleasure gets really intense, my eyes do tend to close.

 

[sadangel]

I'm primarly a watcher. I like watching what I am doing or my partner is doing. It's part of the turn on for me. About the only time my eyes close is as I orgasm......

 

[Mr.G]

Eyes Wide Open

Eyes open, man. It makes calling them by the right name a whole lot easier and more accurate too.

 

[romantic_always]

Eyes open, because you are truly experiencing the sensation of being with your partner. That being said, I find it so hard to keep them open before I orgasm, I feel like my body's just going to explode!

But all leading up to that, I love to see his facial expressions and stare at his body. It's the best part, of course!

 

[Beekr]

Eyes closed?????
I have a close friend. One night he was telling me about
his new gf and he said she was a princess. I did not understand and
asked him what a princess was?? He explained "the kind of woman the closes
her eyes while being made love to because she does not want to see
another person having pleasure." I have never had a woman close her eyes
during a love..But does it really make a difference???

 

[m468h]

Lol

Eyes open, man. It makes calling them by the right name a whole lot easier and more accurate too.

oh my god that is funny.....

 

[TheleHun]

Eyes open. Eyes closed gives me the feeling of vertigo sometimes. Is that weird?

Also that is how you end up hitting her head on the headboard.

 

[KarennaC]

It depends.

I like to watch, so eyes open is great. I'm a very visual person and can get off on just seeing someone else close to getting off, or on watching him slide in and out of me. My current partner, though, is an extremely tactile person, and with him I find myself closing my eyes more, even when we're just hugging, so I can focus on physical sensations. His eyes are often closed as well, though he's finding himself keeping them open more so he can watch me enjoy myself. When we're making love, I try to lock eyes with him for at least a few seconds because it intensifies the connection.

 

[WriterDom]

My ex said mine were closed a lot.

 

[fotowriter]

I generally keep my eyes open becasue I like the visual stimulation. Maybe it's just a guy thing but it seems that women tend to close their eyes more so they can concentrate on and enjoy the sensations more. I think it has a lot to do with wanting to see the pleasure on my partners face. I Think I'm going to have to experiment with the eyes closed thing.

 

[ender1818]

Well I know I go back and forth between eyes open and closed, but to watch her cum....

Oh that's the good stuff right there!
eyes rollin in the back of her head...
mouth half open, working on it, enjoying it!

that you HAVE to watch!

 

[biker_buddies]

Eyes

I'm a watcher....don't want to miss a thing lol

 

[pussy_liquor]

Both...eyes open and closed!

 

[Cincinnatus]

If we're talking vanilla sex, making love as you put it, then I guess it's an eyes closed event for me.

If we're talking a BDSM scene, then it's strictly eyes open; usually to much going on and you don't want to miss something important.

I was just wondering while making love how many find themselves concentrating while their eyes are closed or how many like to watch during the process?

Perhaps you do both and what goes through your head as you watch or as you concentrate with your eyes closed.

Thanks for your thoughts.

 

[GeorgeWBush]

I like to watch it is so much fun watching my GF face when she has her orgasm.

Also she likes to talk about things while we make love.

 

[daddysgirl83]

hm, well i seem to be in the minority here on this topic and i haven't heard anyone say this yet ... but i generally tend to keep my eyes closed. not because im imagining something else or someone else - but mostly because if i have my eyes open one of two things happens...
1) i get distracted by something else i see
2) i'm VERY shy and do not like to be looked at so if my eyes are open then it makes me nervous and uncomfortable and then im not into it. ... and thats not a good thing to have happen lol

so for me, i'd have to go with eyes closed. i wish i could be one of those girls to give head and look up at their face and watch - or make love with the lights on and eyes opened. but sadly, i'm more of the eyes closed and lights off girl!

good thread!

 

[Sensualist2]

Yeah, me too. Sometimes open, sometimes closed; sometimes both as sex progresses.

 

[Sensualist2]

Looking into eyes of the lover and watching emotions roll across her or his face is marvelous, but very hard to do in some positions!

 

[nipple jewelry]

Missionary then I love to look into his eyes. If doggie (my favorite) then usually my eyes are closed. If we are turned toward the full length mirror that are our closet doors, eyes wide open to watch him back there having fun!

But thats just me!

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