Ever get used for sex?

[CandK_inSE]

Not talking about one night stands, or no strings attached sex. I'm talking about thinking you're in a relationship with someone, have some incredible sex after a date, spend the night, have some morning sex, tell each other you'll call and want to see each other again soon, and then get completely ghosted.

Happened to me right before I met my wife.

Was talking with a girl and we clicked almost immediately. The first date is a Seinfeld episode. Went to her house, she opened a bottle of wine, going to have a glass before we went out. Just as we sit down, a Kirby salesman invites himself in. Dude wouldn't take no for an answer. He also could have been Chris Rock's brother. Ended up finishing the bottle of wine, while cracking on this guy, finally got him to leave, went somewhere buzzed, had a great time, and definitely knew we would have a second date.

Call her two days later, left a message. She calls me and invites me over on a Friday evening. We go out again, go back to her place to watch a movie. One thing leads to another, and she asks me into to the bedroom. All I'll say is that she was absolutely incredible, but she was really funny about not letting me kiss her after I ate her. She had me spend the night, and we fucked again in the morning.

I called her the next day. Nothing. Called her two more times after that. Nothing. Never heard from her.

Thing was, I kind of liked her outside of the incredible sex. Felt like I should have at least known if I did something wrong. Somehow, I think she was just desperate for a cock and a man to hold through the night. Don't know.

Ever happen to anyone else? How did you feel about it?

 

[FGB]

Sure.

Some years ago I had well several females( six I think) that would drop by on a hit and run from time to time. Eventually they disappeared... relationships, moved or something.

I was single and it was the early eighties pussy was pussy.

Some I think was married. One mentioned she was AFTER she gave me one hell of a fucking. I gripped her out and told her to come back when she was single...she did.

They would call and ask if I was busy first. Ever so often one would call and asked if she could just come over and spend the night just to be held and not be alone.

Fine with me, they usually remembered that the next time when they were horny and wanted someone safe to fuck!

 

[Abbafan]

Unfortunately, no.

 

[Sheana_V]

Yes. And it really pissed me off once. The two other times I was glad for it.

 

[wildchild24143]

Yes. And it really pissed me off once. The two other times I was glad for it.

I kind of want to experience it, sadly for me they always call me wanting more....

 

[genxer36]

Maybe you were just after a breakup. And the two days with you is all she needed to get over the ex. Or she and the ex got back together. It happens.

I caught up to a woman I dated years past. We went out twice and she wasn't ready for more. We remained friends on facebook. Fast forward a few years after we last dated. I hit her up on FB and started chatting. I was out of a relationship and she had just broken up with a boyfriend. I asked her out, on our first date she came to my house for dinner. We fucked that night for a few hours. Having seconds and thirds. And we had sex everyday for almost six months. I worked nights and would go by her condo on my way home. She gave me a key. I would wake her in various hot ways. We would get what we both needed and I would go home. On the weekends we would do things (day trips and such) and of course each other. Everything was great. Then boom out of the blue she broke it off. No warning. She got back with the ex. It was great while it lasted. Kinda shitty how it ended. But it will always be fond memories.

 

[genxer36]

I kind of want to experience it, sadly for me they always call me wanting more....

I hear you sir. That is a good thing.

I've had a few calling me for my magic tongue.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Not talking about one night stands, or no strings attached sex. I'm talking about thinking you're in a relationship with someone, have some incredible sex after a date, spend the night, have some morning sex, tell each other you'll call and want to see each other again soon, and then get completely ghosted.

Happened to me right before I met my wife.

Was talking with a girl and we clicked almost immediately. The first date is a Seinfeld episode. Went to her house, she opened a bottle of wine, going to have a glass before we went out. Just as we sit down, a Kirby salesman invites himself in. Dude wouldn't take no for an answer. He also could have been Chris Rock's brother. Ended up finishing the bottle of wine, while cracking on this guy, finally got him to leave, went somewhere buzzed, had a great time, and definitely knew we would have a second date.

Call her two days later, left a message. She calls me and invites me over on a Friday evening. We go out again, go back to her place to watch a movie. One thing leads to another, and she asks me into to the bedroom. All I'll say is that she was absolutely incredible, but she was really funny about not letting me kiss her after I ate her. She had me spend the night, and we fucked again in the morning.

I called her the next day. Nothing. Called her two more times after that. Nothing. Never heard from her.

Thing was, I kind of liked her outside of the incredible sex. Felt like I should have at least known if I did something wrong. Somehow, I think she was just desperate for a cock and a man to hold through the night. Don't know.

Ever happen to anyone else? How did you feel about it?

Ever happen to me...yeah

How did I feel about it? Well--, I woulda felt a lot worse if she found my money I had stashed at her place. As it was she found my pistol, my knife and my dope, all of which she got caught with and went to jail. This was before the mandatory 2 1/2 years for firearms possession, she pleaded out on the dope and they dropped the concealed weapons charges, for the knife and gun.

When I heard about her going to jail, I felt a little better.

 

[ntp]

Yeah, I have been. There was genuine attraction, but when it came down to it she was fucking me in revenge for her ex cheating on her. Probably unwise to get mixed up in that, but nothing bad came of it other than feeling a little used when I stopped to think about it. And the sex was really good.