Experimentation

[WCHSP]

I'm curious about BDSM stuff, haven't really tried it, but find pain very erotic (both giving and receiving), and just recently I've discovered that I quite enjoy rope. I'm not looking for anyone who is sure of their "role," because, honestly, I'm not, and I'd rather not feel the pressure to. I'd like to just try some things and see what works, ignoring all the labels like "Dom" and "sub."

I'm 22, male, a student at the University of Toronto. I guess what I'm looking for is a female who is likewise trying to sort out her relationship to all this BDSM stuff with whom I can talk. Preferably online, at least until we've established a certain level of comfort, then who knows. Likely nothing, but we can dream, can't we?

 

[WCHSP]

Hmm, no response yet.

Okay, one more thing about my sexual approach... I like to bite. Earlobes, neck, nipple, side of the breast, stomach, thigh, genitals... whatever. I enjoy using my mouth in general and think I'm fairly competent at it, and as I get more and more turned on kissing/sucking becomes nibbling and then biting. Never drawn blood, but I've given some pretty mean hickies before... once sent my ex into work with a big one right on her cheek (good luck hiding that!). Of course, if you say no marks, there'll be no marks... but more fun if there are. And I can always just leave them below the neck line.