evaluating a kiss

[Guest]

As a male writer, I've struggled to understand and describe the physical, emotional, and mental affects of that "First Kiss". I want to put into words the thoughts of a woman at the moment of impact (if you will). I want to describe the physical impact, and emotional as well (yearning, lusting, romantic...?). Lady writers, can you describe with some detail what is going on at this critical moment? I hope you don't think I am asking for the secret handshake here, just trying to write stories with imagry as realistic as possible.

Thanks in advance, I look forward to reading your responses.

 

[alltherage]

For me it depends. If i am initiating the kiss there is fear, anticipation, warmth throughout my body, yearning, electricity.

If i am being kissed anticipation, a warm full take me away gliding feeling that seems to flow from my lips down through my belly. A good kiss can cause the nerves in the back of my head to tingle in the most erotic warming way. I sometimes feel a strange hunger to devore the lips and tongue that touch mine. At other times I want the touch to be achingly soft and lingering. Unconsciously we restrain our inner desire to have more and savor what we do have. Never gulp the wine. Always sip.

 

[JUDO]

Variance

Ahhh...what she said.

Not a first kiss, but the best first kiss I ever received was great because it took it's time. It was minutes of the face hovering near mine. I could feel the hot breath, the perfume, the texture of skin and hair. Then the lips kissed my cheek, my eyes, my face and finally a light, soft peck on my lips. A tongue then teased my mouth open by licking around my lips gently, slowly.

That first kiss was so tantilizing that by the time we really kissed as many think of it, I was ready to pounce. Wow! Gets me wet just remembering...

 

[Levelhead]

Thanks Judo and Alltherage. That's good information.I really liked the "sip the wine even though you want to gulp" analogy. Prolonging the moment seems to be a common denominator here. Thanks a bunch.