Experience of a "belligerent" sub

[belligerentsub]

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[bethie3333]

your awful experience

OMG......thats awful what you went thru..........you got a fake.......he is not a real Dom if he didnt respect your hard limits.

Plus the fact that he lied to you so much.......he is a fake for sure......no real Dom with any self respect would lie to you like that much less demand nude photos when he knew it was a "hard Limit". And OMG this guy actually sent you a fake photo of himself??? That is too much ......wow he was a jerk not a dom.
You should hve asked him to send you a nude photo of himself with his face showing......Bet that would go over big.

I dont blame you about the pictures either.......a friend of mine gave someone nude photos of herself and then he used them to black mail her. It was a real mess.....people dont stop and think about what can happen........

A lot of guys on here just want to collect nude pictures and god knows what they do with them......I guess for some girls it is a turn on to know some stranger is looking at you nude.

I hope you find a real Dom because you sure have had a rough time and yeah I have read some bad experiences on here from other subs.

Good luck honey

 

[Primalex]

Why do you reply to your own posting with a different nick?

 

[URmine2day]

Fakes

I'm sorry to hear that you've had a bad experiance, but let's be honest, it is not that unusual on a forum like this. You both just need to have a clear idea of what you expect and then if he or she violates these expectations then you must be willing to leave and chalk it up to a life lesson. Just like in RL- try , try again.
As far as honesty goes I can only relate my first online experiance as a Master. I used anothers pic, lied hugely on my profile and then lied throughout my first few months with my chosen one. It was after this first few months that I realized that I could never really choose someone that I was not completely honest to.
I still remember the day that I told her the truth. I felt like I had failed and to be honest I did fail horribly. Now to her credit and to my amazement and still unbelief she eventually forgave me and we turned our relationship into an online relationship that lasted for over 7 years.
So the moral of the story? For Online Life, just like RL- honesty, candor and truthfulness count.

 

[justuandmekiddo]

He is just simply an ass.

 

[belligerentsub]

Why do you reply to your own posting with a different nick?

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[ultramarineblue]

I dont even know why you would say that.......it has no basis whatsoever...is this a common practice of yours??? so you think others do it????

I think it may have something to do with the very similar writing style in both posts and the use of ....... throughout.

 

[belligerentsub]

As far as honesty goes I can only relate my first online experiance as a Master. I used anothers pic, lied hugely on my profile and then lied throughout my first few months with my chosen one. It was after this first few months that I realized that I could never really choose someone that I was not completely honest to.
I still remember the day that I told her the truth. I felt like I had failed and to be honest I did fail horribly. Now to her credit and to my amazement and still unbelief she eventually forgave me and we turned our relationship into an online relationship that lasted for over 7 years.
So the moral of the story? For Online Life, just like RL- honesty, candor and truthfulness count.

My point exactly...........and I did expect the truth since the information I gave was 100% honest and thought I was getting the same........but to this day this phony "dom" still thinks he did no wrong and that he has the "right" to violate a subs hard limits......He cant see that he was wrong.

Thanks for your reply.

 

[mastertjd]

Doms get the lies to try to hook us too. It's not uncommmon for a girl to write claiming towant to be a willing slave. Send nude pictures (Probably not her own), then ask for money to travel to where you live. I've got one of those on the line now. I gave her options on how to get money to travel to me. My bet is I won't ever hear from her again.

 

[belligerentsub]

Oh... I imagine you do get much of the same. And I bet if you had sent her money you would never have seen her or your money either. Its a shame too. I wish you luck.

 

[belligerentsub]

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[Primalex]

we both used good English???

Thank you, this made my day.


You joined 04-03-2010, managed to find a lot of posts with this weird writing style, then copied this writing style and finally created a thread about your experiences with a Dom you found outside Literotica, all in a few minutes. Interesting.

I mean, you were so eager in sharing your experiences with other people that you just had to come here to Literotica, you've never been before and write in the BDSM personals section, you've never seen before, about your experiences with a Dom from outside Literotica. Right? Yet you had the unbelievable patience to read zillions of other threads and posts and change your writing style before creating the thread.

Did I summarize this correctly?

 

[belligerentsub]

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[00Syd]

Hoooooo boy.

 

[belligerentsub]

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[Primalex]

No not exactly but it full of your assumptions again. You seem so quick to jump to conclusions and I am wondering why??? Did I say I found him outside of Lit??? No but I changed my user name to the new label I was given by him. Did I say I was new to Lit?? that would be another no.

Thank you.

So, who is your main ego now? Come on, with a simple outing you can prove me wrong immediately and show all the people what an idiot I am. Isn't this tempting?

God do you do this with many people on here??? You seem to have some kind of problem. If you dont like my writing style or my post then dont read it.
I am glad I have made your day. Your day must be very boring and this must be your hobby.

Hopefully you'll learn a lot, this is one of the things a sub should master [pun!] - spotting weaknesses in a story.

 

[belligerentsub]

Not tempting in the least. You evidently have issues and no I dont need to prove what an idiot you are. You have "mastered" and displayed that yourself. Have a wonderful day you evidently need a little kindness shown to you. Love ya xoxoxo

 

[CutieMouse]

Someone online lied? And threw a fit when you wouldn't give them nude pics?

Say it ain't so!



Not to pick on you, but I rarely understand the shocked indignant attitude in situations like this. (And yes I've read a lot of threads like this over the years.) The fact that people online aren't always who they say they are isn't exactly shocking - kinky, "vanilla", whatever. My 13 year old knows that you can't assume people online are being honest, so why do grown men and women act so... victimized when it happens to them?

 

[graceanne]

Someone online lied? And threw a fit when you wouldn't give them nude pics?

Say it ain't so!



Not to pick on you, but I rarely understand the shocked indignant attitude in situations like this. (And yes I've read a lot of threads like this over the years.) The fact that people online aren't always who they say they are isn't exactly shocking - kinky, "vanilla", whatever. My 13 year old knows that you can't assume people online are being honest, so why do grown men and women act so... victimized when it happens to them?

Yup. My feeling on the issue, but so much more politely than I would have said it.

 

[ultramarineblue]

well I will just remove my........ and ask Bethie to do the same so we arent thought to be the same. And writing style???? What??? we both used good English??? Sorry it was found so confusing WOW didnt quite expect my writing to be critiqued. Will I also be scored on this... I wonder.....

Guess I shouldnt have used the ............. here since someone else does that. Dont confuse me with the other poster that does this............but then if I just use one period then I will be like many others on here too.

I guess maybe her (sending her a pm about this )and I should contact each other and come up with different ways to seperate thoughts but then I never did that until I saw so many others on here using the .............and so I copied the method since it makes reading a lot easier.

I guess I shouldnt be surprised though because I see many similar comments about the way people word things or spell incorrectly so I guess they get the same type comment. Wonder if all the people who misspell the same words are the same person or the ones who use the u for you and r for are... hmm wonder if they are also the same person......Oh my there I go again with the damn dots.

Bethie if you read this you can keep the ..........and I wont copy. People are so easily confused by them

Excuse me, but I did not attack you.

 

[GoldunAngel]

Someone online lied? And threw a fit when you wouldn't give them nude pics?

Say it ain't so!



Not to pick on you, but I rarely understand the shocked indignant attitude in situations like this. (And yes I've read a lot of threads like this over the years.) The fact that people online aren't always who they say they are isn't exactly shocking - kinky, "vanilla", whatever. My 13 year old knows that you can't assume people online are being honest, so why do grown men and women act so... victimized when it happens to them?

I think it's precisely that. We are ADULTS...not children. As adults we are who we are and deal with the fact that not everyone will like us. What is the point in lying?
To the OP I'm sorry to hear you've had a bad experience. Just take it as learning experience. There are great people on here and your bound to find someone to have some fun with.

 

[graceanne]

Excuse me, but I did not attack you.

You can definitely see where the 'belligerent' part comes in, huh? I wouldn't worry about it:

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/graceanne1978/Drama_Queen360x347.jpg

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

You can definitely see where the 'belligerent' part comes in, huh? I wouldn't worry about it:

http://i67.photobucket.com/albums/h284/graceanne1978/Drama_Queen360x347.jpg

With a little...
http://www.e-imagesite.com/Files2/1945look-at-me-attention-whore5733992.jpg

..thrown in.

 

[graceanne]

With a little...
http://www.e-imagesite.com/Files2/1945look-at-me-attention-whore5733992.jpg

..thrown in.

Yeppers!

 

[WriterDom]

Blue Horseshoe loves Anacott Steel.