Enabling the Disabled both Sexually & Professionally

socalfunding

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I am 53years old and I have never been married. I was formerly a senior purchasing agent in the defense industry, drawing a comfortable salary in the mid-forties. Then the end of the Cod War and the on-set of Multiple Sclerosis combined to end my professional career and sexual capabilities. Once the two thousand dollar pay-days, and nightly erections stoped, all my lady friends moved on to greener or more capable pasturies. Not one even asked, if their was any thing they could do to help.

In truth there was much they could have done at the time. But some female companionship, empathy, and an occasional blow-job would have helped. As it is I have not been able to have sex with anyone since 1997.

I have fixed the career income problem. I now receive SSDI and a VA disability pension, and I have two commercial web sites under construction, which will produce $500 to $700 per month each.

I have found help with the sexual problem at the Loma Linda University Hospital. Last week they gave me a prescription for CAVAJECT, which produces a pharmacological erection, which is every bit as good as the natural one was. In fact its better in one respect, an injection of .3 to .5 ml produces an erection of 3 to 4 hours duration, even with sex.

However; their is a long term helth risk involved with its prolonged use. The ideal solution is a penile implant. That is the topic I would like to introduce for discussion.
Have any female members, had sex with a man that had such a device. I would like to get a woman's prospective and view of this decision, because it is not reversable, so I will have a forever hard-on.

I would like to know what you ladies thought of it. How did it look and feel inside you, and did it improve the duration and quality of the sexual experience.

Best Wishes, David L. Warner
E-Mail:(socalfunding@earthlink.net)
 
Hi David...

Congratulations on taking so many postive steps to reassemble your life in the wake of MS. I think that's fantastic.

I'm sorry I can't be of more help. I've never been with a man who has a penile implant. Not because I wouldn't want to, but because nobody who has one ever asked me out in my dating days (that I know of). Similarly, I have also never dated someone in a wheelchair.

Maybe somebody else will be along who can lend a hand, but I suspect that you may get more questions than answers here :)

Good luck making this decision.
 
If you check with the rehab center (there are several excellent ones in your area) they often have support groups.
I had one patient tell me he was glad he did it and his wife was holding his hand grinning at him. Good Luck to you David.
 
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