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I am looking for an emotional affair. I want to feel that rush. I want to feel swept away. I want deep passionate kisses that set me in fire. I want that feeling of wanting that person around all the time, unable to wait to talk to them again. I want passion. Emotion. I want to be desired and wanted. And more than that, I want to desire and want you too.

Not the flash in the pan kind, but a long lasting, constantly rekindling emotional affair.

Pm me if you are looking for the same.
 
Good luck - I'm afraid you may have to wade through some riff raff in your search, but I hope you find what you are looking for!
 
I wish you luck. You would have better luck where you live than here. But life is what you make it. Only you can make it better.
 
I am looking for an emotional affair. I want to feel that rush. I want to feel swept away. I want deep passionate kisses that set me in fire. I want that feeling of wanting that person around all the time, unable to wait to talk to them again. I want passion. Emotion. I want to be desired and wanted. And more than that, I want to desire and want you too.

Not the flash in the pan kind, but a long lasting, constantly rekindling emotional affair.

Pm me if you are looking for the same.

If you can get through the bullshit and those who pretend to be what they are not. I assure you from experiance an amazing love can be found here. Its not easy but it can be worth it.
Good luck ;)
 
If you can get through the bullshit and those who pretend to be what they are not. I assure you from experiance an amazing love can be found here. Its not easy but it can be worth it.
Good luck ;)


Ashley that was so nice of you...and so truthful as well !
 
So a small note to those sending me a pm...if you say that you're not sure you're right for me, then I feel there's no other option but to not respond. Wouldn't it be better to take a chance, be positive and see for certain? :)
 
Good luck - I'm afraid you may have to wade through some riff raff in your search, but I hope you find what you are looking for!

Oh I have been here on Lit for a few years. I'm just being more open and honest than I have been. With myself and with others. But thank you for the warning.

If you can get through the bullshit and those who pretend to be what they are not. I assure you from experiance an amazing love can be found here. Its not easy but it can be worth it.
Good luck ;)

Thanks! :)

you're probably on the wrong site. I've been lucky enough to chat to some amazing guys on here but we're all martied. if you're looking for love a dating website where you pay a small subscription woud be a better bet. cuts out a lot of the messers.

How do you know I haven't?
 
Hi I have had many affairs and enjoyed them but rules must be laid first.. Great sex..
 
I am looking for an emotional affair. I want to feel that rush. I want to feel swept away. I want deep passionate kisses that set me in fire. I want that feeling of wanting that person around all the time, unable to wait to talk to them again. I want passion. Emotion. I want to be desired and wanted. And more than that, I want to desire and want you too.

Not the flash in the pan kind, but a long lasting, constantly rekindling emotional affair.

Pm me if you are looking for the same.


Hope you meet someone special...it is a beautiful thing...:rose:
 
I am looking for an emotional affair. I want to feel that rush. I want to feel swept away. I want deep passionate kisses that set me in fire. I want that feeling of wanting that person around all the time, unable to wait to talk to them again. I want passion. Emotion. I want to be desired and wanted. And more than that, I want to desire and want you too.

Not the flash in the pan kind, but a long lasting, constantly rekindling emotional affair.

Pm me if you are looking for the same.

So I've been starting to chat some in here and I am in search for someone to chat with, explore our deepest desires, be someone that can be confided in and have someone that grows as a friends and see what happens. Wow that was a ridiculously long run on sentence.

Anyways don't hesitate to hit me up if you want to take a chance on a perv like me!
 
I've been having an online emotional affair with my best friend for almost 14 years now!
We used to talk hot and heavy all day every day, but now it's just a few times a week. And I still love him today as mush as I did all those years ago.

Sometimes it's just what you need to have someone there for you.

Very well said PG.
Its a lonely world huh?
 
I've been having an online emotional affair with my best friend for almost 14 years now!
We used to talk hot and heavy all day every day, but now it's just a few times a week. And I still love him today as mush as I did all those years ago.

Sometimes it's just what you need to have someone there for you.
Agree - it can happen since all people want just that if they don't already have it.
 
I've been having an online emotional affair with my best friend for almost 14 years now!
We used to talk hot and heavy all day every day, but now it's just a few times a week. And I still love him today as mush as I did all those years ago.

Sometimes it's just what you need to have someone there for you.

Exactly. This is exactly what I need.
 
Stop searching for it and just keep an open mind as you chat with new people. The best cyber affairs with the deepest emotional connections are those which catch you completely off guard and in the moment. That was my experience anyway.
 
Emotional affairs can be amazing, but if you can or will never express those emotions in person, what is the point? I have talked with many women who wanted their emotional support and their hearts made to flutter, but then they were never willing to move beyond words on a screen or a voice on the line. If you feel such strong emotions why would you not be willing to express them fully? I find so many people saying they are looking for an emotional affair are really just looking to get their emotional needs taken care of without fully taking care of their partner. It all seems rather selfish.
 
Emotional affairs can be amazing, but if you can or will never express those emotions in person, what is the point? I have talked with many women who wanted their emotional support and their hearts made to flutter, but then they were never willing to move beyond words on a screen or a voice on the line. If you feel such strong emotions why would you not be willing to express them fully? I find so many people saying they are looking for an emotional affair are really just looking to get their emotional needs taken care of without fully taking care of their partner. It all seems rather selfish.

Cool response asshole. The lady is bearing her soul, willing to be vulnerable with her emotions and needs, and you call her selfish. Some daddy you must be.
 
Cool response asshole. The lady is bearing her soul, willing to be vulnerable with her emotions and needs, and you call her selfish. Some daddy you must be.

I am unable to see the portion of my post where I spoke directly to the OP's selfishness but I am sure someone with the kind of high level processing ability that allows for the third word of their post to be an insult will point it out to me. I give an honest response based on past experiences expressing how I have seen the situations being discussed play out and you jump on me because the word selfish was used. I am thinking that you jumped in because of your own problems and issues.

In the future try not to redirect your issues onto others. It is not a quality most people seek, especially those looking to have all their emotional boxes checked without vacating their comfort zone. But I am sure the rest of your emotional issues make you an amazing person to be around. I bet this white knight behavior makes you the envy of everyone you meet.
 
Emotional sexual affair

For me, emotional sexual affair is the best. It's dangerous however.

I am looking for an emotional affair. I want to feel that rush. I want to feel swept away. I want deep passionate kisses that set me in fire. I want that feeling of wanting that person around all the time, unable to wait to talk to them again. I want passion. Emotion. I want to be desired and wanted. And more than that, I want to desire and want you too.

Not the flash in the pan kind, but a long lasting, constantly rekindling emotional affair.

Pm me if you are looking for the same.
 
Emotional affairs can be amazing, but if you can or will never express those emotions in person, what is the point? I have talked with many women who wanted their emotional support and their hearts made to flutter, but then they were never willing to move beyond words on a screen or a voice on the line. If you feel such strong emotions why would you not be willing to express them fully? I find so many people saying they are looking for an emotional affair are really just looking to get their emotional needs taken care of without fully taking care of their partner. It all seems rather selfish.

I'll be the one to point out where one could assume you were calling me selfish: the last sentence of your post. The first time I read it, I took it personally. The second time, I realized that you're speaking in general terms..."so many people".

BUT!

Please see the part where I ask to hear from men who are looking for the same thing.

The very simple and basic implication being that I am more than willing to give as much, and as my life history has shown, MORE than I get. For me it's about mutual support, emotional needs being taken care on both sides, being willing to not only be accepting and loving towards another person who opens up to you, but also be willing to open up yourself.

I am also ready and willing to express those emotions in person, if the chemistry and desire is there. And I have.

I think you're speaking to your own experiences and frustrations in your response to me. They are my experiences and frustrations as well. Which is why I have asked for someone who is looking for the same. In hopes that both of us have our needs met.
 
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