Excuse me while I rave for a bit.

[Karmic]

My g/f.
I love her.
Has been cheating on me for as long as I've known her.
Never would have found out if I hadnt stumbled upon him.
I think I may want to cry. or rave and scream.
youknow I've been in love twice, and twice they've cheated on me.

heh, care to defend you sex anybody?

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Hi Karmic.

She cheated on you.
That automatically means that she doesn't deserve you.

Keep your eyes open and Miss Right will stumble into your lap.

I promise.

 

[Mistress]

Snuggles you and kisses your nose

 

[Siren]

We are at WAR, yet it really doesnt feel like it.....does it?

 

[Gilly Bean]

My g/f.
I love her.
Has been cheating on me for as long as I've known her.
Never would have found out if I hadnt stumbled upon him.
I think I may want to cry. or rave and scream.
youknow I've been in love twice, and twice they've cheated on me.

heh, care to defend you sex anybody?

No reason to defend 'our sex' against something like that. It's not the entire female sex that cheated on you. Just one. Kick her to the curb, and go out and have fun.

 

[Siren]

oops that was suppose to be a new thread

 

[Karmic]

*smiles through tears* thanks *cuddles*

Why is it whenever I find a girl who is interested in me and I'm interested in return, why is it they always end up being 10 years older than me, have a kid, live in a forign country, have a habbit of cheating or most commonly be quite psycotic or else highly neurotic?

I think my belief in Love is dying as I type.....

 

[MissVictoria]

*hugs*

Don't give up on love.

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Excuse me.
I said MISS RIGHT IS GOING TO STUMBLE INTO HIS LAP.

Miss Right?
MISS RIGHT!

Dammit, that's your cue.
Get in here.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

*smiles through tears* thanks *cuddles*

Why is it whenever I find a girl who is interested in me and I'm interested in return, why is it they always end up being 10 years older than me, have a kid, live in a forign country, have a habbit of cheating or most commonly be quite psycotic or else highly neurotic?

I think my belief in Love is dying as I type.....

Do not give up. L'amour est tout là est

 

[Aphrodisiac]

My g/f.
I love her.
Has been cheating on me for as long as I've known her.
Never would have found out if I hadnt stumbled upon him.
I think I may want to cry. or rave and scream.
youknow I've been in love twice, and twice they've cheated on me.

heh, care to defend you sex anybody?

Sorry to hear about your broken heart... Hope you feel better.

As for defending my " sex" ... I don't play such games, I am always honest when it comes to my relationships. I am not one to hide behind lies.

Speak the truth and it shall set you free.

 

[Debbie]

I am sorry this has happened to you. But please don't give up on love. Closing the door to love may mean you are shutting someone really special out of your life before they have even found you.
Not everyone is unfaithful.

quote by me from another post, has been edited... don't want to type it all out again.

I am married, happily but even if I wasn't I would tell my hubby, not take the spineless way out by cheating on him. Some woman are not honest nor kind. We are not all like that. Don't judge others by her actions. I have had that happened to my in both my marriages and it places barriers were there needn't be any.
my point was that I am who I am in my marriage (loyal, loving and honest) but twice now in both my marriages the woman previous to me have crapped on my men, they have learnt not to trust woman, tarring me with a brush that is not mine to carry.
I do not know what you are going through at the moment. Just saying that we are not all alike. I have been mistrusted and judged by another's actions (both were dishonest and unfaithful) I am not like them yet it has caused mistrust and lack of communication in both my relationships. It impends where a good relationship could grow. Stunting it and causing grief.
Yes we all carry baggage into new relationships but we also need to learn when to throw the 'old' baggage out and hug the 'new' luggage.
IMHO and in my experience, my relationship has been severely jeopardised by the woman before me and the baggage and crap they have *dumped* on my ex and 'new' hubby."


On another note I am not judgemental, I have never been cheated on. My best friend is having an affair. Because I have no right to judge her and we do not discuss the affair in detail as it makes me feel uncomfortable. I love her but do not condone what she is doing to her husband and family. BUT I judge not for I have no right.
Good luck to you!

quote by Karmic "Why is it whenever I find a girl who is interested in me and I'm interested in return, why is it they always end up being 10 years older than me, have a kid, live in a forign country, have a habbit of cheating or most commonly be quite psycotic or else highly neurotic? "

I had two kids when my hubby met me, he has four, two live with us and mine. Love me love my kids.
*hug* hope things get better

 

[luv2tvl69]

by Karmic

My g/f.
I love her.
Has been cheating on me for as long as I've known her.
Never would have found out if I hadnt stumbled upon him.
I think I may want to cry. or rave and scream.
youknow I've been in love twice, and twice they've cheated on me.

There is no defending that. Its hurtful, and wrong. If a relationship is not working and you dont want to work at it, split up and move on. Give the other person the chance to find someone to really love them.

Cut her loose....love is not worth being treated badly or made to feel your not worthy of true love. I am sorry you are sad and hurt. Know that there is someone out there who will appreciate you and love you as you deserve.

I also have been cheated on by EVERY b/f ...they are always looking for something better to come along. I have very serious trust issues as a result and dont think I will ever be able to get past it. I think I am destined to be alone where intimate relationships are concerned. I have incredible friends, but dont think i will ever be able to succeed in a long term relationship or to believe any man can really tuly love me. This is long, but a dear friend I met thru Lit sent it to me....when I am not feeling so blah, it does give me hope and a different perspective: Good luck, and dont let anyone treat you badly. You deserve better.

Maybe God wanted us to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one
> so that when we finally meet the right person, we will
> know how to be grateful for that gift.
>
> Maybe when the door of happiness closes, another
> opens, but often times we
> look so long at the closed door that we don't see
> the one which has been opened for us.
>
> Maybe the best kind of friend is the kind you can
> sit on a porch and swing with,
> never say a word, and then walk away feeling
> like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
>
> Maybe it is true that we don't know what we have got
> until we lose it, but
> it is also true that we don't know what we have been
> missing until it arrives.
>
> Giving someone all your love is never an assurance
> that they will love you back.
> Don't expect love in return; just wait for it
> to grow in their heart;
> but if it does not, be content it grew in yours.
>
> It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
> hour to like someone,
> and a day to love someone,
> but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
>
> Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for
> wealth; even that fades
> away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it
> takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
> Find the one that makes your heart smile.
>
> There are moments in life when you miss someone so
> much that you just want to pick them from your dreams
> and hug them for real.
>
> Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go;
> be what you want to be,
> because you have only one life and one chance
> to do all the things you
> want to do.
>
> May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
> enough trials to make you strong,
> enough sorrow to keep you human,
> enough hope to make you happy.
>
> Always put yourself in others' shoes.
> If you feel that it hurts you,
> it probably hurts the other person, too.
>
> The happiest of people don't necessarily have the
> best of everything; they
> just make the most of everything that comes along
> their way.
>
> Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt,
> those who have searched,
> and those who have tried, for only they can
> appreciate the importance of
> people who have touched their lives.
>
> Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends
> with a tear...either
> of joy or sorrow. No matter what there is always a
> lesson to learn and
> strength to be gained.
>
> The brightest future will always be based on a
> forgotten past,
> you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past
> failures and heartaches.
>
> When you were born, you were crying and everyone
> around you was smiling.
> Live your life so that when you die, you are the one
> who is smiling and
> everyone around you is crying.

 

[Nogard]

Had a wife like that. No other choice except to move on. Hurt? You betcha, get over it? yep. What's down the road? who knows. I found my love