Eyes open or closed

[fotowriter]

I was just wondering while making love how many find themselves concentrating while their eyes are closed or how many like to watch during the process?

Perhaps you do both and what goes through your head as you watch or as you concentrate with your eyes closed.

Thanks for your thoughts.

 

[Snip2]

I like to watch my wife...................look into her eyes. Her into mine. I also like to watch her bounce up and down when she's on top!

 

[SpecialKay62]

If I'm totally into the husband at the moment, eyes open. If I'm into a fantasy, eyes closed. Probably alternate during...I'll observe later and let you know for sure.

 

[fotowriter]

I kind of like eyes open at least for me. I don't think to me it matters whetehr my partners eyes are open or shut. I enjoy the pleasure of seeing her expresssions as I please her. Sometimes however If she closes her eyes I wander what she is thinking or what is going on in her head. Some women say they are concentrating on teh sensations how many women out there tend to concentrate on teh sensation and how many actually fantasize about something differant at the time.

 

[Jack_Samuel]

Eyes open for sure. The visuals are half the excitement for me.

 

[A_Kefka]

I like to watch whoever I'm with, so open.

 

[Angellika]

Eyes open

 

[Shadow Thief]

Definitely eyes open, for the same reason I like to have at least a little bit of light, rather than total darkness. For me, half the experience is seeing the other person enjoy it.

The only time I ever closed my eyes was when I was with someone I really didn't want to be with.

 

[wicked woman]

Both. Closing my eyes helps me concentrate on the physical sensations I'm feeling but opening my eyes and looking into his provides an amazing connection.

 

[ZoeBird]

I like to watch my husband during sex, but I have to have my eyes closed to have an orgasm. It is kind of frustrating sometimes!

 

[TheAntiRebel]

Sometimes when a girl closes her eyes during sex, I get worried she's thinking about somebody else, which she probably is.

 

[ZoeBird]

Sometimes when a girl closes her eyes during sex, I get worried she's thinking about somebody else, which she probably is.

Oh I don't really think that is true. Guys are more visual than women. Guys like to see everything that is going on. Girls are usually totally fine with having sex in the dark, because it does not tend to affect the experience. I think it's just a difference between men and women, and not necesarrily a sign that she is imagining you are someone else!

 

[TheAntiRebel]

When a woman doesn't grab my chest or arms, and has her eyes closed, I know she's imagining being screwed by Brad Pitt or Richard Gere or something.

 

[ZoeBird]

When a woman doesn't grab my chest or arms, and has her eyes closed, I know she's imagining being screwed by Brad Pitt or Richard Gere or something.

Nawh! I like to put my hands above my head on the pillow with my eyes closed when I am having an orgasm. But I've never been in danger of calling out "Oh Brad!" while my husband was making me cum!

I think it's just a female thing.

 

[AnitaMann]

ohhhh

Eyes open for sure! I especially love to look up into a man's eyes when I am kneeling between his knees.... mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love that!

 

[TheAntiRebel]

Eyes open for sure! I especially love to look up into a man's eyes when I am kneeling between his knees.... mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love that!

Well, that's just good technique.

 

[TallMan60]

Open, I like to watch the boobies movie. And like to look into her lovely eyes.

 

[Davetmat]

Open for sure, if my girls eyes are closed i knows shes just relaxing and enjoyin herself lol, sadly we have to aim

 

[wildehafer]

If the lady is on her back with her eyes open she's probably looking to see if the ceiling needs painting!

Are you there yet?

OK, seriously, I do eyes open when I want/need the visual stimulation and then eyes closed to concentrate on the physical sensations and get the fantasies to the fore (when necessary).

 

[banes27]

Eyes open, unless we kiss, then my eyes close to enjoy her lips fully. Sex in the dark is good to, it causes me to feel her body and bring it closer to me so I can properly feel how she's moving and reacting, rather than seeing it. And eyes open during oral when I'm looking up at her face, but closed when I'm not, to get my tongue to work harder

 

[just for fun]

Looking into your lovers eyes while they or you orgasm is very cool. I read about it once and have done it and it's very enjoyable.

 

[banes27]

Looking into your lovers eyes while they or you orgasm is very cool. I read about it once and have done it and it's very enjoyable.

Agreed, this is one of the better experiences of sex next to having your ears right next to each others mouths so you can hear the breathing of your partner during sex.

 

[Paxter]

I'm definately in the eyes open camp. There is nothing more sensuos than watching your lover's facial expressions as you make her cum.

 

[tigereye_77]

Definitely eyes open. There's no greater turn on (for me at least) than to watch the my wife's body and facial expressions during sex.

 

[GypsyLovergirl]

Oh yeah,
Eyes open!
Nothing hotter than that connection. Feeding off the intensity.

Bliss!