Explain this part of life to me...

[PacificBlue]

Why is it if you don't want to talk in graphic detail about sex or become intimate right away there is suddenly something wrong with you? Maybe there's nothing wrong with me. Maybe I've just reevaluated my life and decided to do things differently.

My thinking is if it's the right guy, he will wait. If not then it's a good indication that all he wants to do is roll around on the living room floor and leave.

Yes? No? Maybe?

I actually got called "boring" yesterday for this very reason...that hurt.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I agree with you PacificBlue, It's not the most important thing in the world (or i'd be dead). It's something that can wait. and if your partner just wants to jump on you, they don't actualy want YOU.

 

[Bubblegum *sugarless*]

It's the other way around. Men (and women) who only think of sex are boring.

 

[sch00lteacher]

My thinking is if it's the right guy, he will wait. If not then it's a good indication that all he wants to do is roll around on the living room floor and leave.

I waited with the first real love of my life and it cost me. I didn't make a move, I waited for her to. She did after about two years. Then she waited until we were both so damn drunk we couldn't see straight. God what an embarassing night. I couldn't stay hard to save me life. We tried a few more times but it was already ruined.

After that I didn't wait.

My wife and I made love the first night we met, next to a lake, full moon, warm. Much better experiance.

That was almost 18 years ago.

 

[sch00lteacher]

My thinking is if it's the right guy, he will wait. If not then it's a good indication that all he wants to do is roll around on the living room floor and leave.

I waited with the first real love of my life and it cost me. I didn't make a move, I waited for her to. She did after about two years. Then she waited until we were both so damn drunk we couldn't see straight. God what an embarassing night. I couldn't stay hard to save me life. We tried a few more times but it was already ruined.

After that I didn't wait.

My wife and I made love the first night we met, next to a lake, full moon, warm. Much better experiance.

 

[beauchampd]

Waiting for the right moment is very beneficial, because if it is rushed there will always be niggly doubts and concerns about whether it was the right thing to do.

Patience and proper timing will help establish the proper mood and the soundest relationship.

 

[Inspector Gadget]

I made it with my wife the first date

We were friends before and knew a lot about each other though.
Sixteen years later I lay back because if i try to hard she knows and feels like she owes me something and looses interest but if IM myself and friendly its like she gets so hot and wants me so the effort guys put into trying to get laid is all wrong try to be sweet and win someone's heart and you'll go were no man has gone before