Edging so hard that it starts to hurt?

[Rugburn349]

I become a little obsessed with edging sometimes. As great as climax is, the steady, constant build is the most addictive part. However, I run into a problem when I’ve gone too long where I have a profound pain in my urethra after peeing.

I’m not sure if it’s related to the prostate, or maybe the urethra itself being irritated. I wouldn’t mind a little pain, and perhaps it would even enhance the denial aspect of the edging, but it’s pretty extreme and won’t go away until I cum (and the pain lasts like 30 minutes to an hour after still) or if I pee enough times (and large enough amounts.) it can result in having the sensation to pee every 5 minutes, and it’s pretty hard to deal with if not at the comfort of home.

I’ve steered clear of outright edging for the time being, but was curious if anyone else ran into similar problems. I go days or even weeks without touching myself, and that’s fine, but any degree of masturbation without completion after going for a while brings the problem back.

 

[leftwantingmore]

IMHO. Easy fix... Always end your edging session with an ejaculation. Always. For me edging is about the pleasure of the buildup. Never about denial of climax. After all the pleasure of the long slow buildup, why would I NOT cum? It's the "cherry on top".

 

[IARainman]

IMHO. Easy fix... Always end your edging session with an ejaculation. Always. For me edging is about the pleasure of the buildup. Never about denial of climax. After all the pleasure of the long slow buildup, why would I NOT cum? It's the "cherry on top".

For me, sometimes it's a let down, all that build, the slick hardness, gone.

 

[leftwantingmore]

For me, sometimes it's a let down, all that build, the slick hardness, gone.

I get that, because it's the end of the pleasure. The op is getting himself "backed up, clogged if you will". Then that denial causes him pain. Me, I don't like pain. For me pain is not sexy. Growing up I always delayed my orgasm. With a man or a woman, I wanted to make their pleasure and mine last as long as possible.
Also, after 2 to 4 hours of edging, if I didn't cum I would not be able to get to sleep.