Ever like someone you didn't fuck?

LukkyKnight

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No, I don't mean the soccer coach, or your best friend of a gender you don't do intimate physical things with - I'm talking about letting one "get away" and finding yourself wondering some time later just what it was you didn't do. I'm thinking more in terms of making love, but wanted to borrow the word fuck from another title, do there's no need for you to get hung up on the nuances (unless that's your thing.)

At an early age this isn't too uncommon as I recall, but lately (as in post-divorce) I can think of a person I was moving closer to and then things sent us in different directions and so a relationship which might have become physical just never was "consumated." Such things leave me curious.
 
LukkyKnight said:
No, I don't mean the soccer coach, or your best friend of a gender you don't do intimate physical things with - I'm talking about letting one "get away" and finding yourself wondering some time later just what it was you didn't do. I'm thinking more in terms of making love, but wanted to borrow the word fuck from another title, do there's no need for you to get hung up on the nuances (unless that's your thing.)



Are we going to split hairs over nuances of words? Fuck. Make love. Have sex. Do the wild thing. Dip your stick.

Whatever you wanna call it. And to answer your question, no...I've never let one get away.:D
 
Damn!!!

juicylips said:
Are we going to split hairs over nuances of words? Fuck. Make love. Have sex. Do the wild thing. Dip your stick.

Whatever you wanna call it. And to answer your question, no...I've never let one get away.:D

Whats your secret?
 
Yes, and it is funny that someone should describe it as painful. It is one of those things you think about in the quite moments in your car, and you wonder how they would have kissed you, how there touch would have felt. That regret can be almost a physical pain, or a longing.

Yeah, I have let a couple get away, though sometimes I wonder if the longing and wondering is better then the memory would be.

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LukkyKnight said:
No, I don't mean the soccer coach, or your best friend of a gender you don't do intimate physical things with - I'm talking about letting one "get away" and finding yourself wondering some time later just what it was you didn't do. I'm thinking more in terms of making love, but wanted to borrow the word fuck from another title, do there's no need for you to get hung up on the nuances (unless that's your thing.)

At an early age this isn't too uncommon as I recall, but lately (as in post-divorce) I can think of a person I was moving closer to and then things sent us in different directions and so a relationship which might have become physical just never was "consumated." Such things leave me curious.

Arguments to the contrary notwhithstanding, I think we've all let one or two get away.

There are a few people that I still wonder about... the 'what-ifs' of my life, I suppose.
 
Of course.
I think we all have or will at some point wonder about the 'road not taken' and the 'what ifs' we wonder about.
It's all part of dealing with the various things that life throws at us and coping the best way we can.
 
I had the opportunity once and only once, but let it slide. It may never happen again, and to this day, I wonder what it would've been like.
 
yup. I really wanted to make love to my best male friend when I was younger. I wanted nothing more than to just hold him in my arms, and show him how crazy about him I was. He was head-over-heels for my best friend. He actually dated a few of my friends. So I gave up. He told me later that he was interested in me the whole time, it's just he didn't thinkI was interested (cus I was so supportive of his happiness with my friends).

DOH.
 
So did you 2 ever get together after everything was in the open?
 
This takes me back to my teens. The first guy to go down on me. It was better than I had imagined it, if I had even ever imagined it and I've often wondered what it would have been like if he had been my first lover instead of leaving it there.
 
Since I've been w/ my girl (4 yrs.) I've let plenty get away. I've been having lots of dreams lately about the ones I let get away (so to speak). It's kind of hard not to when the one you really wonder about is on t.v. doing athletic club commercials.:rose:
 
yes, three got away before we went there. I will always wonder...

I think that all three women would have if I had been more...pushy or perhaps forceful. I just backed off being a 'nice' guy. Now perhaps we all have toughts to those days and what if. Kind of something to think about too. The thoughts being better than the real thing maybe...who knows.
 
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