eating womens pussy

[jmanwo7265]

There was couple of time when I went to eat out a girl and she would not let me. Why is that ladies????? I was surprise that they said no. That is like the best thing on this earth and they would not let me. If you there is any ladies out there that does not like it, tell me why????

 

[Nicodemus]

Check out the Spit Or Swallow thread; I bumped it to the top for you. It was started in reference to oral for men but became a general discussion of oral sex. The women chimed in quite throughly on both sides of the argument so that might give you some insite.

 

[wildrose69]

Well I for one cant imagine any women in their right minds not liking oral sex..to me it's the only way I usually cum...but then some women find oral sex on a man repulsive too....I think some women worry about their odor or offending a man.... or they think it's not natural.....but hey anytime I get the chance I'm all for it!!! Love it!!!!

 

[Sabineteas]

Oral

Women think in funny ways.
Do I smell?
I think I look funny or ugly there and don't want anyone to see me.
Do I taste good?

None of this has any meaning for the right man or woman, but it still can make us feel uncomfortable. And if you are uncomfortable, it is very difficult to relax.

My first time experiencing a man performing oral sex on my was all of those things and I was so tense, it was hard to relax and enjoy. I had worked all day, felt hot and sweaty, all in all not feeling very attractive. But he seemed to enjoy it. I did not come, but got wet enough for other things to happen, so I pulled him up and well, let's say he was "Up to the task at hand"<laughing>.

Guys, just realize that sometimes we don't feel attractive and I for one, when I am not feeling that I am clean and sweet down there, really don't want someone down there. I always wonder what he/she is thinking and usually I am thinking of the bad things that could be in their heads.

Do I enjoy oral sex? Yes at the right time and place and with the right partner. It's just that sometimes it isn't the right time and place.

 

[fantac64]

I personally feel that there are many reasons for a women to refuse oral. Number one, she's never had it done or never had it done by someone that knows what their doing. Number two, she made have had a bad experience that left, if you pardon the pun, a nasty taste for it. Three, you have to recognize and accept the environment factor. Perhaps she was raised that it is dirty. You have to go with the flow. Give her what she wants and know what your doing or it may never happen again.

 

[bearlee]

Judging by your writing, if you talk the way you write, sounds like you have no tongue or it's all twisted up-that may explain it! :

 

[fantac64]

I believe that you have answered your own question. Doubt not, my friend, I have no problem in that department. EVER

 

[jmanwo7265]

ha ha ha

bearlee, you did not answer the question at hand. You just thought it would be funny to cut me down. joke is on you,
asshole. Sabineteas I like your answer, thank you. This has only happen to me 3 times. THe first time, I headed down there and before I started, she was like NO. That was the end of it. I never ask her about it. She was very hairy in the department, maybe that is why. If you would like to hear about the rest, let me know.

 

[sexyspank]

Know The Woman

I think you have to know what the woman is feeling.Emotionally sexually etc....We all like different things at different times.Experience tells you how when...


Wendy

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Untill you get really inside someones sensual head there could be dozens of reasons why??????

Were these women you had spent sensual time with before....sometimes people like to get to know their partner before face to body oral?????

Do you have a clean shaven face? Some women get rashed if there is two much facial hair being rubbed on them. Hair conditioner is good to use on a beard as it keeps it soft to places that are sensitive to the touch.

 

[dertyoleman]

eating out

Hi , just a thought on eating pussy and your offer being declined !! I dont recall a time when , after spending long and delightful periods kissing a ladies legs from bottom to top, inside and out, front and back, that the final slow light trailing of my tounge along the inside of her thighs didnt result in those thighs spreading almost involuntarily. I think that given enough teasing almost any lady will succumb to to that treatment, regardless!!

 

[sexyspank]

Emotional needs

Why don't you consider a womans emotional needs.as well as her sexual needs. At a given time she may love oral sex but understand what she is feeling at the time.It is not a case of " I like it " or " I don't like it" It's more complex than that





Wendy

 

[dertyoleman]

It dosent make any sense to get into an oral sex situation if the lady just needs a hug. Maybe the gentleman who raised the question rushes into the situation too rapidly and should consider
his strategy. Maybe he is using oral sex as a priliminary act of foreplay in a desperate attempt to get her panties off so that he can get his end into her...........Just a thought!!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Maybe the gentleman who raised the question rushes into the situation too rapidly and should consider
his strategy............Just a thought!!

Good point, check the signals from the lady, it might not be because of "you". It might be she wants a few more cuddles or sensual tenderness.

First horse out of the gate does not always win ;

 

[bearlee]

jamnwo7265

Man, lighten it up, it's Thanksgiving for crying out loud. You win, I'm sorry-poor taste, no pun intended, but I think someone else brought it up once. Maybe that's the problem, she's not sure how she tastes. I know my fiancee knows because she puts in her fingers in her mouth sometimes when masturbating. My guess is if you move slowly and sensually toward the target you'll have all kinds of luck. Besides, you don't say how many attempts you've made, but if only three times someone didn't want it, then maybe it's just not there cup of tea-nothing to do with you at all. Not sure how the joke is on me, but I have an idea. Anyway, chill out and be

 

[Guest]

Extremely intimate.........

My personal observation is...........

There is NOTHING more intimate than peforming oral sex with your partner. I honestly believe this surpases intercourse in true uninhibited, unselfish intimacy.

Commiting oneself to a purposeful oral pleasuring, either in giving or in receiving....is giving of oneself in more ways than one.

The pleasure for me at least, is in knowing that I have given my partner pleasure....extreme pleasure, and extremely satisfying joy. To simply lick...and think you've performed the required duty so that someone will reciprocate....is not only degrading and selfish, but you are not willing to be vulnerable for your partner and visa versa. Being vulnerable, honest, open and willing to do whatever it takes to pleasure and satisfy the person your with is the penultimate experience if you are willing to allow it to be.

There is nothing more beautiful than a woman's pussy, taking the time to look at it, appreciate it, and drink from it is pure paradise.

To sleep.........perchance to dream - William Shakespear

I remain........

 

[fantac64]

extremely Intimate

I couldn't have said it better myself. Well done, thesandman.

 

[tonnie53]

Hey there! Just the fact that you care enough to ask the question can mean a lot to some of us ladies. Need I even mention that we can be rather unpredictable and confusing at times?

I love it when my husband goes down on me, but there are times when a woman isn't feeling "all that" down there. I don't necessarily mean she's feeling dirty or smelly, but there can be times when, (even with the right prompting, kissing, etc), that our senses are just not up to par. My husband can bring me off FAST, if he wanted to, but there are times when, no-matter how hard the poor fella tries, it's just not working. That's when I love to just have a hard, hot quickie..pleasure for us both without all the work. Good luck on your next try.

 

[Nicodemus]

TheSandMan

Just wanted to say.......hear, hear.

There is nothing like going down on a woman and bringing her to orgasm. It should be treated like the gift it is. Both in terms of your giving here the pleasure but also in terms of how much she is opening her self up to you in that act.

Nothing like it in this world.

Nic,
*an admitted oral addict......if that is being wrong, I don't want to be right!*