extremely turned on at work by....

[qrayze]

You are worse than a Baptist preacher. You disgust me.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you had a conservative Baptist upbringing where rock music is bad and being closer than six inches to the opposite sex is sinful...

Sometimes, you give pretty good advice, but whenever it's about something like this, something that would've been preached against while you were growing up, your bitterness really shows through. It's that attitude that makes you seem so abrasive to the posters who have been here for years.

There's nothing wrong with defending a person's right to make their own choices; after all, we each have our own free will, but slandering other members because you don't like what they say just isn't cool.

Yes, we all have freedom of speech on this forum, but respect for all things living is very important to keep.

 

[bailadora]

Well, now that you mention it. . .

 

[satindesire]

What I find most hilarious about this entire situation is the only person bothering to bring up religion is Nasty. Not one person in here has mentioned anything about God or sin or anything but him. YET, WE'RE the ones who are repressed, angry sex-hating fire and brimstone missionaries.

 

[fuckmeat]

What I find most hilarious about this entire situation is the only person bothering to bring up religion is Nasty. Not one person in here has mentioned anything about God or sin or anything but him. YET, WE'RE the ones who are repressed, angry sex-hating fire and brimstone missionaries.

I really shouldn't say this, but he's kinda the anti-BLoved

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I really shouldn't say this, but he's kinda the anti-BLoved

Win.

[/thread].

 

[coastal-boy]

http://www.cnn.com/2011/LIVING/03/03/cb.boss.flirting.with.employee/index.html?hpt=Sbin

I'm sure CNN is a bunch of "church" people too.

 

[Marcj1969]

Ask yourself one question, what is more important, a stable pay check, insurance, your professional reputation OR a fling that is likely to end in disaster. If she's married and she's doing this to you, it's likely she's doing it to others as well. You need to tread lightly. If you do start a relationship and it ends badly, she'll seek retribution in the most subtle and deadly kinds of ways. Your work will be backlogged, reminders left unreminded, your name unmentioned when it should be to the people in higher authority, etc. If the affair is discovered, your professional reputation gets trampled in the public arena. It's just not worth it. Keep your head low, and let her play her games, but don't play back unless you are willing to live with the consequences and remember, it's not that easy to find a good job these days.

I like the expression Don't put your meat where you make your Bread!

 

[Tony_Stark]

or is itchy from a yeast infection.

Sorry, but this made me laugh out loud! lol - that would be my luck!

 

[sassylilthang]

a married woman who's a huge flirt!! not only is she a huge flirt but she also shows physical signs of being turned on - erect nipples and squeezing her thighs together when speaking i'm speaking to her at her desk. last week when i approached her while she was doing filing, it appeared to me that she started grinding her pussy a bit up against the corner of the filing cabinet drawer!!! she saw me quickly glance down which made her stop. i was blown away and could feel my cock starting to grow. i was so absolutely turned on like never before that i left the office early that day and went straight home to jacked off ... reliving what had happened just a few hours prior.

anyways i would love to approach her and ask her out to lunch but with her being married i'm finding it very difficult. it's driving me nuts because it's happening at work, shes married, i'm a bit shy but i want her so bad

any suggestions??

Be careful. I allowed a situation from my private life to spill over into work. And it did almost ruin my career. It took me 4 months to find a job, after being fired from a job I absolutely loved. During that time I got no unemployment, due to being fired for a "work rules violation".
My advice, think twice.

 

[HornyVikingMN]

Not True, At All...

Sexual harassment means one of them is unwilling to do it.

It will not be called sexual harassment if two of them had a good time.

I never had sex with my colleagues, but I used to fuck a girl from our vendor and another woman from our client. I didn't lose my job for these.

This statement is so far from the truth, it's laughable. The problem is that in many sexual harrassment cases, what started out as a consensual fling becomes something else after the fact. People find out, careers get parked, things end ugly and a lawsuit gets filed. Regardless of whether actual harrassment took place, reputations are damaged, credibility is shot, and jobs are lost.

There's a simple answer: Don't dip your pen in the company ink.

 

[Texguy84]

Also, it's entirely possible for a third party to feel harassed. If a guy slaps a girl on the ass and calls her "Cutie", she may or may not mind, but the other girl who works in that office might mind greatly. Whether or not any of it was targeted at her, under the law, she can file for harassment. Don't like that? Guess it goes in the same category with other laws you may or may not like including speed limits, the drinking age, and what time the shops have to stop selling booze.

 

[Berwyn]

Folks....nasty is a Troll. A skilled one, but classic none the less. He hops in threads, makes grand and obviously inflammatory statements, and then engages in arguments with those who fall into his trap. All to keep the LoL's flowing.
The best attitude to take with him, as with any troll, is to ignore him. When he sees that the board is no longer fun to play with, he will go away.....
Sorry for the off topic....

 

[Firefly69]

I don't think it makes you a bad woman, it's really common for a married person to be attracted by someone else, who isn't?

Thanks for that!

But it wasn't the attraction I was concerned about. Attractions are normal and everyone has them. The part I was concerned about -- was that it in the situation I mentioned- I just didn't know if I would have said no.

Thats a problem. uck.


bailadora-- thank you so much for your response! I have not quite read everything to catch up on here yet-- but I did see your response. I appreciate it. I really was curious so thanks for taking the time to answer.

 

[Christopher2012]

OP, I'm not sure if you're still reading this thread or not but my story may make you reconsider...

I had a good friend at school who showed all the signs that your girl showed. My friend was not only bringing me back to her place, getting ready in front of me, showing the goods, etc., but she was also telling me constantly that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend. All the time, I'd hear "Oh, I need to be single and crazy!" and "I need a new boyfriend..." etc...

Welp, I thought that she was hinting at me... so I told her how I felt about her... And now we no longer talk. And I mean she completely avoids me at all costs.....

Jesus, it's not like I took a sexual advance... I just told her I liked her a little more than that.

FML... Lost one of my best friends. I will never see her in a good mood ever again. She'll always walk past me with a straight face and that's it... I can't begin to tell you how stupid I feel. I just wish I could take that one stupid knee-jerk reaction moment back and enjoy what friendship I did have with her.

It's not worth it...

 

[PrettyLilPistol]

Ask yourself one question, what is more important, a stable pay check, insurance, your professional reputation OR a fling that is likely to end in disaster.

Yeah, don't shit where you eat.

this pretty much says it. I dont see the need to repeat it.

 

[Texguy84]

Folks....nasty is a Troll. A skilled one, but classic none the less. He hops in threads, makes grand and obviously inflammatory statements, and then engages in arguments with those who fall into his trap. All to keep the LoL's flowing.
The best attitude to take with him, as with any troll, is to ignore him. When he sees that the board is no longer fun to play with, he will go away.....
Sorry for the off topic....

But what if the LOLs are flowing our way because he just sounds like an idiot?

 

[bailadora]

Thanks for that!

But it wasn't the attraction I was concerned about. Attractions are normal and everyone has them. The part I was concerned about -- was that it in the situation I mentioned- I just didn't know if I would have said no.

Thats a problem. uck.


bailadora-- thank you so much for your response! I have not quite read everything to catch up on here yet-- but I did see your response. I appreciate it. I really was curious so thanks for taking the time to answer.

You're welcome, Firefly. If you or anyone else is interested in what does and does not constitute sexual harassment, you might want to check out this article. It's pretty concise and is consistent with operating practices back when I was still in HR.

 

[smj4740]

delete

 

[thirty]

You being from communist china you don't hear about the huge numbers of women killed by husbands bf's or other men just because. It has nothing to with car crashes or eating food or about the man in this post. It about the the woman who may be in a dangerous relationship at home and therefore find her life in danger. Just because she hangs out with a guy who has no clue she has a jealous husband bf or stalker

I know there is a possibility, but people still have sex when they know there is a possibility to get STD even with condoms on.

When a single man goes out a single woman, it's still possible that the man can be hurt by the woman's secret admirer.

Go for it or not, it's up to the parties involved, we don't have to worry too much about them.

 

[Que]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you had a conservative Baptist upbringing where rock music is bad and being closer than six inches to the opposite sex is sinful...

well yeah not baptist, more wives involved but you nailed me.



Wait this isn't about me is it? Sorry I project my own issue into other peoples situ's a lot.

Slowly bows out.

respect for all things living is very important to keep.

Except insects and arachnids.

Unless they are really pretty fluttery insects then they are totally teh hawtness.

 

[Berwyn]

But what if the LOLs are flowing our way because he just sounds like an idiot?

well then.....please continue