Shy_Introverted_D_Type
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Hello!
Thanks for dropping by!
WARNING: LONG. (r u lik, "tl;dr"? kthxbai! lol)
First, some disclaimers and logistical notes...
I am seeking a female who self-identifies - among other things, and in no particular order - as...
["Must-Have List"...]
["Exclusions List" - Apologies to anyone offended - not my intent!]
Mutual consideration would be a multi-stage process, with few initial obligations on anyone's part, and - were it to "play all the way through" - would be neither quick nor easy for either of us. Desired end-state relationship would be mutually desired to be/ presumed as, at minimum...
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I look forward to the private messages of those who choose to respond. For those who chose otherwise... At minimum, Thank You for reading!
Hello!
Thanks for dropping by! WARNING: LONG. (r u lik, "tl;dr"? kthxbai! lol)
First, some disclaimers and logistical notes...
- For those who may take issue with my following "ad" - which will likely prove controversial to some... Please note that I am of the firm belief that...
- All (T)PE-oriented relationships should be founded on a basis of well-informed advance consent;
- Relevant key decisions on anyone's part should not be made in information "vacuums", as such rarely ends well;
- Sophisticated, high-value service cannot be consistently provided over time without adequate care and maintenance/ "feeding", including but not limited to TLC and before/ aftercare,
- The lattermost, in particular, applies far more so to people than things; and
- I do notself-identify as a predator - at least in the "non-kinky", serious/ malignant/ malicious sense of the term - as, among other things, throughout any prerequisite mutual consideration/ courtship process, I (fully intend to),...
- (i) Make my intentions reasonably clear/ known in advance (i.e., enables informed advance consent); and
- (ii) Provide multiple/ adequate (IMO) opportunities for the other to exercise their self-sovereignty, including/ not limited to multiple "tollgate"/ "stage advancement"/ "check-in" events where the key decision whether to advance or end is theirs.]
- All (T)PE-oriented relationships should be founded on a basis of well-informed advance consent;
- None of the below should be presumed complete/ comprehensive/ exhaustive,
- Read: "more later", if we get that far,
- Corollary: Some noteworthy items have been intentionally withheld/ reserved for later private conversation; and
- Everything herein is subject to periodic update/ revision, as proven necessary/ desirable,
- Read: Nothing herein should be mistaken to be any form of "Holy Bible".
I am seeking a female who self-identifies - among other things, and in no particular order - as...
["Must-Have List"...]
- TPE-oriented
- e.g., Prefers "Black and White" over "Fifty Shades of Grey" (figuratively-speaking)
- Service-oriented
- e.g., obtains/ derives joy from providing services of various types towards/ for others
- Holistic bottom
- "Full-spectrum" - e.g., not circumstance-limited (i.e., "in the bedroom only")
- Is not attracted to the prospect of being either a switch or dominant
- Domestically-oriented (or is attracted to prospect of same)
- Feminine-presenting (or is attracted to prospect of same)
- Profoundly deviant/ perverted/ corrupted (ditto previous)
- At least moderately "hermetic"/ isolationist (ditto previous)
- At least psychologically (e.g., regardless of location or setting)
- e.g., Prefers no/ fewer neighbors, not being socially active, not leaving the house often ("indoors-y" type preferred)
- Highly values the concept of personal privacy (both giving and receiving)
- Not the "easy" type
- Is "discriminating"; doesn't enter into relationships quickly/ easily
- Doesn't self-identify as sexually promiscuous, and is not attracted to the idea of becoming promiscuous
- (Has) some personally-owned electronic device other than a smartphone, by which they can safely/ securely conduct their end of any relevant online conversation (at least as text-only)
- Values at-length text-only conversations
- e.g., something more closely resembling "mutual letters" than real-time millennial-style, smartphone-oriented chat
- Attracted to the possibility of "having their world shrunk" to only that of their Owner, their Owner's household, and their Owner's Will for them
- Some degree of psychological/ mental/ emotional/ romantic masochist (or is attracted to prospect of same)
- A non-smoker, non-abuser of (any other) addictive substances, and no greater than an occasional social drinker
- Also, I'm not 420-friendly - sorry (not sorry)!
- Also, I'm not 420-friendly - sorry (not sorry)!
- Otherwise takes reasonably-decent care of themselves
- Not seeking a supermodel... Although wouldn't reject an otherwise compatible supermodel, either...
- Not seeking a supermodel... Although wouldn't reject an otherwise compatible supermodel, either...
- Decently educated, regardless of means
- e.g., Somehow continued learning - "by hook or crook" - after getting at least a high school diploma/ GED
- Extra special brownie points if you have (at least) a 4 year college degree
- Can conduct their end of a text-oriented conversation with best efforts to achieve at least a US high-school graduate level of grammar/ punctuation/ syntax (occasional mistakes forgiven, of course)...
- Owned (as I would later clarify the term - "more later", if we get that far), and
- Highly-valued by their Owner... In no small measure because they were/ are compatible with all of the above.
["Exclusions List" - Apologies to anyone offended - not my intent!]
- Above Age 55
- BMI Class II Obese or Greater
- e.g., BMI is 35.0 or greater - relevant calculator, if you're unsure/ don't know
- Any form of addictive-substance abuser/ addict
- All such substances are forbidden in my home
- There would be few-to-zero opp'ties for (anyone) you (know) to "sneak such in"
- I lack the energy/ skill/ patience to deal with a "junkie in withdrawal"
- Large amounts of and/or highly conspicuous body art/ tattoos
- Includes tattoos on the face, hand, and majority of arms/ legs (e.g., "sleeves")
- Very few + small + discrete are OK
- If unsure... Ask, while providing details
- (Have) "Exotic" irremovable body piercings/ related body jewelry that you're unwilling to (have) remove(d)/ permanently stop wearing
- Includes tongue and/or high number / size of ear piercings (including bars)
- e.g., If, after removing all your piercings, your head would whistle like a thrown wiffle ball when you walk... We're not a match.
- Married to, in any committed intimate relationship with, in any from of thrall to, or otherwise currently taken by, another human male
- "Wedded" to their job/ career
- e.g., Could never see themselves leaving it, regardless of circumstance
- (Otherwise) Proudly post-modern (/ third-/fourth-wave) feminist
- See above apology if apoplectic-ly offended...
- "Wedded" to their dander-shedding pet
- I have relevant allergies - sorry (not sorry)!
- I have relevant allergies - sorry (not sorry)!
- In any form of financial or other material form of hardship
- e.g., Seeking rent, sugar daddy, shelter ("in a hurry"), etc.
- Self-identify as psychologically immature, or not sufficiently self-confident to make your own decisions
- I would need you to be able to Own both your your past decisions, and confidently Own any decisions you make during any mutual consideration/ courtship process
- Highly active in any political, religious, and/or social organizations (and would plan on continue being such in any mutually-agreed end-state relationship)
- Whether in-person or online
- (See: "I'm an isolationist/ highly-private". Hard to be that when also being (with) an activist... )
- Addicted to social media
- e.g., Unwilling to give it up, regardless of circumstance
- Extra special bonus brownie points if you can't be found on any of the major platforms...
- (Proudly) "Bratty" by nature (kink-oriented or otherwise)
- Sexually insatiable
- I lack unlimited energy, and will not knowingly "share my toys" with outsiders
- (A) "Size queen"
- I'm of average sexual endowment. It works... At least with/ after pills.
- If that's not enough for you... Your interests are better served elsewhere.
- I'm of average sexual endowment. It works... At least with/ after pills.
- Having had a penis when born
- See above apology if TG/ TS/ CD/ gender dysphoric/ etc.
- Never open to (their) potential (at least eventual) physical/ IRL relocation, regardless of circumstance
- Would insist on frequent/ close contact with others outside their Owner's household, if/ once Owned
- Exceptions exist - "more later", if we get that far
- A known desire/ intent to "own their Owner", "top from the bottom", etc., if/ once Owned
- e.g., Intends to intentionally set constraints on their then-Owner above/ beyond previously-agreed hard limits
Mutual consideration would be a multi-stage process, with few initial obligations on anyone's part, and - were it to "play all the way through" - would be neither quick nor easy for either of us. Desired end-state relationship would be mutually desired to be/ presumed as, at minimum...
- In-person,
- Under a common roof, and
- "For Life" (e.g., no contracted/ scheduled end-date).
)I look forward to the private messages of those who choose to respond. For those who chose otherwise... At minimum, Thank You for reading!
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