erotic dancing

Nicole450

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The other night my boyfriend wanted me to dance for him and I had no idea where to start. I would like to know how to turn a guy on and suprise him the next time i see him. . .any help would be greatly appreciated!
 
I Agree With GulfCoastAquarian

But Rave Music?

Let's Just Say It Would NOT Be My Choice:)

I guess I'm Supposed Ta Help Here Or Something, Right?

Well, I Would Say You Should Rent & Watch, True Lies & 9 1/2 weeks:)

The Scene Where Jamie Lee Curtis Dances In The Hotel Room Is Not Only Highly Amusing! But Holds Some Excellent & Easy Moves.

I Once Reenacted The Strip Scene From 91/2 Weeks Fer My Husband & It Was A HUGE Success ~WG~

Music Is THE KEY Though. Ya Gotta Find Something That Makes You WANNA Dance! Makes Your Hips & Body Undulate...Makes His Mind Go Into Trance Mode!... & Is On The Medium To Long Side ( You Would Be Surprised How Short The Songs Can Be, When Yer Doing The Strip:))
 
Ask a professional

Go to some of the strip clubs and watch the dancers. Perhaps even pay one to give you some private lessons.
 
Erotic Dancing

Nicole450 said:
Nicole baby,sure you need the right music but mostly you need the right frame of mind.Sexy is as sexy feels.You have to feel completely unhibited.Remember this is your man and you are just spicing things up for the next dance.If you can get him to join in.Nothing like being a member of the cast.Try it you'll like it and dont knock it if you haven't
 
Erotic Dancing Do's

Select music that you would like to make love to. Wear clothes that make you feel sensual. Place your lover in a comfortable position (bed, chair, floor, whatever).

Start with a slow, sensual rhythm for yourself. Get comfortable.

Then begin to touch yourself lightly as though you're going to make love to yourself in front of them.

Gradually, move from touching yourself to touching them, but first start with every part of your body excluding your hands, feet and mouth.

At first, touch every part of their body but the sexy parts.

Then, slowly graduate to the sexy parts with your sexy parts, losing clothes as you go.

The slower, the better.

If the music isn't long enough, little breaks are okay. In this situation, you can have fun announcing about taking your dance to the 'next level.'

Most of all, have fun using your dance as a way turn on your lover.

- Judo

[Edited by JUDO on 05-26-2001 at 11:29 AM]
 
I love doing erotic dancing; it is such a nice change of pace. I would love to have a male do some for me which has never happened...ANY VOLUNTEERS? :)

But anyway a few tips:
- it's best if you're very secure and confident with your body and with dancing; if not it would be a little tougher for you and you would probably not relax as well causing you not to be able to feel erotic and express that naturally

- think creatively about how you'll dress before stripping; for example one time I was in a full professional business attire and completely surprised a partner by dancing to three different songs and stripping down to a teddy and garters; another time I was dressed in formal attire..long dress, hair up, heels, jewelry the whole nine yards and stripped eventually to nothing

- choosing music should first something you feel good about moving to and enjoy then secondly if possible also from a genre that he likes or enjoys; For example, being in my 30's and a rock fan I find 70's 80's 90's rock easiest to perform to; just suggestions I've use ZZ Top, Sharp Dressed Man; Loverboy, Lov'in Every Minute of It; Cherry Poppin' Daddies, Zoot Suit Riot; Loverbory, Queen of the Broken Hearts; Prince, Erotic City, Little Red Corvette, U Got the Look...just a few examples

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watch a movie

and not a porn movie either - 9 and 1/2 weeks was good - liked the ice cube!! and the song is VERY important - sets the mood - sexy and teasing - or sultry and seductive - needs the music to set the mood!!!!

j
 
Best exotic dancer I ever saw was dancing to "November Rain" by Guns N' Roses

I'd say what these folks have left out is confidence. Have confidence in yourself and that you turn him on. Your eyes and body should tell him "I'm the sexiest thing you'll see tonight." I guarantee that you could wear anything and if you have a sexy attitude, it will be hot. But dress sexy anyway!


Derya, I'll dance for you!
 
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