Erotic Gift Ideas?

[bigjacknyc]

I've just moved overseas and am communicating via email with a girl I used to date. We had sex a few times but didn't get to the stage where we knew each other's tastes inside and out. I hadn't really expected to keep in touch with her but it's actually pretty cool. Due to timezone differences, phone sex really isn't much of an option right now so mostly it's suggestive emails that we send each other. From time to time, I get back on business but it's quite intermittent. We're certainly not considering it a committed relationship but it is fun and interesting.

In the meantime, I'm sending her little gifts every now and then to keep things interesting. I'm trying not to be too one dimensional so I'm mixing it up - some romantic stuff (e.g. Kiehl's bubble bath), some ordinary stuff (cds and cards), and some erotic stuff.

I would really welcome any feedback from anybody who has any good suggestions on things to send her on the EROTIC front. I've sent her a book of erotica that apparently was written for a female audience (Black Lace series) and she said that she really liked it and got herself off to it. I subsequently sent her some more but I'd like to mix it up a bit. I know she already has a vibrator so I don't intend to send her another one - unless there's a particularly good one out there (not my special subject) that's a little different. I'm also trying to be a little bit imaginative and surprising. And something that definitely makes her wet.

Help please!

Many thanks in advance

 

[SecretScribe]

Well, I can only tell you one thing that has worked for me. If you know her favorite perfume, get her a bottle. If you don't know her favorite perfume (or perfumes), find out.

A good place to buy (cost-wise and decent selection) is www.perfumesforless.com and watch for their specials, particularly around the holidays. Best of luck to you.

SS

 

[tassie]

get her a rampant rabbit vibrator. special? oh yeah, ohhhhhhhhhhhh yeah,
oh GOD YEAH!!!!!

 

[Guest]

Yum - well-written erotica is always hot - have you seen the Anne Rice 3-book series? (she writes under the name Anne Roquelaure - the Claiming of Sleeping Beauty) It is nice - a nice bit of naughty reading - some spanking, light BDSM. And the rabbit vibrator -(LOL tassie) oh yeah - you can't go wrong there!!! Also, I think many women prefer to buy lingerie for themselves, but maybe a pair of pretty crotchless panties and a note saying you can't wait to see her in them? or out of them? Have fun ! Good luck!

My Stories

 

[bigjacknyc]

Thanks for the advice so far.

I think they're all good ideas. I don't think I'd have much confidence in getting her crotchless panties until I know her size so I'll definitely get them after the next visit.

RE the Rampant Rabbit, on US sites I can only find what is called the Jack Rabbit. Is that the same thing? Is that cord a pain in the ass?

 

[lilpriss]

ok, here's an idea... for an erotic gift, Send her a note and detail EXACTLY what she is to do to herself... and when you come to a part which you aren't sure if she's got the stuff for it, make that be a part of the package... and package it with each thing wrapped seperately and numbered so she won't be able to anticipate what you're doing...

For example...

Dear _______,

I miss you and want you to follow these instructions to the T. (I mean as you are reading...) Start with your clothes, I want them off... if you're reading this at work, put it up and read it when you get home. If not just strip down where you stand... Good, now take this box into the bathroom with you and put the box within reach of the tub. Now get a towel and washcloth and put it within reach too. Find package #1,2,and 3. open them. Pour yourself a glass of wine, while you run a bubble bath....

Packages 1, 2, and 3 should be a glass, wine (red should be drunk at room temp) and bubble bath. 4 should be candles and matches, etc... write the letter to suit your fantasy, this will get you off knowing she's doing it and it will get her off knowing you're getting off on it. See? Then, if you want her to take it to the bedroom, and stand in front of her open window while she dries off, put that in there... it's your game boy! Have fun with it!

 

[bigjacknyc]

Lilpriss, that is soooo cool! Thankyou.

 

[Laineforfun]

OMG lilpriss that is the most awsome idea I have ever heard. I red your post to my s/o and he thought it was great also. I think any woman or man would be very impressed to recieve such a great gift as you have described. Thank you for such a great idea. You deserve a dozen 's




Laine

 

[lilpriss]

Wow, thanks guys! I think that would be a cool thing to receive... <sigh> and it would be really fun to send out too. It doesn't even have to cost that much, or it could be really expensive.

I've also made coupon books in the past for lovers. Things like "this coupon good for one (1) back massage..."
"this coupon good for one (1) blowjob" whatever strikes your mood. I would start them off pretty innocent and work into x-rated.

I love doing fun stuff like that.

 

[bigjacknyc]

Gift vouchers are good too. I'll save them for closer to the next time we're to be together.

I've got something together though on your first thought about writing her a letter telling her exactly what to do. I'd appreciate some advice though.

At the moment, I have it so that initially I'm telling her what to do - how to undress, where to touch etc. Somewhere in the middle it kind of morphs into a description of a virtual situation where I'm there with her - describing things I'd be doing to her - backrub, breaking into oral sex, then breaking into full on sex. It's not just mechanical though - throughout I'm telling her how sexy I find her, describing her touch, how she makes me feel, how good she looks and how good she is feeling etc. I think there's plenty of mentally stimulating imagery there. As women, do you think that's the best way to go or should I just stick to telling her what to do?

I'm also a little nervous about sending such a thing. I know she's pretty adventurous sexually but I've never done anything like this before. Particularly, the graphic talk about fucking and sucking. I think she'll go for it but...

 

[Laineforfun]

I think you should go with what you like bigjacknyc. I personally like both but what you have came up with sounds really great. Give her something to visualize while pleasing herself. Good luck

 

[lilpriss]

I agree with Laine... it sounds like you let yourself go with it. It's easier for me to climax if I am imagining someone there with me. I think she'll love it, especially if she's into reading erotica.

 

[bondage_philosopher]

Pink, furry handcuffs. They can be taken as sort of a joke that you can laugh about or you can use them sometime. Think about it.