Exploring my inner Mistress

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PM sent...Switch ready and willing to explore.


I am searching for submissive men or women who are looking to explore the mistress /sub connection. You should know I don't fit the standard definition of a mistress. I am looking to explore this with more sensuality than is what portrayed out there through stories and porn. I'm not cruel and I don't intend to ever be. If this sounds like something you might be interested in exploring with me. PM me. Enjoy your day/night!
 
Mistress Kate

I have attempted to replay to your post, but your private message box is currently full.

jay ahr
 
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This something I like a lot. I'm not big on the pain department. I just love making someone happy. But it takes pleasure to get pleasure. I enjoy role play as a pet cat. But some day I like to be a real pet for that special person in my life. Anyway I know your only wanting to chat about, just thought I'd post something. Enjoy your day
 
I would be very interested to hear more about what you would like to do. I have no problem with a transfer of power as long as a certain level of respect is maintained.
 
I do apologize for the full in box. Please be patient and don't give up. I still haven't found what I'm looking for.
 
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I must say I am quite surprised by how many doms have approached me after reading this post. With the request to submit to me. Hmmmmm... I am finding myself wondering if it's because they truly want that or they have discovered I am a switch and will probably try to dom me. It's happened twice so far in this quest. That is not what I'm looking for. So if that's your intent please don't bother as I'd like to keep the space in my inbox for those truly interested in serving me. Thank you.
 
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I must sound like a ten year old trying to type. I apologize for my grammar and such. I know that with so many guys private messaging you it must be overwhelming. Anyway I'd like to discuss things with you in post if you like. I'm not afraid to get it out in the open. I figure since the messages are full, it would be another way to reach you.
 
I feel there is a huge gap in what it means to truly be a mistress and what is actually being portrayed. I don't feel that being in control means I need to degrade, humiliate or hurt you. There's a sensuality and seduction that is being totally over looked and that's where I want to discover how to fill that gap.

Definitely agree. Media, porn, in many guys' fantasies... it all seems to miss that and overlook the power of more gentle moments or caring words, neither of which mean a lack of control. A woman who has the confidence to not feel the need to scream, bitch or degrade to guide a man submissively along the path she chooses is incredibly sexy. Sharp words here and there might be needed, sure... some chiding never hurt anyone... correction may be a different story and there's always more than one way to achieve that, right?

I can take on either role, but am much more naturally a submissive. And once submissive, I am submissive. The catch, though... I'm unsure about continuing a D/s arrangement I'm part of at the moment... I may be leaving it very soon (incompatibility). I would be very curious to trade a few PM's and learn more about you and your approach, though!
 
This certainly has been an enlightening experience and I've made some fantastic connections that I am looking forward to exploring more. Thank you for all the interest. I'm not sure what I expected when I posted this thread, but it has far surpassed my wildest expectations. This journey just keeps getting better and better. Thank you to all of you that have reached out.
 
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love to be taken control of and teased. you can have me do as you wish.
its not so much what I do its knowing that I am under contol and doing it for someones pleasure
 
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