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[kramer0421]

I am married with four kids, I love to learn more about how to please my wife. Love this erotica, would anyone like to talk.

 

[ShiningEyes]

I am married with four kids, I love to learn more about how to please my wife. Love this erotica, would anyone like to talk.

Hey there! Let me be the first to welcome you to Lit!!!! Come on in and join the numerous conversations! We are all about making people feel welcome here!

BTW....I'm ShiningEyes. 21, single, no kids! I love chattin' with people and making new friends! You'll find me here and in the playground. In fact I just put up a story on the playground to see if it's worth submitting. Go take a look and let me know what you think. *VBS* Have a great day!

 

[mbb308]

By all means, please the wife

With two divorces, I'm not expert on "pleasing the wife". I have pleased a couple of lady friends since then, however. I think I have learned from what doesn't work!!!

1) Ask her. If you can't talk to her about that sort of thing, you might need to examine basic communication. My experience is that, if you aren't communicating, you will soon be peeing in your ear and telling yourself its raining outside.

2) Buy/cut/aquire for her flowers for NO REASON AT ALL. This should be self-explanitory.

3) Do something which she would normally do, like a chore. Do not point out that you did it - do it over if necessary until she notices. If she asks you about it, tell her that you did it for her so she wouldn't have to.

4) You know that little annoying thing you do that get on her nerves, like belching at the dinner table or leaving your dirty socks on the bedroom floor? STOP IT, NOW!!!

5) Tell her something that she did today was right. It doesn't have to be anything big. "Thank you for folding my T-shirts the way I like, Honey."

Great sex tonight begins with what I did days/months/years ago. I can learn to perform cunnilingus like the Tibetan Lickmaster, and all is for naught if I can't help with the dishes because I have to watch Sportscenter on ESPN. Do what she does, and what she likes. Remind her with deeds that you love her. Talk is cheap - let the fruit you bear do the talking. I think she'll be pleased.

Let us know.

 

[ShiningEyes]

Re: By all means, please the wife

With two divorces, I'm not expert on "pleasing the wife". I have pleased a couple of lady friends since then, however. I think I have learned from what doesn't work!!!

1) Ask her. If you can't talk to her about that sort of thing, you might need to examine basic communication. My experience is that, if you aren't communicating, you will soon be peeing in your ear and telling yourself its raining outside.

2) Buy/cut/aquire for her flowers for NO REASON AT ALL. This should be self-explanitory.

3) Do something which she would normally do, like a chore. Do not point out that you did it - do it over if necessary until she notices. If she asks you about it, tell her that you did it for her so she wouldn't have to.

4) You know that little annoying thing you do that get on her nerves, like belching at the dinner table or leaving your dirty socks on the bedroom floor? STOP IT, NOW!!!

5) Tell her something that she did today was right. It doesn't have to be anything big. "Thank you for folding my T-shirts the way I like, Honey."

Great sex tonight begins with what I did days/months/years ago. I can learn to perform cunnilingus like the Tibetan Lickmaster, and all is for naught if I can't help with the dishes because I have to watch Sportscenter on ESPN. Do what she does, and what she likes. Remind her with deeds that you love her. Talk is cheap - let the fruit you bear do the talking. I think she'll be pleased.

Let us know.

Sorry about the 2 divorces!!!

I like the advice you've given Kramer. Just don't forget to make yourself happy along with your wife's. It's a 50/50 thing. If one is not happy the other isn't going to be.

I know I'm single. What could I possibly know. Hey. I'm a woman! I have parents that are divorced now. I know!! lol

Having a good sex life helps things to. Both of you have to feel sexually alive and sexually wanted and appreciated! I hope my husband will be able to keep up with me!!!!! I'm VERY sexually charged!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[mbb308]

KTBH

Pity thou not my divorces - I don't. I could not be who I am today without my past, just as it is.

If you love someone, and they love you, doing for that person is a component of pleasing yourself. Happiness is an inside job, Dear. Read Abe Lincoln on the subject. My last bride is still waiting for me to make her happy - can't be done, because she has decided not to be.

Good sex starts long before the bedroom. The largest erogenous zone is the brain. Hormones alone are great, but not enough to sustain a long term relationship. And the little things will drive us to distraction long before the big ones do.

Do little things for my mind and you'll spend our sexlife hanging from the ceiling by your fingernails. Promise.

 

[ShiningEyes]

Re: KTBH

Pity thou not my divorces - I don't. I could not be who I am today without my past, just as it is.

If you love someone, and they love you, doing for that person is a component of pleasing yourself. Happiness is an inside job, Dear. Read Abe Lincoln on the subject. My last bride is still waiting for me to make her happy - can't be done, because she has decided not to be.

Good sex starts long before the bedroom. The largest erogenous zone is the brain. Hormones alone are great, but not enough to sustain a long term relationship. And the little things will drive us to distraction long before the big ones do.

Do little things for my mind and you'll spend our sexlife hanging from the ceiling by your fingernails. Promise.

Your right. But. To please another, you have to be happy with yourself!! *VBS* But I do agree with you. As for me. I'm a different matter. As long as my Master is happy, I'm happy. I'm a pleaser and a doer. That's all I want to do.

The other person does for me what I need. And I'm grateful for that! I'm a wildcat in the sack!!! lol I love having fun wild sex!!!!
It's all wraped up in one! If one section of your life isn't happy, then sooner or later it will boil over to the other parts!!!!!!!

All aspects have to be equally weighed out. hehe

 

[mbb308]

Point noted

It has been my experience that, when the sex goes, there ain't much left, anyway.

I hear you loud and clear, and thanks for listening to me. I am pretty darned happy with myself almost always, because "okay" is really "pretty darned good."

How about it Kramer???

 

[ShiningEyes]

Re: Point noted

It has been my experience that, when the sex goes, there ain't much left, anyway.

I hear you loud and clear, and thanks for listening to me. I am pretty darned happy with myself almost always, because "okay" is really "pretty darned good."

How about it Kramer???

I agree with you a whole 100%!!!!! hehe
I hope you are having a wonderful 4th!!!!!!

Yeah...how about it Kramer? lol

 

[Suzi]

Hey Kramer!

Got your email! I responded too...but you neglected to mention the MARRIED part! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Remember what I said...friends only!