forgetthefeet
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- Apr 7, 2014
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For me, power is an incredible turn on. Things that relate to power exchange and general inequality between partners excites me tremendously. Facials are the first thing that captivated my imagination. Then, all of the elements of BDSM. After discovering face-fucking for the first time, it became a regular part of my fantasy.
Even though anal sex has never been a huge personal turn-on, I deeply enjoy watching it in porn. Gang bangs, double-penetrations, and all of the associated interaction make for very intense scenes.
In real life, I've had the chance to experiment with almost all of these fascinations but haven't been able to figure it out entirely. I seem to lack the necessary push-through needed to draw out true submission. I do not take what I am after as much as I could, even when my girl is aware of what I want and offers no objection.
My girls have kept their pussy waxed and submitted to spankings, whippings, and even knelt on the floor in front of me, asking for me to deliver the facial cum shot. I also have a foot fetish, which has been difficult to satisfy. Very few girls understand how to keep their feet at their best, and many prefer to avoid the topic all together...but I digress.
If I were to be completely honest, I think the problem is one of familiarity. It is difficult to push someone you have a long-standing relationship with to the point of total surrender. The elements of humiliation necessary to feed the interest aren't well suited for a close personal relationship, and should be better served in a more temporary, “just for kicks” type of arrangement.
I imagine being part of a D/s association where individuals join independently and pair up only for events. Subs would be placed in a specific area and tops would select the one (or ones) they want based on personal profiles submitted by each member. A contract would be negotiated and the parameters of play agreed to. The contract would include at least two people, a dominant and a submissive, but could include more as long as a hierarchy was established. One sub, for example could be required to dominate other sub depending on the arrangement. A single sub could be required to serve multiple masters. Standard “performance contract” issues would be addressed to include the limits, time, location, and duration of the event. In my fantasy, I choose a public venue and work on a single sub together with two or three other dominants.
The sub would agree to surrender the right to end the scene, and in return, I'd agree to limit the amount of physical punishment to be doled out as part of the ritualized humiliation. Thus allowing the psychological battle between master and slave to become the primary focus. All of our work would be performed with a live, interactive audience, and the effort would be filmed and photographed. The documentary would allow us to see how well we did at breaking through the psychological walls...
Play would be scheduled for a given time, at which the audience would be free to move around the set as they wished. The girl would be called in and inspected by her dominants. We would ensure she complied with the dress code and grooming. She would be required to follow all of our instructions exactly, and we would control all of her actions through command. She'd be forced to pose and spread. She would be renamed for the scene, and never referred to as anything other than the words that had been chosen for her. She, on the other hand, would be required to maintain her courtesies using proper sir and madams, respond with please and thank you, and praise our efforts which are intended to help her through the experience.
The games would include face-fucking, anal, double-penetration, spanking, slapping, name calling, and culminate with a series of facials. The audience could suggest acts and would provide feedback on the performance. Ideally, we'd create a relatively rowdy scenario similar to a back alley fist fight where cheering, jeering, and hi-fives fuel the energy of the action.
In the end, the dominants would be considered successful only if we manage to force a mental retreat and send the slave into her happy place. If we fail to break her, then we would have to accept whatever consequence was required by the initial contract....
Who's ready for a challenge?
Even though anal sex has never been a huge personal turn-on, I deeply enjoy watching it in porn. Gang bangs, double-penetrations, and all of the associated interaction make for very intense scenes.
In real life, I've had the chance to experiment with almost all of these fascinations but haven't been able to figure it out entirely. I seem to lack the necessary push-through needed to draw out true submission. I do not take what I am after as much as I could, even when my girl is aware of what I want and offers no objection.
My girls have kept their pussy waxed and submitted to spankings, whippings, and even knelt on the floor in front of me, asking for me to deliver the facial cum shot. I also have a foot fetish, which has been difficult to satisfy. Very few girls understand how to keep their feet at their best, and many prefer to avoid the topic all together...but I digress.
If I were to be completely honest, I think the problem is one of familiarity. It is difficult to push someone you have a long-standing relationship with to the point of total surrender. The elements of humiliation necessary to feed the interest aren't well suited for a close personal relationship, and should be better served in a more temporary, “just for kicks” type of arrangement.
I imagine being part of a D/s association where individuals join independently and pair up only for events. Subs would be placed in a specific area and tops would select the one (or ones) they want based on personal profiles submitted by each member. A contract would be negotiated and the parameters of play agreed to. The contract would include at least two people, a dominant and a submissive, but could include more as long as a hierarchy was established. One sub, for example could be required to dominate other sub depending on the arrangement. A single sub could be required to serve multiple masters. Standard “performance contract” issues would be addressed to include the limits, time, location, and duration of the event. In my fantasy, I choose a public venue and work on a single sub together with two or three other dominants.
The sub would agree to surrender the right to end the scene, and in return, I'd agree to limit the amount of physical punishment to be doled out as part of the ritualized humiliation. Thus allowing the psychological battle between master and slave to become the primary focus. All of our work would be performed with a live, interactive audience, and the effort would be filmed and photographed. The documentary would allow us to see how well we did at breaking through the psychological walls...
Play would be scheduled for a given time, at which the audience would be free to move around the set as they wished. The girl would be called in and inspected by her dominants. We would ensure she complied with the dress code and grooming. She would be required to follow all of our instructions exactly, and we would control all of her actions through command. She'd be forced to pose and spread. She would be renamed for the scene, and never referred to as anything other than the words that had been chosen for her. She, on the other hand, would be required to maintain her courtesies using proper sir and madams, respond with please and thank you, and praise our efforts which are intended to help her through the experience.
The games would include face-fucking, anal, double-penetration, spanking, slapping, name calling, and culminate with a series of facials. The audience could suggest acts and would provide feedback on the performance. Ideally, we'd create a relatively rowdy scenario similar to a back alley fist fight where cheering, jeering, and hi-fives fuel the energy of the action.
In the end, the dominants would be considered successful only if we manage to force a mental retreat and send the slave into her happy place. If we fail to break her, then we would have to accept whatever consequence was required by the initial contract....
Who's ready for a challenge?
