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Congratulations.
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You must have many from which to choose.
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not as many as you think
I have one, and she is really not an option.
Dolf, I love ya, but you need to get over this. It was 30 years ago, we were both hot from just having killed a platoon of Argentineans singlehandedly, and there was no other way to amuse ourselves. We were never anything more than friends.
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My ex-wife and I are the best of friends. We separated because she could not handle being a military wife. Don't judge her till you walk in those shoes.
It was heartbreaking because we still very much loved each other but I was married to the Corps first. She is remarried to a great guy who is a stay at home 9 to 5 guy. Her husband and I are good friends and there is no jealousy at all and he is good with our daughter. I am very happy that she found what she needed.
As far as girlfriends, I can't really claim many as most were just sex partners that hung around awhile. I have predominately lived a poly-amorous lifestyle which is great. No strings, no commitment, no heartache.
I am now coming to a point where I want to settle down. I need somebody to wipe my ass and drool as I get older.
It was heartbreaking because we still very much loved each other but I was married to the Corps first. She is remarried to a great guy who is a stay at home 9 to 5 guy. Her husband and I are good friends and there is no jealousy at all and he is good with our daughter. I am very happy that she found what she needed.
As far as girlfriends, I can't really claim many as most were just sex partners that hung around awhile. I have predominately lived a poly-amorous lifestyle which is great. No strings, no commitment, no heartache.
I am now coming to a point where I want to settle down. I need somebody to wipe my ass and drool as I get older.
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They call themselves Argentines.
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suddenly i like you a lot more than i have done.
I am now coming to a point where I want to settle down. I need somebody to wipe my ass and drool as I get older.
If you're Heff, you can have the best of both world.
I don't care what those ceviche-eating savages call themselves.
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I think of them each and every time I walk past the freezer.
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*blink*
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Does this entitle me to a blowjob yet?
Say that to their face and they will cut you. All Latinos carry switchblades.
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They have leashes for that sort of thing.
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The sexual tension was rarely a problem for me and a few exes. It was my unwillingness to let my heart be broken. And my stupidity in lacking the ability to walk away from the bottle when I could not 'fix' whatever was broken in our relationships. They knew far more about me than I admitted to myself. There are a couple of them I wish could see me admit to this now. I softened with age.
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off the leash, i run.
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no matter how shitty things got, i want things to be... nice.
but i learned a long time ago that most people just want rid.
this guy has been making the effort for years though. i'm a hell of a drive away, but we still go out for dinner & movies every few months. he does little things, like sending my youngest games me might like, little things that take little effort but show he cares.
and he never tries to get into my pants!
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i never thought of it as being rid. it's more pulling back and trying to figure things out, without the interference from losing myself again. then things change. the why don't you talk to me like you used to? it's not that i stop caring, i just stop being open at that level. i've also had few relationships, so there's not many break ups to draw on. i'm honestly am not a great friend to begin with. i stay closed off. blah! i feel like i'm in freaking therapy now.
i hope you enjoy evening, dolf. you deserve to have a good time.
