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kcbigkid
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If your careful you won't.
I have used escorts before when traveling and locally. You can normally find independants on the web. You have to do some good research but you can find ladies who are very friendly, GFE type ladies. (Girl Friend Experience).
Try a couple of the Escort review sites.
http://www.theeroticreview.com
http://www.bigdoggie.net
and there are perhaps ten others and also they are located in your town. you can find them by doing a Google search.
I would rather find a nice lady for an ongoing sexual relationship with. But while waiting for one to happen an escort can be a very clean and fun sexual adventure. All are very concerned with Safe Sex. Visit their reviews and see who the popular ladies are in your area.
I have used escorts before when traveling and locally. You can normally find independants on the web. You have to do some good research but you can find ladies who are very friendly, GFE type ladies. (Girl Friend Experience).
Try a couple of the Escort review sites.
http://www.theeroticreview.com
http://www.bigdoggie.net
and there are perhaps ten others and also they are located in your town. you can find them by doing a Google search.
I would rather find a nice lady for an ongoing sexual relationship with. But while waiting for one to happen an escort can be a very clean and fun sexual adventure. All are very concerned with Safe Sex. Visit their reviews and see who the popular ladies are in your area.
docisin
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Yeah, I agree, it seems like an acceptable thing to do, with some erotic potential. I'm just not sure where to go first. I checked out "cityvibe.com" which has listings all around the country, but again, I'm sort of concerned about getting ripped off (or worse)
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I agree with the suggestions that kcbig kid made to you. Just be aware that all Escort services do not provide sexual services so you need to make sure that they understand that is what you are looking for.
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Native Alien said:
I do an escort service for females, but don't get a lot of custom. When I do they don't seem to want the free extras I am willing to provide.
I think your best bet is to advertise yourself as an escort prior to visiting your ports of call, at least you get paid rather than paying out!
kcbigkid
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Use the sources I gave you
To cross ref the ladies on Cityvibe.com You wll find that the information on www.theeroticreview.com is very good and accurate. Look at the ladies that multiple reviews. They are ranked and rated.
To cross ref the ladies on Cityvibe.com You wll find that the information on www.theeroticreview.com is very good and accurate. Look at the ladies that multiple reviews. They are ranked and rated.
kcbigkid
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This is from Bigdoggie.net
client tips................
Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time for you (don't say "How about some time next week?") Mention fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific-EVER.
Tell her a little bit about yourself. Tell her where you heard about her. Don't waste her time--she gets plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea what's she going to be like in person. If she's friendly and nice, she will be in person. Its also your chance to start building her perception of you. Be respectful. These girls are PEOPLE. Treat them like you would a girlfriend or lover and they will respond positively. It sounds simple, but most guys are pushy and rude.
Now that you've made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much "cheap" cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare her or cause her to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression!
Be confident and relaxed. Act like you've done this before. Greet her cordially. Give her a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look her in the eye. Be nice--it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts.
Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly to her if it feels comfortable or if she extends her hand--but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just hand it over in payment for her time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!
She will likely ask you if you would "...like to get comfortable?" This is your cue to disrobe completely. She will likely go into the bathroom, wait a few minutes and then return to the room expecting to see you naked on the bed. Make small talk and get to know each other for a few minutes. Don't be grabbing and making crude remarks. Everything in its time...
Talk to her--simple but very, very effective. Talk about her--compliment her attire, her hairstyle, her perfume. Whatever, but be honest--phoniness shows up quickly. If she asks about you be open and honest--it shows. Women like to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don't be pushy or grabby. Let her guide the session at her pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get.
After you get to know each other a bit, she may stroke or rub you a little. Let it progess on its own rhythym. She is aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the alloted time. At this time, she may ask "What do you like?" This is your cue to explain in more detail what you like and what you'd like to get from the session. If you encounter a "No!" response, then just don't break stride and be sure that you respect her guidelines. If its really, really important to you then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept her limits, treat her with respect and caring, and you will have a good session anyway.
Be a gentle and considerate lover. Women operate on a much more sensitive level than men to. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell her when it feels good. Ask he if what you are doing feels good or if what you are geting ready to do is OK. Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau or position.
If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing her again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated--figure this into your budget for the evening. I do know that this final step has served me very, very well.
Bonus Tip. The final thought here is to use common sense and civility at all times. The above points are mostly just that. Treat the girl as you would like to be treated--with respect, kindness, caring, and genuine sensitive feelings.
client tips................
Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time for you (don't say "How about some time next week?") Mention fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific-EVER.
Tell her a little bit about yourself. Tell her where you heard about her. Don't waste her time--she gets plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea what's she going to be like in person. If she's friendly and nice, she will be in person. Its also your chance to start building her perception of you. Be respectful. These girls are PEOPLE. Treat them like you would a girlfriend or lover and they will respond positively. It sounds simple, but most guys are pushy and rude.
Now that you've made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much "cheap" cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare her or cause her to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression!
Be confident and relaxed. Act like you've done this before. Greet her cordially. Give her a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look her in the eye. Be nice--it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts.
Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly to her if it feels comfortable or if she extends her hand--but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just hand it over in payment for her time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!
She will likely ask you if you would "...like to get comfortable?" This is your cue to disrobe completely. She will likely go into the bathroom, wait a few minutes and then return to the room expecting to see you naked on the bed. Make small talk and get to know each other for a few minutes. Don't be grabbing and making crude remarks. Everything in its time...
Talk to her--simple but very, very effective. Talk about her--compliment her attire, her hairstyle, her perfume. Whatever, but be honest--phoniness shows up quickly. If she asks about you be open and honest--it shows. Women like to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don't be pushy or grabby. Let her guide the session at her pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get.
After you get to know each other a bit, she may stroke or rub you a little. Let it progess on its own rhythym. She is aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the alloted time. At this time, she may ask "What do you like?" This is your cue to explain in more detail what you like and what you'd like to get from the session. If you encounter a "No!" response, then just don't break stride and be sure that you respect her guidelines. If its really, really important to you then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept her limits, treat her with respect and caring, and you will have a good session anyway.
Be a gentle and considerate lover. Women operate on a much more sensitive level than men to. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell her when it feels good. Ask he if what you are doing feels good or if what you are geting ready to do is OK. Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau or position.
If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing her again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated--figure this into your budget for the evening. I do know that this final step has served me very, very well.
Bonus Tip. The final thought here is to use common sense and civility at all times. The above points are mostly just that. Treat the girl as you would like to be treated--with respect, kindness, caring, and genuine sensitive feelings.
kcbigkid
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Just a few more tips..............
If you are browsing an online message board, say what area of the country you are looking in. Ask for recommendations in that geographical area.
Read the message or review board for a while just to get the flow of how things work before posting anything. (couple weeks, if you ain't under immediate pressure).
When asking for reviews or help on a messge board, it is always a good idea to also be a contributor. Post your reviews or start off your message with "I saw Sue in NYC and she was ...". Then ask your question. Just broadcasting "Someone tell me something about anything?" isn't particularly effective.
Get acquainted with a couple of other internet sites that contain relevant information. Here is a page with several such links: More Stuff & Links.
Remember that the escort may be a bit distant in the very beginning because she has at LEAST as many concerns as you do, like :
getting busted,
getting a weird/bozo client,
getting a no-show,... etc.
To keep things level, on your 1st time out go with strong local recommendations, ask for "no-tip" price for a time period for companionship, do NOT get trick with detailed questions or cool/hip lingo, and relax and tell her you're a rookie up front and just enjoy the company. She'll take care of life, don't worry about it. See TBD's Lists as a starting point in your search.
Talk w/her by phone/e-mail prior to appointment if possible. Treat her like a person, treat her like a lady. People do business with people, here even more so than the rest of the world.
If you are browsing an online message board, say what area of the country you are looking in. Ask for recommendations in that geographical area.
Read the message or review board for a while just to get the flow of how things work before posting anything. (couple weeks, if you ain't under immediate pressure).
When asking for reviews or help on a messge board, it is always a good idea to also be a contributor. Post your reviews or start off your message with "I saw Sue in NYC and she was ...". Then ask your question. Just broadcasting "Someone tell me something about anything?" isn't particularly effective.
Get acquainted with a couple of other internet sites that contain relevant information. Here is a page with several such links: More Stuff & Links.
Remember that the escort may be a bit distant in the very beginning because she has at LEAST as many concerns as you do, like :
getting busted,
getting a weird/bozo client,
getting a no-show,... etc.
To keep things level, on your 1st time out go with strong local recommendations, ask for "no-tip" price for a time period for companionship, do NOT get trick with detailed questions or cool/hip lingo, and relax and tell her you're a rookie up front and just enjoy the company. She'll take care of life, don't worry about it. See TBD's Lists as a starting point in your search.
Talk w/her by phone/e-mail prior to appointment if possible. Treat her like a person, treat her like a lady. People do business with people, here even more so than the rest of the world.
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WOW. Kcbigkid, what a great response! Thanks so much for taking my question seriously and giving such a detailed response to my novice self. I'd still like to know, how do you know if you're dealing with an escort that is "companion only" or one that will give you sex? Also, where safe sex is concerned do you bring your own condoms or do they usually have them for you? Thanks again.
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You just know
When using the online internet sites you just know that they are escorts that are true GFE ladies. Yes, they always have condoms and sorta know how to set the pace. The best bet is to do the proper reseach and only set up an appointment with somebody who has several reviews. This way you can know what quality type lady you are dealing with. What city are you in. I am sure there are many listing there.
Good Luck and happy hobbying.......................
When using the online internet sites you just know that they are escorts that are true GFE ladies. Yes, they always have condoms and sorta know how to set the pace. The best bet is to do the proper reseach and only set up an appointment with somebody who has several reviews. This way you can know what quality type lady you are dealing with. What city are you in. I am sure there are many listing there.
Good Luck and happy hobbying.......................
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