JohnGalt1871
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Call me an eternal optimist, but I can't quite shake the feeling someone's out there that fits just what I'm after, despite my better judgment. Who knows, maybe it's you? 
I'm not looking for something casual, at least not in the "one and done" sense. Of course, I'm not looking for a committed, long term relationship either. What I'd like is someone who I can talk to, get to know, and have some fun with. Ideally, that fun with be primarily intellectual, the kind of fun that comes from witty banter, from intellectual discussions, from two minds meeting and discovering one another. I know that the best sex I've ever had came when sex wasn't the goal! The kind where you put the emphasis on exploring each other, mentally as well as physically, the long, slow tease and discovery that build and builds until finally... the actual sex becomes the icing, not the cake.
Yes, I'm looking for someone with whom this intellectualism becomes a kind of foreplay. I believe that the mind and body are very connected, and that exploration of one is essential to know the other. I'm already worried that this whole ad is starting to sound much too heavy handed and serious. I just want to have fun, but a real fun, a substantial fun, not the mindless, worthless "fun" that you see in the vast majority of ads here, mindless, one-off fucks between mindless strangers. Not my bag.
Let me emphasize again, this is not primarily about sex. Sure, I'd like to find someone who I would like to be intimate with, but before that happens we have to click mentally as well as physically. And let's face it, the odds that there's someone out there not only trolling this section, but who also wants to get to know someone's head before their cock, is pretty slim... But who knows, you might be that one in a million
I'm not looking for something casual, at least not in the "one and done" sense. Of course, I'm not looking for a committed, long term relationship either. What I'd like is someone who I can talk to, get to know, and have some fun with. Ideally, that fun with be primarily intellectual, the kind of fun that comes from witty banter, from intellectual discussions, from two minds meeting and discovering one another. I know that the best sex I've ever had came when sex wasn't the goal! The kind where you put the emphasis on exploring each other, mentally as well as physically, the long, slow tease and discovery that build and builds until finally... the actual sex becomes the icing, not the cake.Yes, I'm looking for someone with whom this intellectualism becomes a kind of foreplay. I believe that the mind and body are very connected, and that exploration of one is essential to know the other. I'm already worried that this whole ad is starting to sound much too heavy handed and serious. I just want to have fun, but a real fun, a substantial fun, not the mindless, worthless "fun" that you see in the vast majority of ads here, mindless, one-off fucks between mindless strangers. Not my bag.
Let me emphasize again, this is not primarily about sex. Sure, I'd like to find someone who I would like to be intimate with, but before that happens we have to click mentally as well as physically. And let's face it, the odds that there's someone out there not only trolling this section, but who also wants to get to know someone's head before their cock, is pretty slim... But who knows, you might be that one in a million
