Experienced and adaptable male Dom seeking a long-term online dynamic with the right sub—hopefully you!

[Azyliux]

You desperately want to be pleasing,
And you don’t want a choice about how.
You ache to feel truly controlled,
Safe in the knowledge that you are completely owned.​

Who am I?​

I am a straight male Dom in my late 40’s with many years of power-exchange kink experience across both in-person and online-only dynamics, and with a number of different long-term subs. In this time, I have explored a wide range of kinks, SM play, toys and activities; always ensuring I am well informed about safety and risks. I follow Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) principles, and have deep respect for consent, safewords and limits.. When interacting outside our dynamic I am caring and respectful, while with consent inside our dynamic I will be sadistic and cruel to you for my own enjoyment.

I am Australian in the AEST/AEDT timezone (UTC+10/11), but my availability is flexible across many hours of the day and night and I am experienced in making online dynamics work regardless of your location or timezone.

Outside of kink, I have a broad range of interests and a fairly intellectual bent although I don't expect or require your interests to overlap with mine. I will happily share details about my life experiences, interests and personal situation as part of getting to know each other. Likewise the more you share with me, the more we can tailor a dynamic to fit.

What am I like as a Dom?​

My core focus in power-exchange dynamics centres on ownership and control through consensual submission. My style as a Dom is that of caring sadist: I mix painful and humiliating acts of submission for my sadistic enjoyment, along with care-giving discipline to look after you as my precious property. This allows for both intense submission as you surrender yourself while also providing scope for constructive power-exchange to achieve your personal goals outside of pure kink play.

The degree of power-exchange in a dynamic with me is based both on how much you are willing to relinquish in what areas of your life, and how much I can responsibly take on. I start small, without rush, and intensify over time as we build trust, establish compatibility and explore mutual kinks more deeply.

What I am looking for in you?​

The following attributes are strictly non-negotiable, and if these are not a match then good luck with your own search elsewhere.

• You are at least 18 years old.
• You are female, with female genitalia.
• You are reasonably fit and healthy, and have a slim, athletic or average body type.
• You are intelligent, emotionally self-aware, and a good communicator.
• You have a positive mindset, with no serious addictions or mental illnesses.
• You have no recent history of serious self-harm or suicidal behavior.
• You are not looking for a “Daddy Dom” or a DDLG style of dynamic.
• You have a high sex drive and a rich sexual fantasy life that you want to explore.
• You have a genuine inner desire to be pleasing, despite reluctance, discomfort or pain.

You love, like or have an interest in exploring many of the following kinks:

• Frequent edging, orgasm denial and enforced chastity;
• Anal play, stretching, extended plugging;
• Humiliation, degradation and slutification;
• Hypnosis, mantras, body-writing and psychological conditioning;
• Spanking and moderate pain play, including at least mild genital pain for discipline;
• Consensual non-consent (CNC);
• Oral service, deep-throating and rimming;
• Hidden public activities; and
• Clothing and toilet control.

You also have other kinks (as do I) that you are interested in exploring as my property where there is a mutual fit.

Experience in a previous power-exchange dynamic is not necessary, but is certainly welcome. Even if you are a total newcomer to kink with very limited sexual experience, I can adapt to this and ensure we start at a comfortable level and speed. It is always about the journey and not the destination.

What can you expect of me?​

I will invest significant time and creative energy into controlling you on a daily basis and communicating frequently to fine-tune that control based on feedback. I know from good experience that power-exchange involves a large commitment. Our dynamic will be a responsibility that I will make a priority in my life, including sacrificing in many small ways to ensure my property is well controlled and taken care of.

Our dynamic will involve frequent contact, rules, tasks, rituals, sessions, rewards and punishments. I will be in communication by message (using Signal Messenger) multiple times a day keeping track of your life (as much as you are willing to share) and your progress on tasks and goals I set for you. I will set rules for you regarding day-to-day living, the specifics of which will greatly depend on the areas of control you wish to explore with me, and track these closely.

I will also set creative tasks and daily rituals to be completed in your own time, which could vary from very simple and short (a few minutes) to complex and long (several hours) depending on your available time. And depending on schedules, we will have live sessions where we will interact directly at least weekly (initially by message chat, and maybe later by audio or cam). These could vary in time depending on both our availability.

I will be strict; I will hold you to account for obeying rules and performing tasks as directed, especially if you are being a brat. I will ensure there are unpleasant punishments for failure and disobedience, and I will occasionally reward excellent performance. I will not take kindly to deliberate breaking of rules to receive punishments or attention.

I will be understanding that sometimes life happens and things go awry. I can be flexible with this provided you communicate with me what is going on when your situation changes. I do not expect to be the number one priority in your life (just as I have other commitments and priorities in my own life) and I will be reasonable when working within the constraints of your offline life and personal domestic situation.

What will I expect of you?​

My key expectations from you are honesty and respect. Significant or repeated failure in these areas is a dynamic-ending limit for me.

Honesty is the most important of my expectations. You need to be honest about who you represent yourself to be, what you want, what time you are capable of committing, for how long, what your living situation is, and your experiences under my control. In return, I will be honest with you.

Respect for me as a person and respect for the commitments you have made to me is vital. This goes beyond symbols like calling me Sir or Master. It means conscious consideration of how your behavior and actions impact me and our dynamic. Disappearing for long periods with no communication, failing to inform me of significant life changes that impact our dynamic, acting in ways that undermine or demean our agreements, or refusing to follow reasonable disciplinary instructions all constitute disrespect. In return, I will respect you (pre-agreed forms of humiliation not withstanding of course) and the commitments I make to you.

Pictures and video will be expected (face optional), although not immediately, and this will be reciprocated if desired. Firstly they are for verification purposes that you are as you represent yourself to be, and that you are doing as you say you are. However secondly, and more importantly, I have found that I genuinely experience great joy and satisfaction from **watching** my property performing under my control as directed, and without this audiovisual feedback from you I feel that I cannot truly enjoy the fruits of my ownership and all the time and energy I invest in our dynamic. While good written reports go a long way, and will be expected for you to communicate how you are feeling, they don’t result in the same intimate connection and involvement with you I get from video that makes being your owner incredibly worthwhile. You have my absolute assurance that I will never share any material you provide without your permission—a promise I have kept with numerous previous subs. I understand if this is a hard limit for you for good reasons, and wish you luck with your own search elsewhere. However if you are uncertain about this, and the rest of my ad seems like something you want or need, then do reach out to me for a conversation.

Ready for the next step?​

While I realize my desires and expectations will not be a fit for many people, that’s okay—hopefully they are the right match for you. If so, or if you are just curious and have questions, please reach out to contact me.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Azyliux